Im begining to lose all hope to find the right guy for me and I also believe that Mr. Right may never come. So I get depressed every day.
2007-03-23 16:01:27 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Megan♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I was like you too! Believe me I know how it feels and it's not a good feeling. Just keep in mind that things happen for a reason. Maybe at this moment a relationship is not what you need. Maybe you should be focusing on school or whatever.
Don't lose hope, sweetie! The right guy IS out there (somewhere), and just because you find a guy, it doesn't mean necessarily that he is the right one! He WILL come I promise you that! Sometimes they tend to sneak up on you when you're not expecting it.
2007-03-23 16:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a Mr or Mrs Right for everyone. Many people do not see who it is until it is too late, and that person doesn't always come along early in life. Have faith and keep your eyes and mind open. It helps to know who you are. Know what you are like totally, not just what the world would have you beleive. You have to work on being totally happy and secure with who you are before you are ready to even find that Mr or Mrs Right. After that enjoy life and don't worry about it, but keep yourself open and eventually you will find that someone who you were looking for, though they will never be exactly what you expected.
2007-03-23 23:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I'm sure you realize, "Mr. Right" doesn't just appear someday out of thin air. For the record, I'm pretty opposed to the idea that there is just one Mr. Right for every Ms. Lonely. In other words, there are plenty of men that would be right for you!! (and probably NO man that would be "perfect" for you...not because there's anything wrong with you, but because even the happiest and most successful couples aren't perfect).
If you are actively dating or pursuing members of the opposite sex in any way, a good guy is sure to come your way...
One tip: No one is attracted to a girl who is constantly depressed! Do whatever you can to get out of this depression, and then let your new happy self find a man!
2007-03-23 23:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by JenniFire 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have seen 'mr right' show up for people at all different age ranges, some have found him at the end of high school, some not till out of college, and some in mid-life and then others at retirement.
Don't give up hope, he will show up, in the meantime focus on your friends and building strong friendships, who knows, you may already know 'mr right' and you just don't realize it since you are so worried about finding him.
Good luck.
2007-03-23 23:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one special person for each one of us - it's a guarantee in life. You need to look on the inside instead of the outside or you may be missing him completely. I have heard when you quit looking it usually happens. Just spend your time enjoying yourself with friends and family and you might be surprised. The next party, movie you go to, or even restaurant you sit down may very well have your special guy looking right at you. Keep your faith and it will happen.
2007-03-23 23:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to that question is yes. Because it is not time yet sometime we want things to happen on our time but we have to learn to be patient and wait on God. He will send you the husband that you deserve. But remember that he who finds a wife finds a good thing so just relax and enjoy the ride. God know when the best time to put this man in your past. You may need to go to church and find yourself before a man come into your life.
2007-03-23 23:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by kool aid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is why it is so important for people to have other things in their life and enjoy other things. i have my career. yes, i hope to find mr. right, but if i don't i won't be distraught over it. i have my family, friends, a career. i'm content with my life.
you should work on being content with your life and loving yourself as you are. the rest will all fall in place. then more than likely when you least expect it, mr. right will come along. i'd also think about seeing a therapist.
2007-03-23 23:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problems. But I keep telling myself, she's out there some where, but doesn't know, yet, where to go to find me. And never give up! Maybe you and I are who we seek?
Someone is out there for you, girl! You just arn't where he is.
SHE IS OUT THERE
I know she is out there somewhere
Searching for me not really knowing where
Where I am
Whoever she is I truly hope we meet soon
even if she does not often travel with a silver
spoon
We are distant candles she and I especially
With each eye open although maybe we are groping
but rightfully so as the rivers do flow- face reality
2007-03-23 23:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's alway's someone out there that make a pair a perfect match, You just....have to meet new peaple and never doubt that there is no Mr. Right, because there is someone out there for you, you prob's havent met him yet. So cheer up, there's someone waiting for you.
2007-03-23 23:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much. Don't find love, cause love will find you :) I'm sure your Mr. Right is out there and that you'll find him soontime ..
2007-03-23 23:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by CHA0TIK 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋