I am dating with a great guy, things have been going well, sometimes I felt our conversation toughed more soul related issues, and we sang love song together at his birthday. but it seems afterward he is keeping distance, but it is not like he wants disconnection, he msn me sometimes. Is he thinking about something? what is a guy thinking at this moment? I simply let him be alone, cause I though maybe he needs to spent time alone thinking about something, or simply jus thte way he is, I wish to know what a guy is thinking at this situation??
thanks
2007-03-25 03:59:56 · 5 answers · asked by Caring Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How do I know how long to wait?
2007-03-26 14:03:16 · update #1
First of all know that men like the chase more than getting the goods. Back off and get busy with your own life and show him that he is not the center of your universe. Then if he backs off for good you will not hurt so much and if he does come back you will know that he doesn't want to live with out you.
2007-03-25 04:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of things just called: "it's a man's thing", I've ben around a while and worked with women all my life, I've heard them, (all of them), say this over and over,like: not wanting to ask for directions, always needing the remote controll, not opening up,when talking personal, (you get my drift?).
Well, it's the same thing with relation ships. Several times over the years have I heard a man say: we don't mind getting caught, but, we just don't want to KNOW THAT WE'RE BEING CAUGHT.
It make sense, so therefore, just let him stew or lay back or whatever it is he's doing when things might get a bit uncomfortable or to close for him, even tough, he might be in love with you.
Just go about doing you're thing, that's the best and fastest way for you to find out where the relation ship is going. JUST DON'T CLING.
2007-03-25 11:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.....Maybe He really have a problem,try to know wats his prob and Help Him secretly...i guess,or he thought he be more cooler
to make you fell to him OR some guys thinks the women dont want to be so fast in relationship,
or.....maybe he dont like you actually?dont get mad, search for it 1st good luck!
2007-03-25 11:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by gerardz55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes scared of comitment. There is also the chance that he doesnt want to come on too strong...wait it out and see what happens. ..or you can always tell him how you feel, the truth is usually appreciated instead of holding it in.
2007-03-25 11:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Nico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys have this committment fear. be patient with him. don't nag or push. give him some time.
2007-03-25 11:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by intelligent80000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋