Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

2007-03-25 04:12:32 · 4 answers · asked by chekinahglory 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think she's not being fair...the song Pride (in the name of love) has a tribute for MLK...I mean if the band didn't like african americans I don't think they would sing/write about it...we've been friends for 3 yrs now, I love her so much but she really hurts my feeling calling me a racist...this morning she said, she's not the white girl's friend anymore...refering to me, I started to cry and she smiled,I don't know what to do we live together, we even have the same classes...I'm starting to think she's doing this because she has a crush in Sean the guy I'm dating, Sean is an african american and she's always making NOT funny jokes about us..... what do I do? :/

2007-03-25 04:11:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I having been dating for 9 months and since he met me he told me he wanted to marry me? He always told me, "When you know, you know." We went ring shopping and everything. About 1 month ago he told me, that he doesn't think he is ready. He said he is afraid to make that commitment. We have been living together for 8 months and are practically married. How could he be afraid of marriage now after being so ready for so long? I'm a soul believer in , if you love someone, you want nothing more than to spend your life with them. He tells me that its not me and that there is a possibility of marriage but he just isn't ready to talk about the future? What should i do? He keeps telling me to be patient, but how do i do that? I'm ready now and i love him so much i'm just ready to make that life long commitment? I think i am making a mistake?? Please help???

2007-03-25 04:11:24 · 14 answers · asked by Melody 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i choose " valerie" :)

2007-03-25 04:10:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

made really good friends with a guy told him I liked him, he said he liked me too but is with someone! He kissed me a few days ago and was fine about it, so asked him to meet ,he said yes but dont think he wanted to.Didn't show so sent him an email as was upset then said sorry maybe i was wrong now he is not answering my messages, and we used to chat daily by msn

2007-03-25 04:10:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister wrote me a pretty nasty letter a while ago(1 year)telling me that I did not respect my Mom and Dad or her and her family,We have always been a very close family,so this letter came as quite a shock,it made me pretty mad and I haven't spoken to her since,I still talk with my parents and they know about the letter but they never want to talk about it,they just say it's between my sister and I.What do I do?

2007-03-25 04:09:18 · 3 answers · asked by herman 1 in Family

a friend of mine,i think hes odd.he will only date girls with 'nice,cute' names.like dawn,jessica,lily,may etc abit.but wont/does not like girls with the names mary,helen,faith,wendy etc abit.
is it just my friend or are there other people who are picky about what a person is called before they date them?i mean..a girl called wendy could be really nice and a girl called dawn could be really horrible and nasty.i just dont get it really.but then again..i guess its like some people only dating rich people or people with nice clothes even if they turn out to be mean.

2007-03-25 04:09:09 · 3 answers · asked by why_did_he_leave_me2 1 in Friends

I was talking to a guy that was left by his ex-wife a year ago ina cruel way, she said she never loved him and cheated on him and then left him one day by emptying the house almost completely and not saying a word, he had to find out from her mom. So that was a year ago. One day we were talking online and he said smtha bout his ex (because I asked, usually he doesn't talk abt her) and then he sighed and then smiled, I asked why he sighed, he said he was content and comfortable with me. I thought he sighed because the though of his ex-wife made him feel frustrated because I bet he doesn't want to think abt her anymore but it juss doesn't work. What do you think? Are you comfortable with a girl you are in love with or can you be comfortable with a girl you just like, but ahve no deeper feelings?

2007-03-25 04:08:53 · 11 answers · asked by stargazer 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 04:08:52 · 27 answers · asked by petunia 1 in Singles & Dating

He is aware that I am aware of what's happening. I have tried, endlessly, to tell him what he is risking but he stubbornly ignores me and tries to convince me that the other woman is just a friend and the relationship is nothing more, although they are planning a secret 4-night hotel stay while he is away handling business and personal matters. Now, I am feeling awkward around the wife and I don't know how to handle it. Do I break the friendship? Do I tell the wife? On top of it, I have to work with my friend on a daily basis, which I am trying to change. I love this guy like a brother but I am torn as to what to do and don't understand why I have so many emotions about this. This fling of his was discovered by his wife a few months ago and it nearly destroyed his marriage then as well as our friendship as I ended up in the middle of it but he convinced everyone that they misread the situation and he would discontinue the relationship with the other woman. What do I do?

2007-03-25 04:07:42 · 18 answers · asked by JC 1 in Friends

So... Here's the story..



I've done a very bad thing.. I edited the body of my classmate and i replaced it with the body of beyonce. Well i did that because he is so annoying, boastful and he thinks that he is superior. I just wanted to make him feel the way i do if he annoys me or teases me. I posted it on the board and the whole class laughed.


Now, my friends, my best friends, are angry at me because of what i've done.. They tease me, tell me bad things that i know i am not. Some of them are telling me that i'm the worst person in the world. Well, i know that i can stand that but if they continue to do this, my personality will be destroyed.



How can i cope up with this??

2007-03-25 04:06:57 · 9 answers · asked by Here I am 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What's the best way to ask out a girl?

2007-03-25 04:06:33 · 17 answers · asked by 1Darkchef 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so theres this guy that I like and his older sister told me that he likes me. His sister and I are not what you would call friends but we dont hate each other. How do I know if he really likes me with out asking my mom, or asking him/his friends?

2007-03-25 04:06:18 · 9 answers · asked by s k 2 in Singles & Dating

bought me a large gobstopper which made my girlfriend laugh loads. They made me eat it. What are they trying to say?? lol

Are all girls this wicked to there boyfriends??? :)

2007-03-25 04:05:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents dont always treat me the way they should in my opinion. For example, they constantly fight, today, they got mad at me because i was cleaning my room like they told me to and then they got mad cause i forgot to put my stuff away in my room so they threw it in the cellar where all the bugs are and half of my homework papers got all ripped up. Plus, i spent a long time just trying to find them because they would not tell me where it was. They act like they hate me sometimes. It really drives me nuts. I'm starting to get really upset. When I first told them that i was sexually abused, my mom looked at me and said no you werent. Then, when she finally believed me, she made a joke about it. I had to cry to get her to believe me. I mean, shes my own mom she should believe me. Also, i hear her and my dad talk bad about me all the time. It really hurts and everytime i start crying they always say good you should be crying. it really upsets me. What should i do??? Thanks.

2007-03-25 04:05:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why is the traditional wedding dress white or ivory ??? Is it acceptable to wear any color ?? what would you suggest to someone who want to wear a different color then white ??

Please answer this ... most detailed answer gets 10points =)

2007-03-25 04:05:20 · 18 answers · asked by Mizz V 2 in Weddings

Last night I received a text reading : "I love you - Do you feel the same way"? I have no idea who this person is and or whether they are serious is there anyway I can find out?

2007-03-25 04:04:10 · 16 answers · asked by pezmc 3 in Singles & Dating

Do girls like it when there boyfriend can tell them anything and i mean EVERYTHING like every little thing and every big thing

2007-03-25 04:03:59 · 18 answers · asked by pitbull 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 04:03:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 04:03:12 · 9 answers · asked by JF Sequeira 1 in Friends

and is there any chance to date this guy?

And Do guys like to date with young girls?

2007-03-25 04:02:32 · 14 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy who also likes me. We have alot in common, and we tease each other alot, and we use the things we have in common to start conversations. We're extremely shy- - I'm a Scorpio, and he's an Aries, but we get around well by flirting. We both know that we like each other, but we'restrong enough to admit it. Think one of us will speak up anytime soon?

2007-03-25 04:02:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17. My guy mate only sees me as a mate, what shud i do??
please me give me some pointers to attract my guy mate, so he can see me in another light. i swear he sees me more as a mate cuz he was flirting and teasing with me , so way does he tell me he only sees me as a mate. At skl he's acting all weird around me, what shud i do to attract him and flirt with confidence?

2007-03-25 04:01:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he says he will call and he calls the day after he is supposed to. He says we will go to lunch tomorrow it doesnot happen. He was ssupposed to call, he leaves the country and I find out 2 dya later when I call. He takes rain checks on dates planned. Is this what he means when he says he will always be contrary to other BF's yet he lays the L word and I am here for the long haul.

2007-03-25 04:00:28 · 10 answers · asked by tradergirl512 1 in Singles & Dating

actually wat happend was my guy went to consult an astrologer on some business matters and this guy started blurting about how he may have a possibility of a love failure and a second marriage and all that crap... i dont believe it tht much but i dont know why am getting scared...wat do i do?

2007-03-25 04:00:09 · 9 answers · asked by Hotsummers 2 in Singles & Dating

I am dating with a great guy, things have been going well, sometimes I felt our conversation toughed more soul related issues, and we sang love song together at his birthday. but it seems afterward he is keeping distance, but it is not like he wants disconnection, he msn me sometimes. Is he thinking about something? what is a guy thinking at this moment? I simply let him be alone, cause I though maybe he needs to spent time alone thinking about something, or simply jus thte way he is, I wish to know what a guy is thinking at this situation??

thanks

2007-03-25 03:59:56 · 5 answers · asked by Caring Girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's my birthday today and I invited some friends home but only two out of five will be able to make it.
I don't think it's something personal; they were just committed to somebody or something else. However, I do appreciate the ones who can be with me on this special day. What do you think about it?

2007-03-25 03:59:13 · 25 answers · asked by maggie 4 in Friends

this past weekend it was my now ex-boyfriend's birthday. he & i made plans to just have a quiet night, but it turned into a huge, drunken party with plenty of girls. the whole night he ignored me & then ended up leaving with a bunch of drunk people at 2am. i drove all around town looking for him, and i couldnt find him & he just ignored my calls all night. when he finally get home at 8am, he tried to blame me.
Pretty much the same thing happened two weeks ago. He left me at home while i was sick and thinking that i was having contractions (i was 22 weeks pregnant). he then proceeded to not come home when i called him, bawling & telling him that i needed to go to the hospital.
He & his friends blame me for these situations and try to say that I'm a huge, clingy *****. Am I just extrememly blind and not seeing what I did wrong?

2007-03-25 03:58:59 · 9 answers · asked by Just a girl 2 in Singles & Dating

i barely talk but when i do, its like anger. i love society but when i stay hidden, and quiet, people are saying things against "emos" . And sometimes I explode in front of my crazy loud parents.I try to release any thoughts about what they are saying but they are wrong! (emos not about cutting! and money doesnt buy happiness!). I stick up for myself but maybe mention " ill ****in kill you *****. and it sounds serious but from a weak kid. its just the emotion bursts out. like dwyane from little miss sunshine says "do wat u love and **** the rest!!!" ( when he has a mental breakdown also.)
i just recently expressed and it was odd.
now i know to calm down like usually...and silent.but for how long?

can someone please help?
thanx for any answers
peace (-<-)!

2007-03-25 03:58:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy for the past year and totally scared of dancing in front of him. How can I get over this shyness? I have no problem dancing by myself, love to, and when I am with firends at a club I have a hard time starting but when I do I deon't stop but I cant dance in front of this guy, sometimes we are driving in the car and a good song comes on the radio and he starts singing and dancing and I really want to too, but my body wont do it.

2007-03-25 03:58:39 · 11 answers · asked by tanhil 1 in Singles & Dating