I got married August of last year to an older man with an 11 year old son who barely knew me at the time of marriage. My husband has been married twice before, but I have only had one serious relationship in the past. He has full custody of his son, Christopher, and they have a very strong, close relationship. I find myself ridiculously jealous of their bond. I keep beating myself up about it, feeling guilty, and my husband is on his last nerve with me about it. Christopher embraced me whole heartedly from day one, calls me Mama, and spends more time with me at home than with his dad these days. But I still don't feel that I love him the way I should after 7 months and definitely feel extremely childish for harboring such a jealousy for him. Is there something wrong with me? Do I just need to get over it? Is there anything I can do about my feelings before I ruin my marriage?
2007-03-23
16:35:22
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