I have an older friend that's going to highschool next year and i'm afraid she'll spend more time with her friends then me and i've known her for a VERY LONG time.What should i do?????
2007-03-23 16:25:57 · 10 answers · asked by BBallqueen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well hunny, theres not much you can do. People grow up and move on. Thats just a part of life. Talk to her as much as you can but dont dwell on it. Make more friends as well.
2007-03-23 16:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by leyanne7676 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe that she will continue to put you before others. Dont show jealously about her high school friends either, that will show low self esteem to your friend, who may not want to hang with you anymore if you become jealous. And just remember, you will be in high school soon, so stop worrying. Also, it is always a good idea to venture out and find new friends so you want feel under appreciated by the other friend. Thats what I had to do. We are still best friends to the day after 15 years.
2007-03-23 23:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by chocolate_thunder_in_dallas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's going to be hard, but a true friend would stay your friend and hang out with you. If you're worried, just talk to her about it. You guys can make a deal. And if she decides to ignore you entirely though high school because she's embarrassed of you, tell her that she's not being a true friend.
2007-03-23 23:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do high school is a hole new ball game not to be rude but she will find friends her own age and hang out with them.
2007-03-23 23:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Digger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is talk to her and express your feelings you cant "force" someone to be your friend if your afraid she'll outgrow you maybe she isnt such a good friend
2007-03-23 23:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by cvegas229 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.. you should be happy for your friend and you should be encouraging her...don't worry friends don't forget each other because of changing schools or any thing else.....things may change, she may get more busy have new friends but she will want you to be there with her so be with her new Friends
2007-03-23 23:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep in contact with her the best you can she's defintely going to make new friends but doesn't mean that you can't still hang out
2007-03-23 23:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let your friend know how you feel and I am hoping that she will be understanding to your feeling. and make sure that she try and have time for you.
2007-03-23 23:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one you need to calm down and dont panic, i know that if she has been your friend for a long time then she will always be your friend know matter what.
2007-03-23 23:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by Cassandra B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP CALLING HER SPENDING TIME WITH HER..
2007-03-23 23:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋