English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

Im been dating my bf for two months, and he already said he wants to marry me! Also hes IN LOVE with me, I really dont know how to react to that so i said i love too just to say it so he wont be hurt. That was over a month ago, and now im feeling kinda differnt about him.
I ve been talking to someone on myspace(yes i know HIM) we meet few months ago thourgh a friend. Since then he found me on myspace, and we talking ever since... The werid part is we have so much in common that we meet randomly like not plan. Once at newspaper thing i met him there he was with his school and me with mine. so i just chilled all day with him. It was so fun.
what should i do tell him i think im falling for someone. idk what should i do help!?!?!?

2007-03-22 07:57:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

Chill out! You are young and it is not the end of the world. Just tell the current bf that you don't know if you feel the same about him as he does about you and you don't want to hurt him. Tell him that you do want to drag him on and hurt him worse later on down the road...if it was meant to be then it will later on down the road. Until then, keep your options open and be honest with him and most of all yourself! Follow wherever your heart may lead!

2007-03-22 08:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by globalystic1 3 · 0 0

Well you should never say i love you if you dont mean it, even if it is to not hurt somones feelings. it is normal to fall for someone in only two months, if you dont feel the same in return and you are looking elsewhere then dump your boyfriend now. It will hurt him more the longer you wait, dont say anything about the other guy you are talking too. just say you know he has strong feelings for you and you said you loved him, but be honest and say it was just because you didnt want to hurt his feelings and you know now that was probably the wrong thing to do. Tell him you just dont feel the same way and that you think you should break up.

2007-03-22 15:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by lizzee 2 · 0 0

Well, I really think you should do what's best for you. If you don't want to marry him, don't marry him! If you've only been dating for two months, that definately isn't enough time to get to know each other. I say if things get bad with your boyfriend, break up with him. Trust me, you just might feel relieved.

2007-03-22 15:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Cosette 2 · 0 0

well so that you don't hurt him badly later tell him now how you feel because if he finds out later it's going to hurt him badly. just tell him that now you don't feel for him as much as you used too. that he's kinda moving a bit too fast for you. you just need "time off." that should work.

let him down easy.



(added) or do what the guy on top said.

2007-03-22 15:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by Homer 4 · 0 0

what u did is very wrong............. how can u say i love you when u dont feel it love is a very strong word, if u like this other guy dont hurt your boyfriend anymore and just break up with him just dont tell him that ur with this other dude cuz things might get ugly.

2007-03-22 15:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by St@r 2 · 0 0

you are cheating on your bf and i think you should break up with him because he thinks you feel the same way about him i know its hard to not to tell some one you love them when they tell you

2007-03-22 15:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by bell 4 · 0 0

Don't cheat on b/f and mislead him any longer..
You need to break up or quit fooling around with the new guy..

2007-03-22 15:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Break up now. Say anything. It won't matter. Just tell him you're just not into him. It's hard, but you've gotta do it.

2007-03-22 15:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by fleurhelp 2 · 0 0

Don't cheat, tell him how you feel about him. I wouldn't mention the other guy though, no need to bring him into it

2007-03-22 15:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tracee R 2 · 0 0

fedest.com, questions and answers