you should talk to him and tell " so&so i care about you and your health, i dont want you to get caught up in anothe rmess while trying to fix one called your life already" if he doesnt do it for you take him to a clinic and convince him to do it for himself
2007-03-25 06:30:41
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answered by jasmin 2
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I don't take drugs myself, but I have many friends that have them at clubs and dance parties etc. I have the stance that I'll only interfere with their drug-taking if they look like they're overdoing it. I respect their choices to take drugs and they respect my choice not to.
Though I know drugs are not good full stop, I can't help but admit that (without knowing any long term effects that may occur), drugs can be done in a "responsible" way. I know that's kind of an oxymoron but my friends take care of themselves and each other when they do it.
Let him know how you feel about it, but don't push too hard. When people are told off for doing something like that, that can often be the time when they'll rebel and it could make matters worse...eg. he could just be experimenting now, but bug him enough and he may do it all the time!
We are brought up being told to not even try things like smoking and drugs...some people, like myself don't feel the need to and therefore I never have and never will. But it's not uncommon to find that most people will at some point experiment a bit...it's all a part of growing up. So, let him know how you feel but also respect and understand his feelings...be cool about it...and just keep an eye on him.
2007-03-25 06:37:46
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answered by Wondering 2
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Well I would believe him when he says that he used the drug first of all. You mentioned that you thought he was getting his life back together. Do you think that he had this problem before and you are not believing it? That's just a thought.
But to continue here. You are not a drug counselor I am assuming that. You have known him you say for one year. Exactly how have you known him?
You say he is so lovely. It sounds to me like you want this guy friend for something more in your life.
You probably should decide what you want in your life first of all. The type of people. Try to dig within your own self a little more, and not get so attached to someone else's life. What other people do we cannot always know what goes on in the dark. I believe when people say things you should acknowledge them. The writing here seems like it is on the wall.
I do believe that you care about this person, but again look within yourself. Try finding out whether or not you are a care giver or what type of person you are. Begin living your own life. Believe in yourself.
I have listed some books that I have read, but these answers are from my own thoughs and every day living.
2007-03-25 06:51:00
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answered by Anonymous
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If it is marijuana, you should not be worried...I have friends who smoke it, and it is just relaxing them, causing no damage...it is no more dangerous than coffee, or alcohol. Alcohol is even more dangerous because you lose your consciousness and you can end up doing crazy things to others, but even yourself. Marijuana has been made illegal because of political reasons...there are even old ladies who use it because it is the only drug that helps relieve pain in their back or bones, or any other sort of pain in the body...they may even put it into sweets or cake.
You should be worrying very much if it is heroine, as it is the most destructive and addictive drug of all. As far as cocaine is concerned, it depends on how much somebody takes...it makes you feel high, but once it has subsided, you start feeling the opposite effect, since you come back to the state you have been before taking it. Also, cocaine intensifies the state of psychological state you are in, whether it is happiness or unhappiness. So, everyone should avoid it if they have experienced a lot of psychological pain and hurt in their lives. I suggest you should do some research and read a few books, talking to forums is also very useful, as you will learn about other people's experience with drugs...
The problem in our society is that we are very misinformed...do your own research and draw your own conclusions...
In case it is heroine, you could contact professionals who will give valuable advice.
Love,
dreamsblend
2007-03-25 06:57:36
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answered by Natalie P 2
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As a woman myself, I have been through the same. The drug was cocaine and he became addicted after the first try. I think Lorraine that if he knew you true feelings for him are more than just a friend, he would understand why you feel the way you do about drugs, and other issues that bother you. He would respect you more, and not just treat you like a bud. If he continues to carry on after all is on the table, then your decision will have been made for you. Good Luck!
2007-03-25 06:53:12
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answered by Ronnie 2
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People (men & women) get curious about stuff like that from time to time.
I don't believe that this bf of yours is throwing his life away by expirementing with drugs a little bit. Only if it becomes an addiction, do you need to worry about your relationship.
Also, he may continue smoking (or doing worse things) if you constantly nag him all the time. I've seen this happen before.
2007-03-25 06:33:14
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answered by Mark A 2
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Well if it is weed then he most likely won't get hooked.But anything esle he will end up hooked on it.They all do.So if he keeps it up u should tell his parents so they can get him into rehab. The sooner they catch it the better for him. Tell him he is playing with fire.Ask him why his life is so imcomplete to where he has to use drugs?Most people that use aren't happy with their life.Good luck.
2007-03-25 06:32:44
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answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6
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What was the drug he used?
Do you like yourself?
Do you respect yourself?
Do you tolerate drugs in your house?
If you answered yes to the first two, and no to the third, dump his useless *** now before he f**ks up your life.
DO IT NOW.
2007-03-25 06:32:31
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answered by dtedad-50 4
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Go through these agencies, get all the leaflets from Lifeline (the best) ... Actually give brochure to school.
Plus you gaved no deatils as to what drug... give ALL details
www.lifelinepublications.org
http://www.lifelinepublications.org/catalogue.php?PHPSESSID=473789af35d8be97a77bfe96711047dc
www.lifeline.org.uk
www.drugscope.org.uk
www.talktofrank.com
www.ibogaine.co.uk
www.ibogaine.org
WWW.ECSTACY.ORG
WWW.URBAN75.COM
2007-03-25 06:42:13
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answered by Anonymous
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alot of my guy friends smoke pot on weekends. i wont be around them when they do it and i hate the fact that they do it but im not going to go tell on them.
just be cool about it, annoy him about it.
2007-03-25 06:29:27
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answered by Anonymous
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