2007-03-25 05:01:56 · 21 answers · asked by Ammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends.. If you both do want to have the kid badly - yes.
If the kid was born to save your marriage or problem like having an affair etc, it depend on both party on how they feel for the kid. For me! My husband wanted a kid badly.. and now i am the only one who look after the kid when he goes pubbing, gym on his own.he living as a happy "single" guy who can go anywhere he likes after work, while i have to look after the kid. I feel happiness with my kid but i am sad that he was not at home to share the joy of having kid at home!
2007-03-25 05:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by TO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kid cannot save a relationship, if that's what you are asking. Because after the kid is 18 and leaves the house, it's only you and your significant other left, and you will have to face things between you eventually
A kid can of course bring lots of happiness, as long as you still remember to live for yourself, because again, in 18 years they are gone and you need to figure out what to do with yourself
2007-03-25 12:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It brings happiness in most cases. But then you should be ready to handle the responsibilities of a kid.
2007-03-25 15:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by glad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to be a good parent then kids not only will bring happinees in your life but also his/her life will be happy. So decide are yuo able to cope rising a kid and be best mum. As a child need safe, secure enviroment and loving and caring parrents. spartan
2007-03-26 05:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Spartan Total Warrior 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, surely
When you become a mother or of course a father the feeling of being parents is great.
When a person have a baby, he or she can become a true human being with the feeling or love, care and affection for there baby.
This is the only feeling when you will be able to understand what your parents have done for you and now its your turn to return the same. You will also realize you mistakes which you did etc etc.
I can only say be parents and know how lucky you will be .
2007-03-26 04:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by RUBY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A child will definitely adds in more happiness in your life.
However, make sure that both the parents are ready to have one. Also having one isn't just the end of the issue both should be able to give time to the child.
Every little things that your child do as a baby like smiling at you, holding your fingers, starts crawling, calls you out, start walking will be a cause of smile for you.
Although, when they grow they might turn naughty and u might get upset at times they don't listen to you, but its all their time to be, i believe that no child is difficult to control if you give them proper time and resons things out with them.
Go ahead plan your family if both of you are ready.
2007-03-25 14:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by Savvy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People think a child in there life will bring them happiness. I think they need to be ready for a more complexed life with more decisions and crazy times. Doing it for the right reasons......Love Nurturing, Bond Family Values etc....Now your talking....
2007-03-25 12:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by cc8462r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My kids bring me happiness you'll never find anywhere else.My kids r my life and have brought me out of a rut.They have kept me living through the bad times.If it wasn't for my kids I would have given up on life yrs ago.
2007-03-25 12:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a baby to try and bring happiness!! Wait until you're good and ready - they're a lot of responsibility and take alot of energy to raise right!
2007-03-25 12:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me... yes even I don't have any kids... I had a lot kids as soon to be ex aunt and currently a babysitter... I would like to have kids some day but... I had to wait for good one come along.
2007-03-25 12:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Country Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋