This is what happens whenever i don't talk to her she says Katie why are you mad at me and i didn't even do anything? And before this she said that she wanted me to jump off a bridge and break my neck and die. And she's always sending me messages and i've also deleted her from my contacts list. She always bothers me in school too!!!!!!!! Why is she bothering me so much?
2007-03-25 05:55:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She wants attention from you.
2007-03-25 05:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That so-called 'friendship' has become toxic. She's playing mind games with you and needs to make other friends.
Tell her to stop sending you messages and bothering you at school. You might even suggest she get counselling for her behaviour. A true friend would never do this to you, and certainly would not wish you dead. Avoid this person until you see any kind of improvement in her behaviour. If you respond to messages or telephone calls at the moment, it will encourage her to keep contacting you.
If you really cannot see a way that this friendship can be mended..tell her so and make it clear that you do not wish any further contact from her.
2007-03-25 06:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you obviously don't like her but i don't think she gets that. I guess shes one of those people who dont care what they say or how it can impact someone. She might be trying to use you to try to make someone else be jealous she is just not doing it very well.instead of just not talking to her it might wise to tell her how you feel and that maybe you would consider being her freind but that she wouldn't be able to treat you like dirt because sometimes people treat other people badly out of frustration of a bad thing that is happening in there life. But since she told she wanted you to die i dont thik she is going to be a very good freind in the long run and so you might want to stop any freindship between you at all right now so that she gets it. And maybe she will learn how to be a good freind. I mean since she keeps bothering you it means she likes you so try to introduce her to other people and if she says something drasticly mean like that again like i want to kill you i would tell a parent or teacher cause she needs help with some anger issues, also try not to do things that might get her mad and cause the problem
Best of luck with your freind have a great week!
2007-03-25 06:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by best answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds insecure and desperate for your attention and approval. I couldn't tell you why she got like that, maybe her parents or family neglected her when she was younger or rather she's had trouble making friends in school. It's annoying, I know because I have friends like this too... Only they don't threaten to break my neck. But try to understand how she's feeling. Let her know you need your space, and you'd come out and tell her if you were mad. Obviously this girl is a little sensitive, so just don't be rude or mean. It sounds like she's experienced a lot of rejection in life.
2007-03-25 06:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you haven't told her "listen, you're a bit too clingy for my tastes. Plus there's that whole jump off a bridge and break my neck and die thing; that's a dealbreaker. Why don't you go talk to someone that you don't wish would die?"
2007-03-25 05:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if she's your friend, it makes sense that she wants to talk to you. Tell her that the comment about the bridge her your feelings and that you don't want to talk to her if she's going to say things like that. I think you really need to talk to her in person and sort these things out.
2007-03-25 05:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like your "friend" is a psycho freak----i would never stay friends with some one who told me to jump off a bridge and break my neck and die......omg forget her and never make contact with her again!!!
2007-03-25 05:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 13 and that i positioned on briefs too under my clothing yet i sleep bare i think of you may tell him its none of your enterprise what undies you place on and besides in the adventure that your mom buys it you dont have a decision so if he doesnt like donning briefs then he could positioned on some thing else yet he shouldnt in simple terms tease you each and all the time
2016-12-19 13:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by barrecchia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...she is your friend. either ignore it or tell her to leave you alone, if she couldn't get the hint when you stopped talking to her and deleted her from your contact list.
why couldn't you figure this out on your own????unless your like 1 year old then i'm sure you know how to talk.
2007-03-25 06:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by cupcaek. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a jerk that isn't your friend. you should talk to her and tell her why you want her to back off. if she doesnt listen, just stop hanging out with her/ignore her.
and btw, if she ever threatens you, tell someone. you could get her in trouble and maybe she will leave you alone =)
2007-03-25 05:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if shes really your friend then you would talk to her... if its just one of those days where your not in the mood to talk then tell her... if you dont like her then you have to tell her or she will keep harassing you ....but be nice about it ...tell her you r angry about what she said.... maybe she bothers you cuz she doesnt have any more friends help her find new friends...i hope this helps...good luck
2007-03-25 06:03:06 · answer #11 · answered by pinksolveseverything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋