I needed an opinion on this situation from an outside perspective. I'm a sophomore in college and have been dating a guy for abut 2.5 years now. I love him, we get along really well, my parents love him, his love me etc. However he goes to another school, so I only get to see him during breaks (about 4 months out of the year). The problem is there is another guy I met last year who I had been close friends with since then. I knew he liked me at first, but I thought we got past this. The thing is, I've gotten more comfortable with my close friend than my boyfriend. My boyfriend has never been a really open person and there's sone things I haven't been able to tell him. My close friend however knows everything and still likes me. I also feel like at the moment there's better chemistry between my close friend and me. I don't know if it's just because of the distance from my boyfriend, or the fact that this is new that I sometime feel like I would rather be w/ the other guy. Any advice?
2007-03-25 05:10:59 · 2 answers · asked by this is how it works... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to make the choice between them and quit playing both ends again the middle. You're not being fair to anyone even yourself. Your thinking seems muddled on the subject but nobody else can tell you what to do the choice will have to be yours. You do need to make the choice swiftly as you are in real danger of alienating them both.
2007-03-25 05:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the new guy a chance. if there are things you can`t tell your bf now...just think about down the road.
2007-03-25 05:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by politebat2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋