I met a girl 3 years ago and fell in love with her. She was My first love, we went out for three months then went threw hard times and she cheated i never found out and we patched things up. I found out three months later and it crushed me but i forgave her. Another year went by and we again went threw hard times. She said she wanted time, and after a week apart she started dating someone knew. Three months went buy and she came crawling back i Wouldnt take her back but she wouldnt stop 2 months later i did. Another 8 months went by and we had a fight. I said some mean things from the past and she said she needed time. I told her cant she give me a second chance like i gave her so many times she said no. She started msg another guy saying shady stuff but said she was joking it ment nothin. I got mad and told some friends i wanted to kill this guy and she found out. She text me and told me it was over a text after near three years together. Why can i not get over this rotten person.
2007-03-23 16:24:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you never get over fist loves i would know i love this guy and he has no idea. he's accualy a bit older than me but enough about me! you love her you might not ever get over her but when you least expect it another girl will come along and she will love you just as much as you will love her she will treat you right with the respect and dignity you desurve. I think you are quite the guy for giving this girl another chance, It shows that you want some thing in life , it also shows you know how to forgive, and not exepting her back shows that you are wise and knowing that you cannot be fooled again. personaly i thinK she is losing a realy good Guy ! God Bless ! I wish the best for you !
2007-03-23 16:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by must_love_dogs_and_me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry bud. Im dealing with the same thing. She comes back cause nobody compares to you. SHe's just using you for comfort. Three years is a long time. If she can easily throw that away she's not worth it in the long haul. The only reason you "looked" like an asshole is cause the shyt she did in the past is bullshyt. She cheats on you and then can't understand why you have regrets about getting back together. SOunds to me like a one sided relationship. I bet you're sticking around cause the sex was excellent. GO find another chick and bang her brains out. You'll forget about the ex in no time.
2007-03-23 23:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mike Hunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youll never forget her but you will get over her.You said mean things and she did some mean things shes rotten like you said thats a good enough reason to find someone new.Go meet some new people.
2007-03-23 23:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you haven't yet met your next rotten love. Dude, it's a vicious cycle...maybe you will get lucky and find the right girl
2007-03-23 23:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl is playin with u man... be ur self forget her , don ever give a girl another chance , couz the girls don deserve that find another girl try to make a new friends and believe me u will forget her
try try try and never talk to her a gain
best of luck to u
2007-03-23 23:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by lololo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get over her because she was your first love! Look I tell you what ..I know you love her but start chating with another girl I promise you will forget out her..EVEN THOUGH YOU WERE WITH HER FOR 3 YEARS
2007-03-23 23:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hay man she is playing with you .....leave her and complete your life ...this isn't the end of the world ..torget her ..do another things ..think about another things ....don't give yourself any chance to think about her ..make a new friends this will help .
2007-03-23 23:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by doctorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another girl
2007-03-23 23:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are from Mars Women are from HELL!!!!!!!!!! i tell ya !
2007-03-23 23:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by John C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋