Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month an a week.We both often joke about our ex's and stuff and i dont like it when he jokes about his and he dosen't like it when i joke about mine..I also often find myself just wondering about him because he has cheated on quite a few of his previous girlfriends. I trust him but i think im scared of really letting myself like him as much as i want to because i don't want to start liking him like alot alot and then have him cheat on me. I don't want to feel that way because i know that he woulden't cheat on me but im just scared of liking him alot.
2007-03-25 05:48:56 · 18 answers · asked by Tattianna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As much as you don't want to admit it, you know that you don't really trust him 100%. You've saw him hurt other girls, why be the next one? I know you don't look at things like this when you're the one dating the guy and it's hard to look at it like that when you're the one dating this guy. Just step back and look at it the way someone else would...you can see that this guy you're with is a heart breaker. The only think that's going to happen by being with him is constant wonder 'will he break me heart today?' Just be careful! And no one likes the idea of their boyfriend or girlfriend with someone else, that's what makes bringing the ex's into the picture a big deal to you two. Maybe because your ex broke your heart and honestly, no one wants to deal with the pain and hurt of an ended relationship that once meant so much. Just be careful, you might thank yourself later if you have the will to let go of him now. You'll make the right choice. It's your heart, pick your fate wisely!
2007-03-25 05:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, If you want somthing in this life, you kust have to go and get up and get it. You said you trust him, now trust your heart.
Although if he has cheated a number of times and jokes about it , it may give you some insight as to what type of man he really is. Who knows, he probably will cheat on you too and brag about that to the next gullable female he comes accross and says he loves, and yes you will be hurt.
But if you really thinj you love him, by all means go for it.
If he does hurt you, just dust yourself down and pick up the peices and keep on wailking.
Hope all turns out well and you make the right choice.
Cheers
Slamdunk
2007-04-02 03:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Slamdunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know the answer to your question don't you?
Come on girl! You really don't have trust in him and that is natural.
you have seen him hurting others and you are wise enough to understand that this may happen to you too.
If you don't trust him get out of this relationship before you fall in love with him because if you start loving him you won't be able to stop it even if you want and then like it or not you will be the next girl he will cheat on
Good Luck
2007-04-02 04:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Wise_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not telling the truth. If you no that he has cheated on the other girlfriends, then what makes you think that you are so special. You said you no he would not cheat on you. Maybe it is time for a reality check here. Guys like that are easy to find. He is not a prize my dear. Keep him for a friend if you want, but all he really wants is your parts. Thats it. You will end up crying over this one, I can see it coming...
2007-04-02 02:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, that no matter how long you have been together there is allways the possiblity he will cheat again, even after years. Right now it's only been a month and you have butterflys-- I believe men are most likely to cheat when you get to that point in your life when you are more 'comfortable' than 'insanely blind' with the other.
2007-04-02 04:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lynelle H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Once a cheater always a cheater" have u heard that saying. Its true. There is a difference between breaking up with a gf or bf before you cheat and cheating on them while you are still dating. Think about it. Be careful! Take Care and Good Luck!
2007-04-02 03:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Belle N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you continue to be scared in this relationship you are going to miss out what you can enjoy. You don't have to open up completely right now, it is possible to keep your feeling and trust separate. But the bottom line is to always go with what your feelings are telling you.
2007-04-02 03:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by Victor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As Falco says, " One never knows what you're gonna' find when you follow the one you Love ". What I'm saying is that if you have a friend that is sorta slick or sly, that your boyfriend doesn't know. Ask her/him if they would help you find out. Some guys have had more than one relationship going on at one time........I speak from experience !! You must know in your heart of hearts if He is Loyal, or you will always wonder. NOT GOOD !! Good Luck and God Bless !!
2007-04-01 13:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzypetshop 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
like him all you want , but guard your precious little heart bc .... if he cheated on them, he'll cheat on you and I can give it to you in writing signed and sealed..heck, I almost did ...he prob already did by telling you and maybe joking around about it..
Be careful bc you are already heading for the fall...and your instincts are already beginng to kick in..huh? Yep!
most of all. KEEP YOUR PANTS ON! you'll be glad you did, wait and see...they just want your "P"ower and they'll take it with the "D"eath of your soul... get it? good! heed it..
from a much older and wiser man..
2007-04-02 00:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by Gary G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think the relationship will last long if you dont trust him. you should talk 2 him about wat ur feelin and if you cant do that then talk 2 ur friends n family because you hav to be able to trust each other completely or u'll drive yourself crazy all the time wondering whether hes gonna cheat on you.
2007-04-02 04:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋