okay... i want to stop liking my crush... but he's my friend... so how can i lose love interest in him without losing a friendship? he's a really nice friend... but he likes another girl and im ok with that but now i need to get over him... help?
2007-03-23 16:38:59 · 8 answers · asked by Chica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then start liking and looking for another guy, move on don't waste your time waiting for him to like you.. if you're meant for each other it will happen like it or not...
2007-03-23 17:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by mary grace d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something about him you HATE! A crush only sees the GREAT STUFF! hehe Mess with him... drag him into some debate and see what he is made of... catch him cheating on his GIRL friend...
A crush is just that! It's like being infatuated, which is freekin AWESOME while you are experiencing it (except for SUNSHINE who will never let hers die - even though he is already dead! YIKES! SOWY SUNNY!) But, like the saying goes, 'when the rubber meets the road..' ACTUALLY, that snot a very good example and now I am gonna get a lotta mail about rubber. hehe
Seriously, it will pass. Just try to survive. Sometimes it can take a VERY long time, depending on your personality. Mine last a very long time... they just die somehow... and I can't be sure why I kill 'em, but some lil tiny thing does it. LOOK FOR THAT TINY THING! Criky, this is what happens when I get too wordy. Try to find the jest of it.
2007-03-23 23:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. i'm going thru the exact same thing. i haven't really figured out how to deal with it either. however, i can say that one way to get over him is to think of another guy you could possibly crush on. then, think about that guy's good points and think about your current crushes' flaws. i know it's not the nicest thing to do, since he's still your friend, but it may help a bit. try it and see what happens :]
2007-03-23 23:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by miisty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start pursuing other boys, maybe, for a starter. Spend lots of time with your girl friends, and when you are ready, pick up your friendship with him again. A little bit of a distance for a short time won't do any harm.
2007-03-23 23:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well find another guy to like. i mean maybe there sum1 just as good for u out thre. ur doin the right thing by letting him go for now cuz he liesk sum1 else and by telling him now its will ruin ur friendship and make u feel stupid cuz u knoe he likes sum1 else. so just help and coach him on and find sum1 to focus ur artteion on. bestz luck
2007-03-23 23:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man id like to know too. think my friend liked me last semester and i kinda ignored her cuz i never rly cared. now im not in her class, i kinda wanna talk to her. so if anyone got answers for me too, thatd be nice.
2007-03-23 23:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by shadow82795 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy.
Talk to your "ex-crush," but try to ignore your further interest in him...soon you will find its just another cute guy, so move on...explore, you'll find another!!
Good Luck!
2007-03-23 23:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by micolperu317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BURN EVERY THING THEY EVER GAVE U THEN BURN HIS HOUSE AND THEN HIS CAR AND THEN HIM!!!!
THAT WHAT I DID TO MY LAST CRUSH!
IT WORKED PERFECT FOR ME
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2007-03-23 23:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by chub c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋