My parents dont always treat me the way they should in my opinion. For example, they constantly fight, today, they got mad at me because i was cleaning my room like they told me to and then they got mad cause i forgot to put my stuff away in my room so they threw it in the cellar where all the bugs are and half of my homework papers got all ripped up. Plus, i spent a long time just trying to find them because they would not tell me where it was. They act like they hate me sometimes. It really drives me nuts. I'm starting to get really upset. When I first told them that i was sexually abused, my mom looked at me and said no you werent. Then, when she finally believed me, she made a joke about it. I had to cry to get her to believe me. I mean, shes my own mom she should believe me. Also, i hear her and my dad talk bad about me all the time. It really hurts and everytime i start crying they always say good you should be crying. it really upsets me. What should i do??? Thanks.
2007-03-25 04:05:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Find an adult whom you can trust and who cares about you - and discuss this with them. You're having a really hard time, and it sounds as if you deserve better, but you'll have to find someone else besides your parents to help you.
As for the sexual abuse, tell your adult friend AND also report it to the police. Your parents should have done so, but since they haven't, you must. Then you need to find a counselor/therapist to help you sort through and face the aftermath of your sexual abuse.
You can do this - go for it!
2007-03-25 05:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by MomBear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad to hear that you are having a hard time dealing with own parents. Your mom and dad should be the ones giving you love and support first and foremost in your life, but it seems they are making you miserable. Have you tried talking to them about this, although from what you have said they sound insensitive and might not even act on whatever you tell them. Will they agree to have a family counsellor to fix things among you three? Maybe an outsider can pinpoint their mistakes to make them change the way they treat you. If you have older brothers or sisters, seek support from them. I really hope that you find affection from your family, if not from your parents then at least from your siblings. Seek help from Jesus, pray everyday and He will make you a stronger person. Take care and hope everything works out fine!
2007-03-25 11:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it could be better...but i dont know every single detail about your family...I feel 4 u and know what u r going thru...is there an older friend or maybe a counseler at school u can talk 2...ur parents should never talk bad about u ..maybe they r concerned about some issues..i am sorry and hopefully u can find someone to confide in....Good Luck in all u do
2007-03-25 11:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by machele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound like a good kid and ur parenrts have issues!!!!
2007-03-25 11:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋