I honestly don't know what to do! I think it's my fault this started...I always have to comment on one of his bad habits or something like that, and he gets mad at me. Then he'll say something about me. Usually, after 20 minutes or so, we're not mad at each other, but this is different. We were on our way home from school and I (of course) said something about him and then he just asked, "Why do you always say crap about me?" I answered by saying "I don't," but I know I do. Then the subject as somehow brought up again and I ended the conversation with saying that he said something about me that really hurts me (it's true, but I don't think he knows how I feel about it). He hasn't talked to m since that moment and I feel really bad about it now. I'm too scared to talk to him right now, since it just happened, but I need some advice. Do you think everything will be okay by tomorrow (somehow I doubt it this time, even though that's always the case) or will this end our relationship?
2007-03-22 07:56:05 · 9 answers · asked by Cosette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you have one of those relationships that depend on fights. Now that your going to fight the rest of your lives, but tell me how is it after a fight? My wife and I fight pretty bad sometimes and she picks on my bad habits, but after our fights it always feels like we are closer than before the fight. Drama can sometimes inhance the relationship. Time will only tell about the duration of the relationship.
2007-03-22 08:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by GODFATHER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to cool down and clear your head. In the meantime he's doing the same. When you feel that it would be a good time to talk then talk. And it's not good to always find fault with your man. It gets tiring after a while and he will dump you. So just remember you are not perfect either
2007-03-22 15:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy, its always a good thing to let us cool of a bit. give your BF about a day if the situation calls for. than go talk to him and if he ignore you give it some more time but don't push it. the end result should be you guys communicating. if you and your BF are constantly getting in to fights than i would reconsider the relationship. oh ya and let him know how you feel too. good luck
2007-03-22 15:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and decide what type of person you want to be with. You can't choose a person without knowing him and then try to make him into something you like. Stay single for a while. When you have something in your life to share with someone, you'll know the right person when he comes along.
2007-03-22 15:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be too worried.
Tell him that you really care about him (only if you do, though), say that you're sorry and that you didn't want to hurt him at all. Also, tell him that you really want to change but don't know how and need some help with it. In most cases, this works.
2007-03-24 18:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop or you will know the answer and he drop you give a few day to cool off and tell him youre so sorry and you will work on it what you say and you know you were wrong
2007-03-22 15:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time to cool off, when hes calm talk about the situation.
2007-03-22 14:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves yu then u guys wont break up, but u have to think twice before saying smething u might hurt feeling withous noticing jsut think, and respect him and odnt worry tis normal to have fights.,
2007-03-22 15:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by St@r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's kinda upset about it.... if tomorrow he does not came to you first by explaining... maybe you should talk to him first... and explain what you think happened... and why you said something like that bout him.... maybe you're kinda joking around.... and he got upset bout it.... try to talk to him....
2007-03-22 15:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by JC18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋