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Okay so basically in the beginning of this year at school, my old friends (the "popular ones") decided they didnt like me anymore, so they stopped talking to me and competely ruined my rep. I was like a friendless loser. Then I started hanging out with the 'ghetto' people I guess you could say, a I got really close to one girl...lets call her Molly. So me and Molly are really close, and we have this whole little group going on. Everyone else at school is thinking like -Wow isn't this ironic...the preppiest prep with the ghetto people.....- Seriously, I thought it was a little ironic too, but I loved this gorl to death. All of the people in our little group were so loyal to eachother and everything. Then basically, I sat with another group of people at lunch one day and the got mad. Like REALLY MAD...They got the total wrong idea. They thought I used them to make it look like I had friends until the popular people took me back into their little possy. (See below for the rest:)

2007-03-23 17:27:42 · 2 answers · asked by its a secret... shhh...! 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

Yeah so now here I am caught in the middle of this whole thing. So I let it rest the rest of the day and get a couple of dirty looks and all that good stuff....then that night I call Molly and tell her how sorry I am. I tell her it wasn't what it looked like and all that...she says ITS OKAY!!! SHE FORGIVES ME AND SAYS ITS FINE!! Then we're talking on the phone the rest of the night about like nothing...just normal friend stuff.....Then the next day at school she ignores me and wont look at me and wont talk to me and everything! I was distraught. Now it was around Christmas time. Weeks started to go by and it seemed as if we had moved on. I was kinda friends again with my old frinds, th e "popular" ones, and she seemed quite happy herself. However, things soon changed. I had become good friends with a girl, lets call her Taylor, and we were like best friends. Then all the sudden, the popular people gang up on us and decide they dont like us anymore! Yeah, I know...D-R-A-M-A!!

2007-03-23 17:36:18 · update #1

Yeah so by this point, I'm torn apart. I finally realize how stupid I was, because Molly was SUCH A GOOD FRIEND! She would have never even thought to do any of the crap these girls were doing to me. So now I'm like depressed. Not like really, but I'm constantly crying, spazzing out on people, and sleeping all day. Sounds fun right? Anyway, by now I'm so upset, I think, hmmm, let me try to send her a "Sorry Email". So about 3 weeks ago, I send her this Email, completely spilling my feelings and everything...I like broke down. Anyway so I send it and she doesnt read it for a week. Then all the sudden one day, she reads it (I can tell by checking the 'Message Status"), but there is no reply. Now I'm really feeling the tension between us and everything. Then, I start thinking -Well hmm maybe she doesn't know how to repy, or what to say or something- So it goes on like this and then last night shes online, so I'm like...hmmm maybe I should like follow up on it. So...

2007-03-23 17:42:16 · update #2

I'm like:
listen i really did mean everything i said to you in the email. i wasnt just saying it.
Then, to my suprise...!!! She replies back!!!::
oh hi
By this point I'm on the phone with Taylor, saying OMG OMG OMG help me! So I say:
im sooooo sooo sorry for everything ive done the past couple months
i really, really am
Then, my mom totally ruins the moment and calls me for dinner. Yeah, good timing. I say one minute, and she says, no, NOW. Which basically mean right then and there, or I'm screwed.
So I say to Molly:
okay im really sorry, i gtg
sorry that was kina quick
She says:
lol, np (no problem) ttyl (talk to you later)
bye
And I, not thinking throw in an:
kay byee xox
So now, I'm estatic. Everything has finally falllen into place....hah its about time! So at school today, I see her in the hallway, and she couldn't really say hi, because she was with her friends, (who currently hate me becasue I was a complete ***** to them when we weren't friends)

2007-03-23 17:49:48 · update #3

BUT! She did smile at me, which like made my day! So, I smile back, and mouth "Hi" to her. There, so now things are basically good.....yeah right. Now I need you to think back to the day that I first imed her. (yesterday lol) That day at school, there was quite a thing that arose, and of course, I was in the middle of it. Basically, one of the "popular girls" lets call her Emily, said the following about a friend of mine, (who happens to be in Molly's whole little group thingie)::
well Jessica is a slut nd had sex nd shes stupid for not using a condom and really fat. then she said that jess was PREGNANT. shes 14. yeahhh okay
So I go tell Jess, because personally, I would like to know if someone called me pregnant. Jess spazzes and it turns into this whole thing. So after school, I'm iming this girl, who Emily said all this stuff about Jess to. Apparently, Emily is mad at me becuase I found out and I told Jess....haha.....anyway so now I have this conversation printed out, and

2007-03-23 17:59:14 · update #4

I'm stupid enough to bring it into school to show Jess, to prove Emily really did say this. I guess a part of me did want to get back at Emily, but I really just wanted to help Jess out. So I show her and she is PISSED. She just keeps saying she wants to beat Emily up and all this stuff...(and she would beat her up to, thats what some of these girls are like)...So I advise her not to do anything stupid. Then at lunch, Jess asks me for the converstaion so she can show it to Molly, and I'm like, OMG OMG OMG, this might start breaking down some walls between us and everything. Anyway, long story short, the whole thing gets around in Molly's group and you know what? THEY THINK I MADE UP THE CONVERSATION TO GET BACK AT EMILY!! THEY THINK I SAT AT HOME, TYPING IT UP, SO I COULD GET ATTENTION!!! I MEAN REALLY!! So now, I'm pissed...actually not pissed...more upset and confused I guess you could say. So the day ends and Emily and her group are mad at me for telling Jess.

2007-03-23 18:06:45 · update #5

Jess kinda believes me, but I could tell there was still doubt in her mind. Jess's friends...including Molly, all think I MADE IT UP. I mean, fine you can think I'm a loser and all, but I'm not THAT sad. COME ON! Yeah, I go home and type up fake instant messages to get back at people. OOOhhhh fun. Anyway, I dont care about Emily and her would little group, because I've finally realized that tey're just bitches and they aren't really freinds. Molly on the other hand, is a real friend. I just am so upset that she doesn't believe me, and I just wish there was some way to earn her trust back. I sould probaly say sorry to her friends, becasue I was really bithcy to them, but I'm really nervous. My plan was to IM Molly, and say something like:
listen everything that happened today at lunch totally came out wrong....my main motive was to help out jess, but once agin, ive screwed up....i know i keep saying sorry, but our friendship ment EVERYTHING to me, and im just so sorry.

2007-03-23 18:13:52 · update #6

However, I'm not sure what her reaction would be to this. I just need some help. I want to earn back Molly's trust, because, truthfully, I like love her. She's really what a friend should be, and I am just so regretful. I have expressed this to her, but I'm not sure how she feels towards me....
I don't want to just leave for summer break and just leave everything-I want to fix it.
What do you think my next move should be?
Thanks in advance.

2007-03-23 18:16:37 · update #7

2 answers

I think you should relax and shouldn't worry about 'labels' (and all that) it sounds really BIG for you. stick to the people you really like and to the people who you really think are your friends. you're not a 'friendless loser'. you just really need to decide who you want to be friends with, and ignore what the other people are saying -or thinking, k? ;)

2007-03-23 17:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by ess-o-el-o 2 · 0 0

well all that i can say is that, who do you truley like? pick that person and the person you hate IGNORE THEM AND LEAVE THEM ALONE CUZ THEY ARE b**** rite girl?! well you truly sound like a great friend and i would be your friend... i guess you shouldve hung with molly in the first place. i know how you stood up and told her your true feelings, why do just that? maybe you could give her reasons WHY you like her and why she's such a great friend! well the SMART thing to do is think, "it doesnt matter whether theyre "popular" or "ghetto", you should just be friends with someone you like not what group their in rite? well i heard popular can be a little SASSY and i know where youre at rite now, i know you can figure it out and youre deffinatly a WONDERFULL friend to stand up like that....

2007-03-24 02:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by curious_grl 1 · 0 0

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