Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

My friend prefers East Indian, Me xican, jerk, Vietnese, Jamacian, Carribean food

I eat none of these. I am alergic to brenilin , an acid in pepers coconut and tropical fruit. None of this food appeals to me.

I eat American, fish, steak, Eurpean ethnic, jewish Deli and ribs. i can enjoy manderian Chinese also.

She think it is only fair that I go to one of her choices every second time we go out. I say NO. Pick a place we both can enjoy, She was raised in this country. She must be able to eat some of the things I eat and enjoy some of them. She says I just want my way all the time.

What do you think?

2007-03-23 16:32:15 · 4 answers · asked by Nora 7 in Friends

Im in a bad man hating mood. My boyfirend treats me like crap and im lookin for some songs that are man hating or to make me feel better and let some steam out before i hurt him lol. help

2007-03-23 16:32:05 · 6 answers · asked by OneSexyPeach 2 in Singles & Dating

do most guys like short or tall girls im 17 but only 5foot i always feel like i'm to short whats a good height and do guys like that short

2007-03-23 16:31:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright it's a long story.......
So, basically, the girl of my dreams was kinda forced out of my life about 4 years ago (moved), and we were pretty close but not quite "there". I thought I'd gotten over her, but apparently not. Anyway, she has come back into my life, but just until May before I take off for summer training. I really don't know what to do. I thought I had my feelings under control and all, but they came back stronger than they were before. It's hard for me to talk to people. I really need some advice, preferably from girls (because you'd know yourselves better) I am not sure what I should do....I thought maybe a poem, or something like that would work, but dont want to try it without consulting someone first.
P.S.--If you think a poem or a song or whatever is a good idea, tell me one I could use.

Thanks, ladies, I really appreciate it.

2007-03-23 16:31:57 · 42 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 16:30:32 · 15 answers · asked by c1crazyman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true if a man hits you once, he will always hit you?? I was in an abusive relationship, my boyfriend hit me about 6 times in our 3 year relationship, including while I was pregnant with our daughter and I always believed him when he said he wouldn't do it again. But the more times he did it, the more I hated him for it ... and I couldn't forgive him anymore -for my daughters sake and mine- so finally I left him ... even though I love him more than anything in this world. He was raised with an abusive drug addict father that beat his mom ... and I feel sorry for him but at the same time, I don't want to be hurt because of what he saw growing up ... do you think there's any chance he might change?

2007-03-23 16:30:09 · 16 answers · asked by cup_ma_cake07@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-03-23 16:29:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother is compulsive an overly annoying. unlike most mothers who are overprotective and what not, my mom is ctrict up to the point where she throws away my things w/o asking, cleans everything in the house three times a day, doesnt let me use my own cell phone, (she doesnt pay for it) or any other ****. as a matter of fact i dont even want to get into details it would piss me off so much. i have a lot of anger inside from her and frustration, im in college right now and its hard to commute and go home to all that yelling am to pm!!!! im only 17 and i wont be 18 until the sophomore year. thars next year and i signed up for housing. its a nonrefundable** contract where i cant change my mind since i accepted the agreement. i need to tell her im moving onto campus next semester whether she wants me too or not. Personally i couldnt give a damn! im just so fed up. and dont take me wrong, i am not a bad kid, i do everything in this house, chores, garbage, groceries.help me....?!?!

2007-03-23 16:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by Alex N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i cant get her out of my head i think about her so much had a dream that we were together. Sometimes i try to forget about her but i end up liking her again. Shes with another guy and i just dont know what to do right now

2007-03-23 16:29:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

couples that are involved for long term relationships, just what do they know that some girls do not know?? why are some women able to keep men from straying, and telling lies. why does a man dump a woman for another that does not look all that hot or why are men attracted to women that only date married men? do successful women keep their men on the run, on their toes??? how?

2007-03-23 16:29:01 · 4 answers · asked by Shari 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i put inenglish this is like really really deep and your eather gonna have to figure if out by your self or try and get it out of me ...but i'm not gonna tell hjim. do oyu think that he will actuly try to figure it out?

2007-03-23 16:27:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out a while ago that this guy named Andrew liked me, well, after i started talking to him i discovered i liked him to, and one day after school he asked me for my number...So i've talked to him a few times and school and on the phone and since then we've made plans twice to go somewhere, but then like the day before we're supposed to go he gives me some excuse and we can't go anymore. So is he just making excuses so he doesn't have to go out with me? I'm so confused, can someone help.

2007-03-23 16:27:53 · 6 answers · asked by kimberly 2 in Singles & Dating

is my friend a slut.she may have made a few mistakes she gave head(sucked dick) but she is still a virgin she was forced kind of not raped. she is very cool and down to earth she can make you laugh and smile even when you are blue but she goes with this boy and all his friends think she is and says that they should break up but they are in some what of love(even if they don't think so) i feel that it is getting to her she ask my but i did't know what to say HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-23 16:26:57 · 4 answers · asked by tammy_20041 1 in Friends

I'm doing a presentation on attraction and I need a few opinions. Physically what is more attractive? Face? Body? Within a personality whats attractive? Bad Boy? Sense of Humor? What about love at first sight?

2007-03-23 16:26:37 · 20 answers · asked by Nate 1 in Singles & Dating

He's 21 and owns a restaurant right now..but he's not going to college.

2007-03-23 16:26:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an older friend that's going to highschool next year and i'm afraid she'll spend more time with her friends then me and i've known her for a VERY LONG time.What should i do?????

2007-03-23 16:25:57 · 10 answers · asked by BBallqueen 1 in Friends

Well, today during Art class, this girl that sits next to me says that the type of clothes that a guy wears does count. Since when does clothing have come important?

A lot of people at my school shop at American Eagle (wherever the hell that is). I've seen their clothes for sale on the Internet. I dislike their jeans. Their clothes are expensive.
I buy my clothes from Sears & Mervyn's. Is there a problem with that? I like to wear Levi's, Converse shoes, polos, T-Shirts, Hoodies in the winter.
Why can't girls accept guys the way they are? Nobody has perfect skin , hair, etc
As for fragrances, not a lot of guys wear a cologne and not a lot of guys wear expensive crap.
I wear Old Spice. Anything wrong with that? Guys have less choices than girls do. There are like 5 different after-shaves out there and all of them are 70 years old.
Cars:
Since when does a girl give a damn about what brand of car that a guy rides? Ladies, give us a freakin' break!

2007-03-23 16:25:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a girl 3 years ago and fell in love with her. She was My first love, we went out for three months then went threw hard times and she cheated i never found out and we patched things up. I found out three months later and it crushed me but i forgave her. Another year went by and we again went threw hard times. She said she wanted time, and after a week apart she started dating someone knew. Three months went buy and she came crawling back i Wouldnt take her back but she wouldnt stop 2 months later i did. Another 8 months went by and we had a fight. I said some mean things from the past and she said she needed time. I told her cant she give me a second chance like i gave her so many times she said no. She started msg another guy saying shady stuff but said she was joking it ment nothin. I got mad and told some friends i wanted to kill this guy and she found out. She text me and told me it was over a text after near three years together. Why can i not get over this rotten person.

2007-03-23 16:24:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a boy at my school likes me and i think i like him...possibly...he is shorter than me and won't talk about how he feels about me to me....he has been ignorin' me....he asks my friends about me and how i feel about him....but won't say anything to my face...this has happened twice...then there is this girl....his ex- for the 4th time who won't get clue that he don't like her anymore...and i don't kno wat 2 do...do i 4get bout' or tri 2 work through it wit him...

2007-03-23 16:24:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past 6 months I have been in a relationship with a guy who is as close to a perfect boyfriend as any guy can be. But for no reason at all, I pick him apart in my mind and catch myself fantasizing about a dramatic break-up. Sometimes I even subject him to mild verbal abuse and he often tells me I act angry towards him. He is such a wonderful person and I would hate to hurt him. I don't think it's bad enough to the point where we have to break up, but what can I do to change? I feel like a terrible person and I want to give him the loving relationship he deserves. Also, it is my first relationship; would that have anything to do with it?

2007-03-23 16:24:36 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

im 15 yrs old im 5'6 110 pounds and i love all sports i have jet black hair a good body im very funny and im pretty smart

2007-03-23 16:24:05 · 6 answers · asked by colts 1 in Singles & Dating

Well im moving this summer and there's a guy who i have liked alot since the 5th grade and have flirted since then to now, but im moving and i won't be able to graduate with him next year, (he's in my class) i really want to tell him before i leave, but i don't know how, or if i should tell him that i have liked him since i met him which was 5th grade and that i still do, the thing is that i don't have classes with him so i only get to see him in the hallways and barely during lunch. THere is a school trip to go cannoing for 3 days after school is over, Should i tell him during the trip or before school gets out, also i want to tell him but i don't know if after i tell him he wouldn't talk to me or look at me, im mexican and he's american. Please help me out

2007-03-23 16:23:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to be popular but I don't know what will happen!!!
My friends want to be popular to but their parents won't
let them out on weekends!!!! Should we be popular???

2007-03-23 16:23:09 · 6 answers · asked by helpful hottie 2 in Friends

I have a bf and their is this guy that likes me and kindaof like him too.Should I stay with my bf or go with the other guy ??? Whjat should I do Please help me me!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-23 16:23:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a wealthy man offered you money. Would you have a price? if so, what would it be?

2007-03-23 16:22:53 · 3 answers · asked by allanackerman07 1 in Singles & Dating

hey everyone! well heres the deal, i have been texting and talking to this guy from my school on the computer and on the phone for a few months now and we always have cute conversations. theyre interesting, funny, even flirtatious at times. the only problem is, in person im so.. blah. i come across as boring and shyer than online or on the phone. he's even said to me online, "i wish you were like this in person." that hurts because i feel like we have so much chemistry, except when we actually speak face-to-face. i tend to get shy because its way easier when theres a computer or a phone between me and him; in person theres nothing in between me and his beautiful eyes. i was wondering if this has happend to anyone before and what i can do to improve the situation and act how i do online or on the phone, in person. thanks so much! all answers are appreciated!!

2007-03-23 16:22:33 · 1 answers · asked by kristin p 2 in Singles & Dating

I am scared of weddings. I cry at them - ALL of them. On tv, in movies...you name it. And I hate crying in front of people. I get so embarrassed. I plan to elope when it is my turn to marry. But anyways, I am going to a wedding soon and am having serious anxiety about going to the ceremony. Is it WRONG to go to the reception and not the ceremony? The wedding is for a co-worker friend, not a family member.

2007-03-23 16:21:49 · 23 answers · asked by lollipop 1 in Weddings

how do i turn him down without hurting him?

2007-03-23 16:21:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm really short (5'2 ish) but also pretty skinny (103 ish). I'm athletic and slightly muscular. My major problem is that, skinny as I am, i have a pretty big butt. Not like huge, but big for my size. Is this ugly or attractive?

2007-03-23 16:21:00 · 20 answers · asked by brubabe 5 in Singles & Dating

I recently met a girl on a high school trip, im from NYC she's from Detroit. We really hit it off, and i have the feeling that she liked me. I know that i like her. The trip lasted 4 days, and on the last day we said our good byes, and i left without exchanging information. Now i am not a sentimental person, i never discuss relationships with anyone (friends or family). And whenever i am interested in a girl, i think of her for a week and then just become friends with her and get on with like unaffected. But i am having a hard time getting over her, i really cant stop thinking of her. Now i do know how to get her information, but even if i do that, i cant just call her out of the blue, that would make me come off as some weirdo. I really just want to hear her voice and laugh again. I am going crazy thinking of her, i get sad out of nowhere and i am watching chick flicks. I am usually a "friends with benefits" type of person. But i don't even think about her in that way at all.
Help.

2007-03-23 16:20:55 · 11 answers · asked by mh10190 1 in Singles & Dating