Ok so there is this guy that sort of likes me but these other girls like him. He just broke up with his girlfriend and he is the most popular guy at school. These other 3 girls like him, and his girlfriend still likes him. The 3 girls are all friends and they think he is completely in love with them. So on Friday my friend and I called him and asked if he liked those 3 girls. He said he didn't like any of them and thought they were all ugly. So if he likes me all of those 3 girls (1 of them is my friend) will hate me. What should I do? Please no rude comments.
Bella
2007-03-25 04:51:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well we called him but right when he answered my friend hung up, so he called back and we asked him.
2007-03-25 04:58:27 · update #1
Only one of those girls is sort of my friend. The other ones are self-centered jerks.
2007-03-25 04:59:43 · update #2
I cant talk it over with them. I tried to but they only laughed and said" Yeah right, Nick (the guys name) does not like you! No offence but if he breaks up with his girlfriend he would either like me, or Gabby D. (another brat girl)
2007-03-25 05:02:21 · update #3
Uh I dont think there will be any "long relationship" Im only 12...
2007-03-25 05:03:40 · update #4
See, I'm pretty sure I'm not going to be his girlfriend, but if he turns down the other girls they will automatically blame it on me because I like him.
2007-03-25 05:05:38 · update #5
if those girls really get mad at you for going out with that boy then they airnt your true friends because no real friend gets mad at you over a boy they dont even go out with... and if he doesnt like them && he likes you there is nothing you can do about it...
2007-03-25 04:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by audrey v 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just do what your heart tells you. IF you think this guy will dump you like his ex dont put yourself through that heart ache. But if you think you have a real chance for a happy relationship with guy go for him. Ask your friend if it where her he choose then would she like it if you were a ******* to her. Tell your friend if you guys are really friends she wont let a guy get between your friendship.
2007-03-25 12:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kinka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say let him grieve his last girlfriend. If you don't give him time and space, then you're just asking to be a rebound girl. It'll be frustrating and he'll just be comparing you constantly to his ex. When I was single (I'm married now) I always approached men as friends first and talked about anything like music, movies, weather, dogs, cats, etc. He needs time to forget, heal, and vent.
2007-03-25 12:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by El Pajaro Loco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might be saying that to make you feel great. Yet he could be saying the same thing to those girls about you saying your ugly. I would just let him go. Sounds like bad news. And your friend is worth more then a guy.
2007-03-25 11:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bella - Give the poor guy some space! Be friendly, but don't call him anyomore!
2007-03-25 11:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if they are really your friends they will understand
you should talk it over with the one that is your friend and tell her that you like the guy to and ask her hypothetically that if that guy you all like liked you the best if that would be ok with her
2007-03-25 11:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just speak abt 2 him and her.tell him 2 2 the girls by himself.
and convince her
2007-03-25 11:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by max_freak404 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont let a guy ruin ur friendship yes even if hes the hottest and most popular guy at skool...
2007-03-25 12:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by elmo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋