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we are in high school, and i like this girl. we go out sometimes, and are developping... but im a few grades older than her.. would it be weird if i start saying one day that if she still wants me around, or find someone her own age? or would she take it wrongly and think i don't want her or something? well i want to ask her that to see if she still wants this relationship to go further, and if she's firm in mind.. what do you think?

2007-03-22 07:55:23 · 3 answers · asked by tmackun135 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Well, it's hard to say without knowing how she feels about you, but I would hope that if she did not want to be with, then she would come out and tell you so. As long as she continues to call you, email you, stop by your locker, or whatever, and wants to spend time with you, then I would just count yourself lucky and take it as a sign she is happy being with you. I am pretty sure she probably will have her own way of letting you know just how "firm in her mind" her feelings for you are. It just may be kinda "subtle" and hard to spot at first, so you may have to keep an eye out for them, and if you ever start to sense that she maybe has doubts if *you* want to be with *her*, because she is younger, and *you* might be the one who wants someone "your own age", be sure you do something nice for her to let her know that she doesn't have anything to be afraid of, because you do want to be with her too. Anyway, I wish ya luck with her!

2007-03-22 08:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why do you need to make a decision about continuing your relationship? If you two are dating then you just continue. If you are going away to college or university and want to continue the relationship while separate then you may need to talk about it but do it in an adult mature way - outright have a conversation. Say what you mean and mean what you say so that both of you are clear as to what's going on. Good luck and God Bless.

2007-03-22 15:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 2 0

if u like her don't be late

2007-03-22 15:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by me 2 · 0 0

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