Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

2007-03-25 06:27:58 · 3 answers · asked by freddy 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 06:27:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am an Australian girl and have been dating my German boyfriend for 2.5 years. 1.5 years ago I made the decision to move to Europe to be close to him, and I found a University course in English only 2 hours away over the border. So far this arrangement has worked really well, and we've managed to see each other almost every weekend. The problem is that my degree is finishing in September and I've got no idea how we can be in the same place (or even this close) afterwards. He's unwilling to get a job at a non-German speaking company so early in his career, and my German is nowhere near good enough to get a job in Germany. So, I'm looking for jobs in the UK instead (it's still closer than Australia!) But the question is, even if we survive another year of distance, what happens then? Is there any way for this to work in the long run?

2007-03-25 06:27:39 · 7 answers · asked by MS1465 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf are both 16
and are ready to have sex for the first time,
i am worreid as to how much it wil hurt,
and am worried about condoms splitting.
How should i bring it up?
and what do i do if it hurts?
should we carry on, or stop?

please help me!

thankyou

2007-03-25 06:26:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. i really really like this guy at my school, & i think he likes me too, but i'm not sure. have any tips that i could do 2 mayb help him notice me a little more?

2007-03-25 06:26:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 06:26:37 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki S 1 in Friends

Ok this might sound trivial but my guy friend told me that his mate came round his place the other night and brought a drug with him. My guy friend said he tried a bit and may even do it again. As far as i know he's never done drugs before but i am worried about him. I have known him for nearly a year and he's been so lovely, i have deep feelings for him. But why would he go and do something like that, i thought he was getting his life back together. What do i do? He knows i'm not happy about it. I can't see how he would be trying to impress me cos he knows what i feel about drugs, i mean i even tell him off for smoking! Help!!

2007-03-25 06:26:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found out that my babyfather has been cheating on me for the past four months. He swears to god that he was't cheating until i texted the girl whom he was cheating on me with and pretended as if it was him. She told me everything that happened between them how much they had sex, where and when. When he came in from work i gave him the phone with all the texts the girl send to me pretending as if it was coming from him. He was so surprised that he treatened to hurt me. He want to make it up but i refused as it keeps happening over and over.

2007-03-25 06:26:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...is she still a virgin? we started to fool around, and i had it in the general area. now i have sex MANY times, so i know exactly where it was and what i was doing. i didnt even go a quarter of the way in, just enough to be on the tip of the inside. so w/out going all the way inside, nothing was bleeding, and nothing was expanded. i dont think i can say we had sex, but it came pretty close to it. so what is "a virgin no more" is it going inside at all, or all the way where it hurts and it could be bleeding as well?

2007-03-25 06:25:14 · 13 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Singles & Dating

i opened a book infront of the whole family for my niece which has a compartment in it and found ciggarettes which belong to my daughter who is 16 nearly 17. All of the family smoke and cannabis too. We do so do her cosins and aunty and uncle brother and sisters bfriend. What is the best thing to do do i have any right to disipline? Whos fault is is?

2007-03-25 06:24:49 · 30 answers · asked by Yohanna 1 in Family

i was wondering if someone had like a hour by hour breakdown of their wedding day on like a timeline that I could look at just to give me an idea for mine to make sure i'm not forgetting anything, or even like a timeline for the actually wedding day. places like theknot and such don't really give me to much regarding this area. i would really appreciate it if someone was willing to share their personnel wedding timeline with me

2007-03-25 06:24:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Last time i had this friend and she was my best friend that was when i was in primary school. Then i can't really recall what happen but we ended up fighting and never spoke one whole year untill we moved on to high school. (i gueesing its serious). I shifted to new place n i last heared she went back to her home country. Then last year i saw her profile tru my other friend's account and she add me to her friends list. But even if i can see her online in messanger i still don't want to greet and make up. I dun know why but everytime i think about her....i get very upset and also angry. I want to make peace..but i dun want to give in talking to her......she add me in her list but never spoke to me yet. Do u think she is holding a grudge against me like how i am to her. I really don't know what to do,everytime i see her online i feel guilty yet at the same time angry.....what would u suggest !! (mine and her fly was quite close and my family think it is silly) but i can't help how i feel

2007-03-25 06:23:21 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica P 4 in Friends

i've like this guy since i was 13! we've known eachother since i was 2! i'm 17 now. the last time we hung out we were together for over 7 hours! we havent seen eachother for like almost a year before that night. but the whole time he kept sayin i changed in a good way and we're like the same person. he dates other girls that treat him badly. people i work with say he always comes in looks around and if i'm not there leaves. when i talk about collage he jokes around and says he'll go with me. hes really protective over me. like if guys are lokking at me he'll hold my hand. he always wants to meet my ex boyfreinds or guys i talk about and wants to beat a guy up that i had sex with because the guy i like says he didnt treat me right. when he sees my friends and i'm not there he'll ask them how i'm doing. he stayed at my house for dinner once and said he's sick of chassing the girl. he wants her to chase him. and i want the guy to come to me first i'm sick of chassing. should i go 4 it?

2007-03-25 06:23:01 · 1 answers · asked by kaylia j 2 in Singles & Dating

I recentyly meant a man here is the crisis i am 32 he just turn 50 we went out one time he is a manager where i work in a total different department.

He was engage for about 2 months they call it quits.< they only knew each other for three months. I don't wont to be a rebound fling. I know he has to drink after work everyday he makes me laugh when i am around him.

What should I do? leave his ole butt alone or just contiue to be a friend.

2007-03-25 06:22:46 · 5 answers · asked by the sweetest 2 in Singles & Dating

meaning "i love you"without saying the words "i love you"as i say the words too many times in the day,i really cant help myself but the three words do get said quite a lot,well a hell of a lot actually.i want to say it all the time(which i do) but think it can take away that special meaning(not that it does)at special times,in other words i think i am over using the word and just want other words that do mean the same so i dont wear out the special 3 words....

2007-03-25 06:22:03 · 18 answers · asked by Sugarlump 3 in Singles & Dating

We are getting married on the beach. We would like to use the sand ceremony as part of the wedding. Does anyone have any suggestions as to a reading or wordings that go with this and does the officiant have to do this or can a friend do it??

2007-03-25 06:21:35 · 2 answers · asked by KCB 2 in Weddings

okay so my bf has divorced parents so he spends 2 wks with dad, and 2 wks with mom. when hes at his moms, i can see him whenever we want, so we pretty much see each other every day. but when he goes to his dads, we dont see each other at all cause we are not allowed to. i am soo miserable and unhappy for 2 straight weeks and my bf KNOWs i am unhappy without him. but he never makes me feel like he still loves me or misses me. if he knows i am so unhappy, why doesnt he try to make me happy by letting me know he cares? i also already talked to him about this in the past and he said WHATEVER. weve been together for 2 1/1 years. is he worth being miserable? i am 17 by the way

2007-03-25 06:21:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I had sex a couple of times last month. However he said he did not want any friends with benefits. Does that mean he wants to get back together or was it just pure lust?

2007-03-25 06:19:31 · 3 answers · asked by Y 1 in Singles & Dating

Last October while in CA (my husband's haunting ground) I was overtaken by a bad feeling. A series of events had me thinking he met up with an old female friend. He and I have had a few rocky years since we've been together and I'm not sure if it's just my insecurities or if this feeling is something to persue. I've always been one to want to know the truth no matter what it is and I don't want to confront him unless I have some solid proof. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can find out or ways to be able to brush this feeling off and get on with my life?

2007-03-25 06:18:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What if you just wanna be a boy's friend,.... nothing more.
and then He starts avoiding you just because he thinks that you are trying to flirt with him. I already have a boy friend. I only want more male friends. What should I do?

2007-03-25 06:17:38 · 8 answers · asked by stiches for bithes 1 in Friends

is inter cultural marriage practical enough ??? wht kinda problems one will be facing??

2007-03-25 06:17:28 · 4 answers · asked by wannagogaga 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for Ladies. do like tall big guys or short Lil guys. me personally I love tall big guys. I don't know why . I recently start dating 6.6 or 6.5. and hes really big not fat but u know big. from south Asia and I don't know I think tall guys are sexy.and they can protected u. my best Friend she was making fun of him when she saw him with me for the first time. but I don't really care hes really nice and I like him a lot and Oslo I have this crush in south Asian guys by the way I am from north Africa so my skin is White. is this is normal. I am 5.3 21y and hes 6.5 23y. is this is normal???! and what about u Lady's u think big guys have big packages

2007-03-25 06:16:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the ugliest females tend to attract the most attracive men,& it doesnt make scince

2007-03-25 06:15:52 · 14 answers · asked by bbkf6801 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't know what to do, i mean this is sick! it was tonight, i happen to have a key, coz i used to live there. what do i do? should i call the police? i ran out screaming as you could imagine, no don't its bad. please help & this isnt a joke nor do i find it funny neither.

2007-03-25 06:15:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance and I are having a small wedding ceremony followed by a larger reception. I am in process of ordering my invitations. The larger invitation will invite all the reception and what normally would be the reception card will be the ceremony card and only those being invited to the ceremony will get that card. I'm having a difficult time coming up with the wording on the reception invite. I would like to use the phrase "celebration of vows" but can't seem to make it sound right. Any suggestions???

2007-03-25 06:14:26 · 8 answers · asked by KCB 2 in Weddings

i have 2 guys that really like me. thwe 1st guy told me last week he liked me. and we may go out next school year so we can c each other everyday. the 2nd guy told me that he likes me alot2. i like the 2nd guy alot bc i have known him longer. and i trust him bc the 1st guy has lied 2 me alot abd the 2nd guy hasnt lied 2 me yet. but the sad thing is the 2nd guy goes 2 a different school and we will never c each other. he told me that he wants 2 date me but we wont c each other and if we go out he wants 2 b able 2 c me alot and we would never c each other.=(. we really like each other but we cant go out. the 1st guy can axt like an *** hole alot and idk wat 2 do. i really really like the 2nd guy but the 1st guy right now is my only choice. should i just saty friends wit the 2nd guy and go out wit the 1st or wat. im so confused and i usally talk 2 my best friend. idk im soooooooo confused. plz answer it bc id really appriciate it.

2007-03-25 06:14:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I let me ex quit paying Child Support?
Is it ever wise to waive a child support payment in return for spousal cooperation or more time with the child?

I no longer absolutely need the child support since I remarried.

2007-03-25 06:13:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this guy in my class named Robert and I have a crush on him. I told him and I am not sure if he likes me but he stares at me a lot.Everybody in my class says he likes me!!!!!!!!!! What sould I do i mean to make him admit it! I stare at him too but he doesnt notice and I do!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

2007-03-25 06:12:13 · 17 answers · asked by shan108 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15, 16 come this summer. My Mom is a terrible addict...to what, I'm not even sure, a lot of things I suppose. Cocaine, those needle things, ect. A lot of the smoking stuff. Well, my Dad, who recently moved back in with us, is a semi-addict too. He doesn't really look for it, but when it's in easy access, he takes it. I'm very, very tired of getting money stolen from me for their habit, and just having this stuff in my home to begin with. Is there anyway I could sort of force my Mom into Rehab or something?
I don't want to have to leave my family and my home...I want to stay and make my parents get better...
I

2007-03-25 06:11:13 · 13 answers · asked by Aya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i get a married woman ive been in love with for 10 years to leave her husband and marry me?

2007-03-25 06:11:09 · 16 answers · asked by markdanaman 1 in Marriage & Divorce