I saw the mistakes in my decide...my wife only think about money. may be have 90% her worries .She think a lot of reasons to complaint me.that why i feel i'm falling. help me!
2007-03-25 05:07:14 · 11 answers · asked by hoang t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try sitting with her and talk about it. if this fails...both of you should go to a marriage counsellor or if you both attend the same church, you can seek help from your priest or pastor. if it's really irreconcilable...get a lawyer and file for a divorce. don't let a ruined relationship destroy you. seek professional help.
2007-03-25 05:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by babytalk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All couples argue from time to time. If you ever want a successful marriage you will need to learn to concentrate on what you love about your wife and not what you dislike. Sit down with a paper and pen and make a list of all the good things she does. Compliment her on those things daily she will be kinder when you are doing kind things. Give some thought that she may be correct and trying to guide you out of a financial hole. Above all if you decide that you truly cannot take it anymore don't get a girlfriend and act the fool. Just tell her that you are not happy and leave. You don't have to blame everything on her. Just go.
2007-03-25 12:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It goes both ways. If your wife is always worried about money, chances are that you guys don't have much to spend. Maybe the two of you should come up with a plan on how to get more and save more money for your future.
Marriage counseling will help both of you.
2007-03-25 12:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by ceaz 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
HOANG:
You must be oriental. To answer this question, one must also think of his/her inner self, and what lie in the heart. A woman often worries about their security and stable life. An Oriental woman is well bred and trained from childhood to respect and love their husbands or lovers. I spent a lot of time around many places of the orient and learned that a woman is very strong willed and very independant, They worry about many things that affect their lives and return that love 10 times over, if one listens and learns from them. A woman can be very intelligant and loving, especially the oriental women. From birth they are trained to help and labor with their men. You must treat them as equal and listen to what they speak of. , and learn to accept what they have to offer. Speak to them as equals, what is asked you will find they are very perceptive and can and do and will rejoin what is best for their lives and their families. A woman is very receptive to a nice dinner once in awhile, a quiet little word of love, a flower, an equal commitment. It is a womans directive to do what is best for family and home. Try speaking to her and treating her with respect and you will find a renewed companionship! We men, unfortunately, overlook the womans perspective. We think only of bringing food to the table, and keeping our home life as safe as possible. A woman on the other hand thinks ahead and fears the unknown, where we men, go day to day. That is why one must come from the heart and meet their wives half way and treat them with love, kindness, and sharing....I hope I have helped you a little my friend. Please let me know how it works out. Try something different for a change, try something new with your wife, a change of scenery or just a moon light dinner. :) :) :)
2007-03-25 12:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by tombowling49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop whining already. She is disappointed in you.
Did you make her a lot of promises that you never intended to keep? Did you tell her when you got married that you would take care of her and look after her and carry her on a bed of roses forever? Well, now she figured out that you lied. She's a smart woman. You're lucky to have her.
Take some responsibility here. Get a better job. ...and why can't your wife get a job herself and make some money of her own?
2007-03-25 12:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by Nina 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask your wife to go see a marriage counselor with you. Professionals can help!
2007-03-25 12:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
man... I am glad that i am not the only one with that issue with my soon-2-be ex hubby... Try to work with her or just what others said above me.
2007-03-25 12:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Country Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not failing her, she is failing you. You need to make another decision here it appears. If you are unhappy with your marriage, then get out of it. It/she won't change no matter how you try.
2007-03-25 12:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by JOANNE C 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if her eyes has nothing but money.. it time for you to leave her! You both married for love. if she see money as everything, it time for you to move on!
2007-03-25 12:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by TO 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to work it out.
2007-03-25 13:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋