Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

There's two guys that I have no idea what they're thinking.

guy#1= Asked him to prom, he said "I can't say yes to that right now" after knowing him for nine years I know its not cause there's someone else, his older brother who he's really close with said that, so maybe it has to do with LAX or his schedule, but He's one of the greatest guys I ever met, he's gorgeous, athletic bright blue eyes and great cook. He's supposed to give me lessons on cooking and I'm the girl lol. but the best thing are the hugs, they make me feel safe and my heart races. he's there for me when I need a hug or need to cry

but then there's #2= Also sweet, but showing signs of alcoholism, when he promised me he'd stop, makes me think he wouldn't be a great b/f. however, he's always there for me but he only tries to make me laugh he doesn't comfort anyone, and is distant but I'm the one girl he tells almost everything too... he's a dorky guy but popular with the girls...

2007-03-23 16:11:04 · 3 answers · asked by Redfox 2 in Singles & Dating

Long story short, my husband and I will be married for 2 years in May. We have a 14 month old daughter. For the past few months, he's been kind of controlling. I'm not allowed to stay out late (I leave after the baby goes to bed), I am not allowed to talk to any men what so ever (all they want is sex), if I do go to lets say walmart, he'll call me if I am gone too long.
I love him to death, but I'm not sure how much longer I can do it. He is my main source of income, considering I go to school online full time. We cant afford marriage counseling..Any ideas? Thanks.

2007-03-23 16:10:48 · 11 answers · asked by krazybaby121 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf neglected me and wouldnt try to work things out with me when i tried to talk to him, he would just yell at me so i was eventually pushed into a corner with nothing to do but break up with him. after we broke up i missed him so much that i pleaded for him to let us work things out but he told me he didnt want me anymore. now, a month later, he is telling me he still has feelings for me and that it bothers him that i flirt with other guys now. and a guy friend, who is both of our friends, has been harmlesslly flirting with me a bit lately, and my ex got upset about that. hes now talking about how he loves me and hes so sorry for everything he did and he misses me, yet he still doesnt want me back. why is he doing this? he told me he didnt want me anymore but now hes just dragging me along, he wont let me get over him. =/

is it wrong to be flirtng with his friend? (hes my friend too).
and why is he acting like this?

2007-03-23 16:10:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i am about 5'7 and 115 pounds and i play soccer and tennis.i have like golden tan skin and long hair. i am funny ans sweet?

2007-03-23 16:10:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before, I could not turn around because of him. Whats up with that

2007-03-23 16:09:51 · 4 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

At school he said to me just out of nowhere, No i will not make out with you, but he said it in his normal voice. Does he mean the opposite or what does it mean, guys please help me out

2007-03-23 16:09:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to be honest with you my friends. I am 37 years old, and I haven't led the greatest of lives. I have only kissed one girl, and that's when I was 16. She said it was a bet. I am still a virgin, I've never had a girlfriend. My Gears of War clan members all say it's fine, but I feel so depressed. I live with my mother and father. My father gets angry with me a lot. Always saying I'm a loser. He tells me to leave the house and get a job. Is there really something wrong with the way I live? And what should I do about the virgin situation? If there are any girls out there that want to talk with me over a Gears of War match, tell me.

2007-03-23 16:08:50 · 17 answers · asked by y 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was 25, I used to babysit my neighbor's son who was around 13 at the time. We got pretty close during those years, and when he turned 15, he started to develop feelings for me (or at least that's when he started to show them). Even though I could tell he was going to be a handsome man someday, he was still just a kid at that time so I stayed away from him from then on. Our families are pretty close so I tried my best to avoid him over the years. But now I am 33 years old and he is 21 years old and he is as handsome and charming as I knew he'd be. The problem is he STILL has feelings for me after all these years. He recently let me know that he still wants to be with me.

I don't know what to do about this. The truth is I'm deeply attracted to him. (I think I always was I just buried it inside me) But I can't get over the fact that he's 21 and I'm 33. Should I finally give him a chance? Or is it sick to be even considering this?

2007-03-23 16:08:39 · 43 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

She's really going through a tough spell in her life. And I've been there done that, but I don't know what I should tell her.

2007-03-23 16:08:27 · 5 answers · asked by cdun1111 2 in Friends

it be hard for you to continue the friendship at the same level it was before?

2007-03-23 16:08:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Girlfriend and I are going to be getting married and she has heard that people can't work in the states until they have been married for three years. Is there anywhere on the internet that I can find out if this is true or not. Also,If it is not true can she immedialtey begin working once she is allowed to come over??

2007-03-23 16:07:52 · 6 answers · asked by djbred18 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 16:07:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy comes into my work once in a while and when he does, and i'm working, he all of a sudden has this big smile on his face, starts shaking, and figiting ( probably spelled wrong). then he tries to make small talk with me about the weather and stuff. could he like me, or is he just being friendly? according to a girl that i work with, when he comes in when i'm not working, he doesn't say a word. he also completly ignores things that my other co-workers say when he does see me there. please help, i'm completly clueless.

2007-03-23 16:07:09 · 2 answers · asked by shweetpea 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 16:07:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother just moved back home and i feel all my energy has gone into figthing him. i am a female he is a male. at frist we was best friends now we can't stand each other. every time i come home from school i get a headach. sometimes i have fun but most its just a big figth. i am also stressed out by school all the school work and everything is so stressful i am now passing most of my class but then i wanted a break for a day but my mom said no what do I DO

2007-03-23 16:06:58 · 13 answers · asked by tammy_20041 1 in Family

Theres this girl that had liked me previously but i had not tried anything with cuz shes an ex of my best friends. Now things have settled down and my friends no longer cares for her.....my problem now is that i have limited contact with her and she may no longer like me......wat should i do cuz i really like her

2007-03-23 16:06:16 · 8 answers · asked by DannyD24 1 in Singles & Dating

how much do you appreciate it, the importance of it, describe your best relationship(friendship) with the opposite gender?

2007-03-23 16:05:29 · 10 answers · asked by ikatchur 1 in Singles & Dating

When setting up child support payments, information is taken from both parents, including their income.

If either parent has since remarried, do they have to show the income that their new spouse brings in, or if they do not work (only the new spouse does) can they just list their income as $0 since technically they are not the one receiving the paychecks?

Thanks for any advice.

2007-03-23 16:04:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and they make you blush, but they don't set it up until 8 weeks later?

2007-03-23 16:04:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to be honest with you my friends. I am 37 years old, and I haven't led the greatest of lives. I have only kissed one girl, and that's when I was 16. She said it was a bet. I am still a virgin, I've never had a girlfriend. My Gears of War clan members all say it's fine, but I feel so depressed. I live with my mother and father. My father gets angry with me a lot. Always saying I'm a loser. He tells me to leave the house and get a job. Is there really something wrong with the way I live? And what should I do about the virgin situation? If there are any girls out there that want to talk with me over a Gears of War match, tell me.

2007-03-23 16:03:31 · 7 answers · asked by y 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this one guy that i have feelings for, and he puts his arm around me in the hallway sometimes...always asks me to go tohis house after school((but i cant bc i have soccer practice))we hang out, like go to the mall and stuff. and everybody thinks that we both like eachother. whenever we watch a movie in a class that we have together, he always asks me to sit by him and he always touches my knee and puts his foot on mine..and i do it back 0=] and sometimes he doesnt let me go back to my desk and like blocks me or in the hallway, he'll come up to me and get really close. he also says cute things about us kissing(we never have) or just sexual stuff...not that gross or anything. he also has a girlfriend back home in a different state..but just the way that we look at eachother, i can feel something. i don't want to get into the middle of them but isnt it kinda hard to keep a girlfriend like that...i dont know if he likes me, just is flirting, or likes me like girlfriend material?!

2007-03-23 16:03:05 · 2 answers · asked by aeiorjklsdjf 2 in Singles & Dating

what i mean is that my husband is a trucker i know hes very tired when he comes off the road but i also need just a little time from him i feel rejected some

2007-03-23 16:02:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone like green eyes as much as i do

2007-03-23 16:02:02 · 15 answers · asked by airiv311 1 in Singles & Dating

She is one of my close friends. I would do just about anything for her. But there cant be anything more than just friendship because of her religious beliefs. She's not a strict mormon but she still has the belief that if the people you love arent babtised then you wont be with them forever. I just dont know what to do. Should I still give it a try or just give up?

2007-03-23 16:01:49 · 4 answers · asked by Andrew 2 in Friends

Im begining to lose all hope to find the right guy for me and I also believe that Mr. Right may never come. So I get depressed every day.

2007-03-23 16:01:27 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Megan♥ 1 in Friends

My boyfriend of four years just broke up with me saying he's changed, grown out of me, feels like he needs to find something more and wants to take the time to find it...he even said he wished he could put me on pause...I even got that crap line that he wants to be friends....It's been about 2 weeks and I miss him like crazy and I'm still in love with him. He says there's nothing I can do to get him back and that I just have accept that...I'm trying to so badly but it's just so hard. I go to sleep and wake up still thinking he's beside me or at night I still think he will be coming through the door when he should be coming home from work....I feel so heart broken. I hate this crap that it's just going to take time!!!! I just don't know where to go from here..Help!

2007-03-23 16:01:21 · 2 answers · asked by wilsonfromthefrew 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 16:01:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's two guys that I have no idea what they're thinking.

guy#1= Asked him to prom, he said "I can't say yes to that right now" after knowing him for nine years I know its not cause there's someone else, his older brother who he's really close with said that, so maybe it has to do with LAX or his schedule, but He's one of the greatest guys I ever met, he's gorgeous, athletic bright blue eyes and great cook. He's supposed to give me lessons on cooking and I'm the girl lol. but the best thing are the hugs, they make me feel safe and my heart races. he's there for me when I need a hug or need to cry

but then there's #2= Also sweet, but showing signs of alcoholism, when he promised me he'd stop, makes me think he wouldn't be a great b/f. however, he's always there for me but he only tries to make me laugh he doesn't comfort anyone, and is distant but I'm the one girl he tells almost everything too... he's a dorky guy but popular with the girls...
more info coming

2007-03-23 16:01:13 · 3 answers · asked by Redfox 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well i just met this guy from this bio lab and hes really nice and quiet. I was his partner for the activity and he was quiet yet really polite. i saw his myspace and decided to hey why not be friends with him and he turned out reallly cool. we talk on aim and now wave to eachother at the hallways now. but see hes realllly shy and quiet but he knows how to keep a conversation going

my problem is:
i want him to ask me to prom which is next month
but we just met
and i think he likes this other girl that he commented her sayin he "loves" her but see it says hes single..so i dunno

advice???

2007-03-23 16:00:48 · 1 answers · asked by demolitionlvr 2 in Singles & Dating

Im with my new boyfriend, but we havent had a chance to go out or get real close to eachother. We hug and play around alot but we havent done anything that normal couples should do. Like hangout, kiss, and stuff. I want to keep him interested in me and let him know that I really want to be with him. What should i do?

2007-03-23 16:00:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating