Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

I moved this guy in cause the council tax needed paying,long story short I caught the dirty whore at it and went bananas,I gave him a few slaps and she got verbal.I threw them out there and then,then 10 mins later the cops came and nicked me,2 days later I released and the2 of them are in my house which I go out and break my back for and I go back to find the locks changed here I am 2 years later and single.any takers?

2007-03-23 17:32:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex were together for four months. We were each others first loves. He went on vacation for two weeks and when he came back he told me half of him still loves me but half just wanted to be friends. So I said fine, I just want him to be happy, so we broke up. Even though he said we would be friends he no longer talks or looks at me. It's been two months since we broke up now. We have mutual friends and a class together. It's hard because I will be standing right next to him and it's like I don't exsist. I use to try and talk to him, not about anything big, just nice small talk, but he seemed annoyed that I was doing so. I use to wave, say hello, but nothing. Now I've just started ignoring him back, he obviously wants nothing to do with me but it's hard. We have some of the same friends and I can't hang around them anymore when hes around. Also we have a class together that I see him in and it makes me lose my focus. I really need to get over him but I still love him so much.

2007-03-23 17:31:51 · 6 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

4 years ago in our final agreement I was ordered to pay child support and she was the custodial parent,although we share joint custody. As the custodial parent she was to keep insurance on the child and we were to split the costs not covered by the insurance . Just recently (6 mo's or so ),I learned that there is no said coverage on the child. The ex had asked me before to help with some of the doctor bills and I said I would do what I could.I have begun a new career with a large corp. with major benifits that will cover the child.I asked the ex why she did not have ins. on the child and she said it was too expensive and that I was responsible for half the medical bills anyway.Ithought that my child support payments were just that ,support for the child?I didn't know that I was paying for her '07 Mustang and her husbands new truck and the house we bought that she now shares w/ him!I asked her to drop the child support for the ins..she refused.She still has no coverage.I feel railroaded

2007-03-23 17:31:38 · 15 answers · asked by howard s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so around july of last year my husband decided to go to school to be a minister so we had to get a loan out to cover the first semester and then his GI Bill was going to pay us back in october. Well I got the loan I just needed a co-signer and i asked my step mom to do it. She said yes since it was going to be paid off in Oct. Well Oct came around and the GI bill didnt give it to us all at once like we thought and he needed some of the money for books. Well, my parents got mad that I lied to them when i didnt. Now they are soo pissed and wont talk to me because i went and got a dog and put it on my credit card and they thought i paid cash for her and they couldnt understand why I didnt put it towards this loan. They havent talked to me since January and I tried calling and apologising two nights ago and they wont return my call. What should i do. I want to be close to them again.. Please help.

2007-03-23 17:31:37 · 2 answers · asked by Lexi's mommy had twins! 6 in Family

2007-03-23 17:30:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-23 17:29:48 · 10 answers · asked by gina 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 17:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, My husband and I had a MAJOR fight and he said some things that I can't get over, for example he told me that I haven't loved him in the last 15 yrs.( we have been married for 14 and together for 22) So this really hurts me, if he really feels this way what are we doing? He also said that he can't tell me who he is...? What dose that mean? I have asked and wrote him... with no response. This is killing me, we go to couceling in a week but, it hard to act like everything is okay.... I am not OKAY...!!! I don't want to fight with him, I want to talk to him and get some response. I feel like I am dying inside screaming for help with no one to listen.
What do you think that I should do or say that wont cause a fight????

2007-03-23 17:28:40 · 8 answers · asked by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I have a lot of them, and some of them just can't get along... Some complain that I'm not spending enough time with them...
Some are totally judge mental and don't give my other friends a chance because of all the people that tease them...

2007-03-23 17:28:31 · 3 answers · asked by kalerei_fury 4 in Friends

I need advice on this, i met this woman thru my friend.. she's 27 and married. And not forget to mention, i am only 22. We knew each other just for 3 months.. and the friendship has became more than that.. and now we are just so stucked with each other. So much in love. The sparks are just so wild and crazy. I admitted i never fell this strong and has so much desire and passion for someone before. The feeling is mutual as fo her. She even said she loves me more than she loves her hubby. But the problem is.. i can take it in the beginning.. but day by day i found myself falling deeper and deeper.. and i cant take it that the reality is she's sharing her nights with another guy. That hurts. I asked her to leave him, but she said it's not an easy thing to do because that involves her family and her hubby's family. She said she loves me but she's stucked and she doesn't know what to do. I tried to forget her. She did too. But we couldn't. what should i do ? should i wait for her? or ?

2007-03-23 17:28:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so basically in the beginning of this year at school, my old friends (the "popular ones") decided they didnt like me anymore, so they stopped talking to me and competely ruined my rep. I was like a friendless loser. Then I started hanging out with the 'ghetto' people I guess you could say, a I got really close to one girl...lets call her Molly. So me and Molly are really close, and we have this whole little group going on. Everyone else at school is thinking like -Wow isn't this ironic...the preppiest prep with the ghetto people.....- Seriously, I thought it was a little ironic too, but I loved this gorl to death. All of the people in our little group were so loyal to eachother and everything. Then basically, I sat with another group of people at lunch one day and the got mad. Like REALLY MAD...They got the total wrong idea. They thought I used them to make it look like I had friends until the popular people took me back into their little possy. (See below for the rest:)

2007-03-23 17:27:42 · 2 answers · asked by its a secret... shhh...! 1 in Friends

I have this crush on a girl (i know my thing says that im a girl but i just made it say that for fun) last night i saw her walking by the beach and we went out and drank alot and we kissed and kissed alot and later i found out that she is already married to someone else, she thought that we were just drinking as friends, but i new we werent, what should i do? should i tell her husband that i did all that stuff, or should i tell her to divorce him and come and be with me? i dont know, i need youre help!

2007-03-23 17:26:38 · 13 answers · asked by Lousianna K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i've got my first girlfriend, and i was talking to her on the phone today. Her friend was at her house also and was trying to mess with us. So all of a sudden she asks if i'm going to kiss her ( girlfriend) and i said i want to take things as they come. But as i said that, my girlfriend notes that shes ready to go further in our relationship. So that means kissing. (we;ve been dating for maybe a week or 2 now)

Does anyone have any tips on Kissing? Thanks

2007-03-23 17:26:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey guys... i have a bit of a problem, im an italian woman and im attracted to black males. My parents dont understand, its not that they are racist they just dont believe in inter racial dating. They have a lot of black friends, its just when it comes down to the dating, they want me to date an italian... im seeing someone now but its not really serious, i want to wait to make sure i get the right guy, plus i live with them still... its hard... anyone have advice or been in the same situation??

2007-03-23 17:26:09 · 3 answers · asked by mzlissa230002 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it cool to email a girl and tell her you like her...i know this girl at work, but we both work in different departments... i emailed her asking her for her personal email address. She replied back and then I sent her another email to her personal address telling her that i like her and if she could give me her phone number so i can call her. Was that a stupid thing to do????

2007-03-23 17:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 17:23:52 · 7 answers · asked by giselle g 1 in Family

I'm a really shy guy when it comes to girls. What are some good things to talk about with them to not appear boring to them?

2007-03-23 17:23:13 · 4 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Singles & Dating

He said that he loved me…and that he always will, until the end of eternality…However, he didn’t know the truth…At that cold time of my life, I was his…so called "lover"…I didn’t love him…I just used him…to feel loved….He told everyone that we were together, and that we are in love…Person after person asked me…Do you really like him? I told everyone the truth that I didn’t love him, and I was using him, just to feel loved…One rainy, melancholy day…he found out the truth…It was too late, he didn’t love me anymore…but I fallen for him…He was my life, and my love….he still is....Now, I say that I love him…and I truly do…he's so wonderful, and perfect…he just politely says back…I don’t think it would work between us, I know that you don’t really love me...Now, I live my life with regret…and its too much to bare…I just want to die, for he doesn’t love me anymore…

Basically, I really screwed it up with him..I know he really did love me...But now i love him..how can we ever b together again?

2007-03-23 17:23:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have to get a girl friend how do i?

2007-03-23 17:22:16 · 17 answers · asked by Diego 1 in Singles & Dating

Didn't mean to close this question. Feedback is very helpful. I included the relationship he has with a female friend, who, after 7 mo
of dating I have met 3x @ maybe 20 min. each. Last time 11/06. Not thinking physical here, just the emotional connection is bugging me.....he doesn't understand at all. Keep the opinions coming please. Thx, sue c

2007-03-23 17:21:51 · 11 answers · asked by sue c 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at a church lock-in last weekend and this guy that i like, named Matt ,was being really nice and sweet.I have already asked him out, but he said no. But I asked him about 1 month ago.Sometimes when he would walk by , he would poke on my side. And when these other guys and I were playing dogdeball, they were about to throw a basketball at me and charging at me , Matt got in their way and wouldn't let him throw the ball or come near me. And when we were singing our worship songs, all of us were leaning side to side with the beat, and he would run into me on occasions...

2007-03-23 17:21:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 17:20:32 · 12 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

Iam naveen iam writing my family problem so that i could get a help and suggestions from all the friends. We were a joint family there are four brothers including my father he worked hard for the family he looked after every one in the family with very carefully and did marraiges of all his brothers.Now the problem is they became very strong and now going against my father by listening their wifes. Their word is my father did nothing to the family whatever the property is their that is theirs they are using abused and vulgorus words and coming to quarrel, they have large support of politicians. Now my sister has to get married.We have nobody for the support how we should take the next step and who will help us to get the property equally shared. please suggest

2007-03-23 17:20:21 · 2 answers · asked by naveen k 1 in Family

I'm confused, i like this one guy and he knows but he acts very different around other people. I just can't tell.

2007-03-23 17:19:15 · 13 answers · asked by Camille 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been out with several girls that I guess are feminists and get offended when I open doors or offer to pay for them. It isn't that I think they dont have money or dont work, I was just trying to be nice. Why are so many girls weird about this stuff and how do I recognize before hand if I should pay for the girl, split the check, or let her pay for both of us?

2007-03-23 17:18:52 · 17 answers · asked by Matt 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my boyfriend are about to make 1 year in May and everything use to be all good with us, then he got on "MYSPACE" and since then our relationship hasn't been the same we are constantly arguing about "MYSPACE" he makes me so mad cuz he's always telling other girls that they are sexy and that they are his number one show stopper and they are certified eye candy and stuff like that, and then i found out he'd been sending messages to this one girl cuz i broke his password and so we got into a big argument, then things started getting better and he would just go on people page and just say i'm just showing some luv and dat would be it, but now we are back to where we started, he back to flirting with all these different girls and it's really starting to annoy me, i mean i want to know should i have the right to be mad at him! cuz he told me some stuff like as long as he's not cheating on me then i should have nothing to say, but isn't flirting like cheating???

2007-03-23 17:18:10 · 17 answers · asked by sexichica 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 17:17:48 · 3 answers · asked by pixiedust 2 in Friends

My ex of 6 months recently broke up with me because she said she felt bored to me. The truth is though that I'm a very shy person. She know's this but after 6 months she feels like she know's the kind of person I am now when in reality I'm still very shy to her? I don't have a problem being around her it's just making conversation with her and keeping her entertained. I just feel like sometimes I don't know what to say or how to act around her and I was afraid that if I did I might mess things up with her. She doesn't want to give me a second chance now because she says she feels like she already knows me which I know isn't true. I don't want any move on answers just some advice on how to overcome my shyness with her and get her back.

2007-03-23 17:15:22 · 15 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 17:13:47 · 32 answers · asked by sexy-star 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When your first true love leaves you after 8 years of happiness is it possible to ever have the same love for someone else as you did for them?

2007-03-23 17:12:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating