meaning "i love you"without saying the words "i love you"as i say the words too many times in the day,i really cant help myself but the three words do get said quite a lot,well a hell of a lot actually.i want to say it all the time(which i do) but think it can take away that special meaning(not that it does)at special times,in other words i think i am over using the word and just want other words that do mean the same so i dont wear out the special 3 words....
2007-03-25 06:22:03 · 18 answers · asked by Sugarlump 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good for you for being creative! There is an awesome book called The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. It is one of the best books I ever read. The original book is written for married couples, and even though I'm not married, I've gotten a lot out of it. It talks about how everyone's primary love language is different, and how to find your mate's primary love language. The five discussed are: quality time, touch, acts of service, gifts, and words of affirmation. The premise is that the way one person expresses that they love someone may not be read that way by the recipient. I know this answer is a little different that what you asked, but there are many ways to express "I love you" without even using words. Depending on your wife's love language, you could use expressions like: rubbing her back when you are sitting next to her, spending time with her when she does her favorite activity, doing the dishes for her when it's her turn, bringing her a flower from the garden, etc. Good luck!
2007-03-25 06:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by mortgagelns 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is so lovely. Actions speak louder than words. Show her how much you love her but being supportive, loving, caring, helpful and sensitive. Do little things for her. Plenty of hugs, do the washing sometimes, run her baths, buy her pretty undies, take out the garbage. She'll get the picture!
2007-03-25 06:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mary-Jane 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah. I understand what you mean. You dont want to overuse it as it does kinda take the value away, in a sense.
Saying the words is just not enough though. Show her how much you love her. That can be as simple as flowers or as meaningful as you want.
2007-03-25 06:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can never wear out those words...I promise you.
Of course it is more romantic when your holding her in your arms than to say it just before hanging up the phone...but it doesn't get over used.
Find a song for her...put it on your cell so everytime she calls you she hears it.
2007-03-25 06:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by sandibum 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my partner and I say the 3 words every second of the day. He says it alot, hes so in love with me and im so in love with him, i don't get bored saying I LOVE YOU, i love hearing it, My boyfriend says "have i told you lately that I love you", he sings it to me, it makes me go weak in me knees, i just love it, I say to him im so deeply madly in love with you. We just cant get enough of each other. When Im in the shower, we have a mirror beside the shower, my partner he was going in the shower after me, so i rubbed the soap on my hands and I wrote a wee message on the mirror, "i love you babe". When it was his turn to take a shower the stream bought up the message, he called me and said babe i love you too. so no i would not like it to stop, i love hearing the 3 little words. we been together over 3 years, planning to get engaged and our relationship has gone strenght to strenght. be gratful of what you have
2007-03-25 06:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you shouldn't use anywords at all. Show her with actions, and not all kissing and everything. But buy her flowers and make her breakfest in bed. Just little things that will make her feel speacial. and don't do it all the time.. she might get a little overwhelmed
2007-03-25 06:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
me and my husband say it all the time too-and it does lose its meaning after a while. but the other night he turned to me and said i am so comfortable with you, i know you get all my jokes and i can really talk to you. some people might think-omg hes comfortable! but our relationship is still very passionate in some areas. it just made me smile, thats all!!!
2007-03-25 06:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by louie3 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How about telling her that you realize how blessed you are that you found her and that you will always feel that way and will never take her for granted. Tell her that when you are apart, you ache to be with her.
2007-03-25 06:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jacqueline M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know karate cause your body is kicki'n or when you see her say" I'm staring at the most beautiful woman on earth. Don't say any other girl is hotter than her especially, don't mention paris hilton. You can say "Is it hot in here or is it you!"
2007-03-25 06:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by rocketsfantodamax 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how lucky she is, listen you can never overdo the love word wwhen said with such feeling, me and my hubby are like 2 pathetic teenagers, (and i know our own 2 teenagers want to puke frequently upon hearing us declare our love for each other) but it really is simple................YOU LOVE HER! go baby and dont change a thing
2007-03-25 06:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋