i broke up with my bf 3 nights ago. he called me 3 times in a row that night but i didnt pick it up. and then he stopped.
Ever since thatt he blocked me on facebook and edited his "look for" to "dating and a relationship"(a mutual friend let me use his account to see this). And he re-added a girl who i made him block(although there's nothing going on between them, yet)
Is he totally not interested in me any more?
Now if i write him an email wanting him to want me too, what should i write in the email(we are long distance for a year and a half now)? should i write it short and simple or make it long and touching? which way would make him want me again?or should i just text him "i miss you, do you wanna talk?"
PS: he broke up with me 3 months ago and came back 1 month ago. But still he hurt me a lot a lot, way more than what i did to him.
2007-03-23 16:36:52 · 11 answers · asked by cherbearnew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is totally childish and immature behavior.
You broke up with him, and now you want him back? Puh-leeze.
Playing around with drama isn't love or romance.
Grow up. Treat people and relationships with dignity and respect. If you want to be with him, then give him, you and the relationship the respect it deserves.
You want to go out with others--be fair, honest, aboveboard and let him go. And don't play games.
I dont' care how old (or young) your are. Do the right thing.
2007-03-23 16:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this has been a disaster for months. broke up three months ago and got back and are now breaking up again? shouldnt that tell you something??? just because you got a little jealous that he seems to be moving on pretty quickly, dont forget about all the bad things! just forget about him and you MOVE ON TOO. you need to live your life without thinking about him. if you come running back to him you know full well that will just end badly again. so please, be the stronger person and let it go. the next great guy is probably around the corner. this is your time to be open to it. and if not, its your time to get back to your normal life without this guy that hurt you.
2007-03-23 23:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by SweetDarlin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously had something to say thats why he called you. He finally got the hint and maybe moved on. I would think that you had a reason for dumping him, just explain your feeling but also think is this relationshiip doomed????? I mean are you guys playing games. Are you playing games? IF you want him keep him and if you dont let him go, if he hurts you let him go chances are he will not change.
2007-03-23 23:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by Angie baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds angry. Shoot. That sucks.
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Well, dont make yourself look desperate now.
If I were you Id probably say something like, "You know, I really feel bad for what I said. If you want to talk and try to work it out let me know." Something short and to the point. I dont know. It really depends on the guy.
Good luck. :[
2007-03-23 23:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your both better off without each other. breaking up and getting back together its just too much heart ache for the both of you. is it really worth fighting for. dont act like kids lay it on the line and if you can work it out then great but stop the back and forth motion it doesnt get you anywhere but upset and angry
2007-03-23 23:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by jenperera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay you'll turn 13 soon and forget all about him.
Seriously -- move on And quit playing games
You've learned a vaulable lesson here ----- screw with peoples' heads and wind up alone
2007-03-23 23:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by Bill in Kansas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you want him back just for the fact that he's a challenge for you to get to.You broke up with him for a reason.Let him go and Just focus on you.
2007-03-23 23:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by *.:LALA:.* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...If you miss him make the E-mail long and touching but honey I think you can do better...If he really hurt you then you need someone who will love and respect you...
2007-03-23 23:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the guy alone. you wanted him gone. now he is. you got what you wanted.
2007-03-23 23:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD GO DO UR OWN SISTER
2007-03-23 23:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by chub c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋