Unfortunately lastnight I had a lil too many to drink & drunk dialed this guy that I used to have a casual relationship w/. I've talked about him on here before in the past, so probably some of you know who I'm talking about. But anyway, we actually just talked & emailed each other because we are still friends, although I still have that emotional connection w/him. In the recent email, I asked him how everything was going & if he still wanted to go to Colorado & last time I talked to him he told me that he had taken a break from his gf that he had just met. I had to be fine w/ him having a gf because when he moved back home, we left it as friends..so he emailed me back & told me everything was going good, but he wouldn't be able to go on a trip & wants to try for next year & then he wrote that he got back w/that girl. Anyway, I wrote him back telling him I was happy for him, in an upbeat attitude & said that I was glad we were still friends. Well that was Thursday that I talked to him.
2007-03-25 05:04:44 · 3 answers · asked by V i P b A b Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so lastnight like I said I had too many to drink, and I ended up meeting some friends at the same place me & him met, and then the weird thing happened and I heard a song that we used to listen to. So...I called him, sorta crying ..and told him that I missed him. Then I thought that was ignorant so I texted him telling him I was sorry and that I had just heard a song, etc. Well this was 3 am in the morning (his time) my time was 2 am when I called him. He hasn't yet changed his number since he's moved, but now I'm afraid he will. So what do I do, I feel embarrassed that I got so emotional with him when I just emailed saying everything was fine. What do I do?
2007-03-25 05:07:44 · update #1
whatever has happened can't be reverted back, so just wait for his reaction.
anyway, i think, you just poured your feelings on him and he knows the true situation, so what, the world will not end, the sky will not fall, everything will remain as it is. it is the test of his friendship now, not yours, so best course of action is WAIT for his reaction as i said earlier too.
2007-03-25 05:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can't do casual sex, because they get emotionaly involved. He already has a girlfriend and he only uses you for a stand in, when his real girl is not around. He is just dangling you around when he wants some fun. Find someone else and YOU can be the real girlfriend for a change. And stop calling him, delete his number from you phone.
2007-03-25 12:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha you loser. thats why you turn your phone off before you start drinking lol. call him, and explain it to him. tell him, you;re sorry that you called him. ... thats all you can do.
2007-03-25 12:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋