Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

I'm referring to sum_dum_bok's question

2007-03-22 07:58:54 · 8 answers · asked by L 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 07:58:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in the relationship with my partner for 3 years and am not about to throw it all away, i just need some advice as i am so confused. He always picks at me sometimes for no valid reason... its a frequent occurance that the slightest thing will set him off or if he is in a bad mood i always get the brunt of it. He comes home from football training drunk then either smothers me all drunken and stinking and then gets nasty when i ask him to stop or he will just come in and be abbusive. He has hit me in the past but that is all forgotten about now.. he has a very bad temper, i think maybe it was because of his bad and very traumatising childhood. i have tried talking to him but it always seems to get turned back to me and whatever it would be we were discussing would end up being my fault. When i say he comes home abusive he screams and shouts and often punches holes in doors and headbutting walls. Im not going to listen to the usual... 'leave him you can do better' we do have

2007-03-22 07:58:21 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know this is a dumb question but im not sure if am in love? how do you know when ur are? how does it feel?

2007-03-22 07:58:17 · 10 answers · asked by St@r 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife helps out in our child's private elementary school. She thinks she may have wittnessed verbal abuse of children. The teacher regularly yells at this child who might have ADD saying loudly "I can not deal with you anymore. Get out of here". We are pulling our child out but are concerned about other kids. It does not appear other parrents are aware of it. What should we do?

2007-03-22 07:58:06 · 5 answers · asked by fijian 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

affair with them? you say no nicely at first and then when do you get vulgar with them to leave you alone...

2007-03-22 07:57:50 · 11 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Im been dating my bf for two months, and he already said he wants to marry me! Also hes IN LOVE with me, I really dont know how to react to that so i said i love too just to say it so he wont be hurt. That was over a month ago, and now im feeling kinda differnt about him.
I ve been talking to someone on myspace(yes i know HIM) we meet few months ago thourgh a friend. Since then he found me on myspace, and we talking ever since... The werid part is we have so much in common that we meet randomly like not plan. Once at newspaper thing i met him there he was with his school and me with mine. so i just chilled all day with him. It was so fun.
what should i do tell him i think im falling for someone. idk what should i do help!?!?!?

2007-03-22 07:57:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my best friend (we are 14) spent the night at my house a lot. Since we were little kids we showered together, dressed together, swam naked together in my pool and slept in the same bed with each other. Recetly I told another friend about this and she told me it was immoral and we were gay. i am not gay I date guys all the time and i was had sex three times. But is it wrong for me and my best friend to shower together, skinny dip, and sleep together. Were friends not lovers. Is it wrong?

2007-03-22 07:57:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-22 07:56:52 · 32 answers · asked by Cloudy 5 in Singles & Dating

I honestly don't know what to do! I think it's my fault this started...I always have to comment on one of his bad habits or something like that, and he gets mad at me. Then he'll say something about me. Usually, after 20 minutes or so, we're not mad at each other, but this is different. We were on our way home from school and I (of course) said something about him and then he just asked, "Why do you always say crap about me?" I answered by saying "I don't," but I know I do. Then the subject as somehow brought up again and I ended the conversation with saying that he said something about me that really hurts me (it's true, but I don't think he knows how I feel about it). He hasn't talked to m since that moment and I feel really bad about it now. I'm too scared to talk to him right now, since it just happened, but I need some advice. Do you think everything will be okay by tomorrow (somehow I doubt it this time, even though that's always the case) or will this end our relationship?

2007-03-22 07:56:05 · 9 answers · asked by Cosette 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I am about to get married.... but to tell you the truth, I'm scared. You see, after we had been living together for a year or so, he told me about his sex (porn?) addiction. As far as I know he has never and will never cheat. But a while later he talked to me about his family having the same problems.... his brothers are addicted to porn... his dad cheats, watches porn... even illegal immoral horrible porn. My SO said that he doesn't look at the same kind of stuff... but I don't know how to believe him. His dad and brothers all are into the same wrong... very wrong thing.... You have to understand, I can't have his baby if he has this same problem. I have asked him straight out... and he told me that he is disgusted by it the same as I am... but then the first time I asked him about porn he told me he didn't watch it. can any one give me advice? Do you think I should take him to a psychiatrist or just trust him that "normal" porn is as far as it goes?

2007-03-22 07:55:52 · 12 answers · asked by whenwillitallbeokay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we are in high school, and i like this girl. we go out sometimes, and are developping... but im a few grades older than her.. would it be weird if i start saying one day that if she still wants me around, or find someone her own age? or would she take it wrongly and think i don't want her or something? well i want to ask her that to see if she still wants this relationship to go further, and if she's firm in mind.. what do you think?

2007-03-22 07:55:23 · 3 answers · asked by tmackun135 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 07:55:18 · 8 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know if it will be hard for me to find someone else? My husband tells me that no one would want me-but he still accuses me of cheating. He says it is because I can't contribute to a relationship-I have no job and we have 3 kids. I have no job b/c he does not want me to work. I am still very young-23-I am in college-I have a 4.0-but since I have been married-My husband ruined my credit. I am not ugly or fat-I have confidence issues b/c he puts me down. Will it be hard to find someone else(I know I am not ready yet-rebound) and what kind of person are they likely to be?

2007-03-22 07:55:02 · 30 answers · asked by orangecat43 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my cousin has been dating my best friend ever since i introduced them at my place.
although my friend is a great guy, he has a habit of cheating on all his girlfriends.

i am very close to my cousin, should i tell her about my mate, or is that like being unfair to my best mate?

2007-03-22 07:54:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with this man for 2 years already. He just moved in last year in June. Everything was great until recently. He doesn't allow me to have friends or talk to my (use to be) best friend he says she is evil. And that i don't need friends in life my. I can't even go with co-workers to have a drink after work like i use too. He says that was the single life now i am with him. He doesn't even let me go to my sisters house to have dinner and drink a couple of beers and the reason he says he doesn't like for me to go because they drink alot. He tells me that is the only reason i go over is to drink. I went the other nite because he was working late. He came over after work and just ignored me and left with out me. I don't understand why he can't be understanding about me having friend and just being with family. Help? I love this man but i just don't know if he is the one

2007-03-22 07:53:51 · 20 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

Natural ones- if you catch my drift

2007-03-22 07:53:41 · 16 answers · asked by hotsexynurse69 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 07:53:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend has booked a hotel room for us both to stay in my birthday. do you have any ideas of what we can get up to that night to make it a night we will both never forget. sex wise?

2007-03-22 07:53:36 · 5 answers · asked by sensual 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this bitchy girl at school and she is always saying that i'm talking about her... i hate her alot of people hate her all she wants to do is fight me. She is an awsome fighter but I never got in a fight in my life... how do you fight? PLZ help!!!

2007-03-22 07:53:07 · 4 answers · asked by SmexyAAF!!! 1 in Friends

it never fails....everytime i see a nice looking guy, his girlfriend (if he has one) is always either kinda ugly or funny looking. why is this? how come I always see ugly guys approaching really pretty girls? I NEVER see cute guys approaching really pretty girls, and if they do, they just use them for sex or something and play them really bad..why is this?

2007-03-22 07:52:51 · 23 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Singles & Dating

Natural ones- if you catch my drift

2007-03-22 07:52:47 · 13 answers · asked by hotsexynurse69 1 in Singles & Dating

I dumped my gf and she was crying and i told her that i will be her friend but she says everyone says that and like am really scared to go to school i sit biside her in most classes what can i do she is kinda being not nice to me (i know why coz i dumped her) but i dont know what to do help plz :'(

PS. First time ive dumped some1

2007-03-22 07:51:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 07:51:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 07:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by Just A Newbie 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband thinks I am just being lazy and I am eight months along. I can't chase my two year old when I want. I can't bend down to pick things up and when I do pick things up they just fall out of my hands. I just don't move at his speed. He yells at me and tells me I'm lazy and useless what should I do to give him a reality check?

2007-03-22 07:51:01 · 12 answers · asked by Vivianna 4 in Marriage & Divorce

love him i want to move on because all i do is go through alot of trouble when i talk to him or go see him... i take a lot of risks. i don't want to do that anymore what should i do to move on............??

2007-03-22 07:50:51 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Unforgetable 2 in Singles & Dating

latly i just got a job to pay my tution but my bf is tripping cause we dont have much time to spend together for the next week or so. but how do i get him to see that the things i do is because i made a preivous commiment to them and cant back out, but still make time for him

2007-03-22 07:50:49 · 7 answers · asked by just right 2 in Singles & Dating

MY grandmother is 81 this year.SHE likes the 18 year old next door. HE just asked her to marry him to day.SHE excepted.
Help me!!! What should i do?

2007-03-22 07:50:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is there a penalty after 6 months main SS website down other one poor info. Any info appreciated

2007-03-22 07:50:03 · 2 answers · asked by hobo 7 in Marriage & Divorce