my bf neglected me and wouldnt try to work things out with me when i tried to talk to him, he would just yell at me so i was eventually pushed into a corner with nothing to do but break up with him. after we broke up i missed him so much that i pleaded for him to let us work things out but he told me he didnt want me anymore. now, a month later, he is telling me he still has feelings for me and that it bothers him that i flirt with other guys now. and a guy friend, who is both of our friends, has been harmlesslly flirting with me a bit lately, and my ex got upset about that. hes now talking about how he loves me and hes so sorry for everything he did and he misses me, yet he still doesnt want me back. why is he doing this? he told me he didnt want me anymore but now hes just dragging me along, he wont let me get over him. =/
is it wrong to be flirtng with his friend? (hes my friend too).
and why is he acting like this?
2007-03-23 16:10:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay....first off, don't even think of going back with this guy. If he treated you badly before, it wouldn't take him long to start doing it over again. Second, don't fall into a trap of analyzing everything he says and does, because I guarantee you he isn't giving you a second thought. Most guys you go out with and then break up with are going to continue to feel a certain amount of possessiveness where you are concerned after you break up....but that is not a renewal of feelings. That is just how it is.
2007-03-23 16:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's stringing you along so he doesn't have to deal with the fact of you and his friends dating. He just wants you to crave him more and more until he finds another chick then things wont work out with her and in the mean time you'll date one of his friends or some other guy and he'll come do the same thing. Tell him to come to my house and smell my nasty farts from chinese food. I'm dying over here and I think I have the necessary poison to take him out too.
2007-03-23 23:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mike Hunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
srry about u breaking up wit ur bf. No it's not worng to flirt with his friend and trust me honey don't go back for him if thats the way he is threating you. You deserve someone better than that jerk. Hope you can find a way to you problem and don't get back wit him trust me.
2007-03-23 23:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ravi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might of had another girl on the side when he was telling you leave me alone, Now which he don't have his girl he want's to get back with you. Don't be dumb because he didn't want you before what makes you think he is being foreal this time?
2007-03-23 23:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiddo you got what you wanted. a guy who treats you bad. so bad you begged him to come back to you. why is he acting like this???? you let him.
2007-03-23 23:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him and you and i can get together
2007-03-23 23:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by wayneo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋