i have 2 guys that really like me. thwe 1st guy told me last week he liked me. and we may go out next school year so we can c each other everyday. the 2nd guy told me that he likes me alot2. i like the 2nd guy alot bc i have known him longer. and i trust him bc the 1st guy has lied 2 me alot abd the 2nd guy hasnt lied 2 me yet. but the sad thing is the 2nd guy goes 2 a different school and we will never c each other. he told me that he wants 2 date me but we wont c each other and if we go out he wants 2 b able 2 c me alot and we would never c each other.=(. we really like each other but we cant go out. the 1st guy can axt like an *** hole alot and idk wat 2 do. i really really like the 2nd guy but the 1st guy right now is my only choice. should i just saty friends wit the 2nd guy and go out wit the 1st or wat. im so confused and i usally talk 2 my best friend. idk im soooooooo confused. plz answer it bc id really appriciate it.
2007-03-25 06:14:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2nd guy for sure - no need to deal with aholes or liars - too much to handle - '2nd guy! 2nd guy!'
2007-04-02 04:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by LEWG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the second guy as he seems way better than the first guy and im sure time will work things out. The first guy, just forget about him as he looks like hes a player or a cheater. It is not you are desperate, right?
Good Luck
2007-04-02 00:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r choice is right...
Don`t get compromise....
Go with 2nd guy....
If possible, change u r studies to his near by locations..so that u both can have the time 2 meet.
2007-04-02 00:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by swaagat143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, lets call guy 1 Bill and guy 2 Tim.
I found myself in a similar situation when I was in junior high. I really liked Tim but Bill was convenient because he went to my school. I gave it a lot of thought and I talked to my parents about it and they thought since I liked Tim more that I should go out with him. My parents even offered to drive us to the movies or let him come over to hang out. I ended up going out with Tim and even though we couldn't see each other every day, we still talked on the phone almost every day and my parents followed through and let us go out sometimes on the weekends.
Also, Bill ended up dating one of my friends. They did see each other every day, and like your Bill, he could be a jerk sometimes, too, and she ended up having to break up with him because he started cheating on her. My friend was miserable because she had to see him every day and whenever she was around him he would talk about his other girlfriend just to make her upset.
I am really glad I chose Tim. We aren't dating any more but we are still friends! So, I recommend you stick with the guy you really like, even if you can't see each other every day.
Good Luck!
2007-03-25 09:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kati S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl have fun with both of them
2007-04-01 16:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋