Im with my new boyfriend, but we havent had a chance to go out or get real close to eachother. We hug and play around alot but we havent done anything that normal couples should do. Like hangout, kiss, and stuff. I want to keep him interested in me and let him know that I really want to be with him. What should i do?
2007-03-23 16:00:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can tease him like the other girl said. but do not I repeat DO NOT sleep with him. if you sleep with him he will lose interest, i learned the hard way.
2007-03-23 16:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by veronica r 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess the question is how do you two make time to get together to do "normal" things, and then it sounds like you are waiting for him to arrange for you both to do "conventional" dating things like dinner and a movie, Pizza and Parking on Lover's Lane, DVD , Popcorn and the Couch, The Arcade and then cruzing the Mall.
What is your man interested in, (besides you), for example ask him what type of flicks does he like, and then see if he would like to get a DVD , and come over to your place to watch it Friday or Saturday nite, - you can do pizza & cokes or whatever, then smooch on the couch and hang out together - maybe play some wii or x-box together if you are gamers.
Are you guys into sports? Boards? Bikes? Running? How about trading music?
Participate in seasonal activities - in summer - hit the beach, - sun bathe, swim, surf, boogie board, body surf, fish, go crabbing. Volleyball & softball.
It's not rocket science, but if you have to keep drawing him out, you might want to rethink the relationship - are you two right for each other? You need to be compatible in a lot of areas - one of which is activity level, if you are gal on the go, and this guy is as sedinetary as a rock - it is not going to work. Good luck.
I'm pulling for you.
2007-03-31 21:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by jtrall25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta know all his interests,then try your best to part of it and like it too,You can join a certain sports that both of you will enjoy so that you will get to know each other better.And be part of any christian fellowship,I believe it will help you to have a successful relationship with him if your involved in any christian fellowship but its all up to you.You can also spend more time talking with him and sharing to him all your embarrassing moments,funniest moments,etc...etc
2007-03-31 16:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the best ways to keep him interested is to always wear new clothes and expensive makeup when you're around him. Make sure to look good. That may seem shallow, but.. well, it is shallow, but it'll keep him interested.
2007-03-23 23:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping him at a bit of a distance will keep him interested. Wish it weren't so, but it is.....
Be independent. Dont be constantly available. Have a life....an interesting life. But dont keep him filled in--keep him guessing.
Men like women who are a challenge. And who like themselves.
PS--like yourself. Honor yourself first. It's a total turn-on!
2007-03-23 23:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what his interests really are and act upon them and keep your legs crossed. There is nothing more appealing to a man than something he can't have.
2007-03-23 23:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cook lots of foods for the 2 of u
2007-03-31 20:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by concern mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried doing that, I ended up making an *** of myself. It will happen, just let it flow. Trying too hard (in my opinion) screws crap up.
2007-03-23 23:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should hang out, and kiss, and stuff. Juust like you said. You really arent dating, unless you are dating, and if he isnt asking you out on dates, find someone who will.
2007-03-23 23:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by absolutroot 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Flirt real sexy with him a lot and do a lot of touchy feely all over his bod and flash him with your boobs.....and your booty....that will get him to really notice...at least it will me....
2007-03-23 23:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋