Ok me and my boyfriend are about to make 1 year in May and everything use to be all good with us, then he got on "MYSPACE" and since then our relationship hasn't been the same we are constantly arguing about "MYSPACE" he makes me so mad cuz he's always telling other girls that they are sexy and that they are his number one show stopper and they are certified eye candy and stuff like that, and then i found out he'd been sending messages to this one girl cuz i broke his password and so we got into a big argument, then things started getting better and he would just go on people page and just say i'm just showing some luv and dat would be it, but now we are back to where we started, he back to flirting with all these different girls and it's really starting to annoy me, i mean i want to know should i have the right to be mad at him! cuz he told me some stuff like as long as he's not cheating on me then i should have nothing to say, but isn't flirting like cheating???
2007-03-23 17:18:10 · 17 answers · asked by sexichica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i don't flirt with other boys so he's not doing this cause of me, and everybody tells me i'm a good girlfriend to him, he even tells me that, he's just always flirting with people on myspace
2007-03-23 17:20:34 · update #1
Some people use flirting to keep there egos high. Without knowing your boyfriend, I don't want to judge, but my thoughts are that someone in a happy relationship doesn't need to flirt with other girls. I don't know much about myspace, but could you go on there, without him realising it is you and find out how far he would go. If you were to do this, you would need to be sure there is no way that he could find out.
2007-03-23 17:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ang H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, flirting is the same as cheating. But I know a lot of other people see it a different way. With my boyfriend, what made him stop flirting with other girls was when he found out that I could do the same thing. I know that sounds totally bitchy but I started flirting with all these guys and they would message me and stuff and he got sooooo mad that he just stopped flirting with the other girls =D good luck!
2007-03-24 00:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Julie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even tho he isnt cheating he shouldnt be flirting if he loves u.
You are in the right if he is taken and happy he shouldnt be even LOOKING at other girls well its ok to look but never Flirt with them he shouldnt need to if he has you.
Ditch him, but if u love him then say either you or the internet girls u will never be with. Good Luck.
2007-03-24 00:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if you really wanted to be immature about it, you yourself could create your own myspace... but that doesnt seem right, and im sure you woulnd like doing that....
i think you hav a right to be mad at him... if i had a boyfriend, and he was leaving comments like that for other girls, i would def. be really mad. i think you need to tell him again, about how wrong it is that he is flirting with girls online, and tell him that you guys need to reconsider the relationship, maybe that will snap him back in place... if not, i dont think he is worth your time....
2007-03-24 00:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by allstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is not cheating but very disrespectful to you especially when you can see it. talk to him about it, if it seems like he doesn't care how you feel then move on.
PS Myspace is Evil!
2007-03-24 00:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is nothing more than a guy playing with your emotions.You sound like you are very immature about what a relationship is all about.I suggest that you drop this bum and concentrate on improving your life by doing something like going to college or learning a vocational skill to be able to support yourself.Be independent.Be someone who is strong and not made to be a fool.This guy is nothing more than a boy.Treat him as such.
2007-03-24 00:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by onekevinpop 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He can look as long as he doesnt touch. Just dont let him see that your gettin all worked up about it because that will just make your relationship head down hill but yeah i would be mad but i wouldnt worry that much until he met one of these girls or started hangin out with them. Then i would let him see my real bit**y side like on my period bit**y side lol hope this helps sweetie
2007-03-24 00:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well first of all u should trust him enough to not steal his password, but if i were u i'd check to see where these girls are from, if they're in a totally different state then what could possibly happen?
2007-03-24 00:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by The King 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just flirtatoud type of person. Don't trip on it so hard. Break up with him when you actually get some hard evidence of him being unfaithful. But if it really makes you that uncomfortable, get rid of him.
2007-03-24 00:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
gurl i done been there before and to tell u the truth i'm still going thru it now, well i guess u can do wut i'm doing and dat's to go flirt with other guys and when it comes to him and those lil internet girls just act like u don't care about anything anymore
2007-03-24 00:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by Taquila (Celtics Fan) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋