If u love ur ex gf so much, should u fight to win her back no matter what the odds or should u just let her go? u know she still has feelings for u but for certain reasons cant be with u.
2007-03-25 05:03:04 · 15 answers · asked by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just went through a break up. My GF broke up with me because of a misunderstanding. Anyway, I still cared about her and I wanted to get her back. So I talked to her and tried to reason with her. But the fact was that things had changed. Once you break up things are different and will never be the same. There's always going to be a distrust because of the break up. It's best to try to move on to someone who is better for you. I know it's hard to believe you'll find someone as compatible as you were with her, but wouldn't you have thought it was impossible to find her before you found her? Maybe the best thing to do is to be by yourself for a while. If you're dying to be with someone that is a bad thing. To be happy with someone you have to be happy being by yourself first. It's hard to do, but I would say let her know you care about her and that you wish the best for her. It will hurt for a while, but if both one person wants the other more than the other, then it isn't going to work. You'll find someone and you'll use your ex as a basis for what you're expecting from the new girl.
2007-03-25 05:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by Reilly R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she still has feeling for you, fight for her at all cost. If you truely love her you shouldn't give up. You need to have a "heart to heart" chat with her and ask her why she can't be with you. During this "heart to heart" would be a good time to try and win her back, that is, depending upon the reason of why she doesn't want to be with you. The worst that she could say is no(I hate it when people say that to me, but it is very true). Fight at all cost, no matter the odds. Best of luck!
2007-03-25 05:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Silent.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are these certain reasons ? Parents ? Religion ? It depends on how shallow/deep the reasons are. If you have invested an "X" amount of years, it would be worth fighting for. Again, it all depends on the reasons...
2007-03-25 05:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by Fermin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the reasons but if you all feel the same about each other then it should be worth it. I believe in the courage to go for what makes you happy and if being together will make you both happy then be bold and fight for her
2007-03-25 05:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why did you break up... when you are with someone, sometimes only the distance can make you realize how important or trivial those reasons were... at that point you can determine if it was something that is just impossible for you to live with, or if it is something that you don't like but it is worth to accept only for being with her...
2007-03-25 05:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by abby_603 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, then let her know that you would like to try again. Show her, but don't stalk her or go to the extreme. If she still insists that you can't be together, then let her go. you don't really want to be with someone that is not 100 percent into you do you?
2007-03-25 05:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 08:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by scheiber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nanook - Sure if you love her and think she still has feelings for you - stay in touch with her! Send her a dozen roses, that should help!
2007-03-25 05:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight for her love is hard to find.
:) call her and get the ball rolling. good luck
2007-03-25 05:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by April 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what her reasons for letting you go are... maybe they are more important than you think,, how do you kno that she still has feelings for you?? thats what you need to think about maybe just maybe its you that wants her to have feelings for you because you just want to hold on
2007-03-25 05:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by iiSABEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋