She wants me to watch but I am not allowed to join in. She is afraid I might be more pleased by another woman than her.
2007-03-25 05:55:01 · 16 answers · asked by rgrship 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pacck your things and run as fast as you can.
2007-03-25 05:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
this is a tough question, any normal guy will love this, BUT the big theory here is that your married, so ask yourself this question first how do you feel about her being with someone else sexually?? i believe that marriage should be between 2 people not a threesome that always starts trouble, Now if your allowing her to be with another woman then tell her you are just being fair and you want to join in, but only participate with her and not the other woman. I hope this helped.
2007-03-25 13:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a MAJOR problem on your hands. Were you aware of her preferences before you were married?? If so, this shouldn't come as any surprise to you. If this has just come up recently, then you owe it to yourself to question her about it. Just because she's having sex with another woman, doesn't mean she's not cheating...she IS. She's married to YOU, and having sex with someone else, is ADULTERY regardless of the fact it's with another woman.
If you can tolerate this sort of thing, you wouldn't be asking the questions here in Yahoo. You're asking us to help you..but help yourself. Get out of that marriage. Yes, get a DIVORCE.
2007-03-25 13:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about what you want. If you are satisfied with just watching then cool. But an open relationship is a two-way street. Who are you allowed to be with? What do you get out of the third person being there. What she has proposed is just cheating in the open, not an open relationship.
2007-03-25 12:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by jax0817 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. Set rules for what u can do before it goes down. No contact with her friend what so ever. Not even eye contact because this event is very delicate. This all could easily blow up into a horrible fight between u and your wife so BE CARE FULL what u say and do. Good luck buddy!!
2007-03-25 13:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by The Legend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fair is fair. She wants someone else...regardless of her orientation. If she can be with others then you should be allowed as well. Whether it is with her and another girl or if it you alone with someone (just like she wants). Don't tell me you don't want other women as well. If you think your relationship is strong enough then dive in.
2007-03-25 13:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur sharing her...doesnt matter if its female or male...sex is sex... I think she should just PICK A TEAM and stick with it... and a marriage is a union between man and a woman... a marriage isnt sharing PERIOD.... I think shes selfish and you shouldnt take it..... she should only have sex with you.... I hear its every mans dream for his wife to do that...but shes not sharing it with you thats why ur mad huh.lol... well its not right period...
2007-03-25 13:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never understood why people like you get married in the first place!
Marriage is a beautiful, serious thing...Never to be taken lightly.
This kind of attitude is why things are so rotten in our society.
2007-03-29 10:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh!So...are you saying that you can watch how she is cheating on you right in your face!Honey get a divorce
2007-03-25 12:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
divorce her get a woman that is not bi or les get the girl of your dreams follow your dreams
2007-03-25 13:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by p_bontz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you knew this before, the time to ask was then. now, it will be a fantasy and/or a divorce.
2007-03-25 13:01:36 · answer #11 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋