affair with them? you say no nicely at first and then when do you get vulgar with them to leave you alone...
2007-03-22 07:57:50 · 11 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no that would be me they try to entice. seemed clear to me
2007-03-22 08:15:54 · update #1
Tell your spouse, he'll tell the jerk to back off, and if you don't tell him , he may be irritated that you didn't tell him about it , and wonder why, after all he's a man and we are simple creatures.
2007-03-22 08:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by EGOman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all married people get hit on all the time. I have a myspace profile, and it's full of pictures of me and my husband. I've had much younger men write to me, local people, and they have ask if I would allow them to make love to me, others asked if I wanted to have a private discreet affair, they wanted to meet me for sex, only one was forceful with words, and I reported him to the authorities, as I feared being raped or attacked, the guy only live two towns over from me. I wrote back politely to the ones that asked nicely, and said no thank-you I have all I want and need at home. They did not get vulgar or rude. I presumed they moved on to the next lady they thought might fall for their offer. Men will try, as will women, there are players out there and it is all a part of their game, a chase for them that is exciting.
2007-03-22 15:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most married people always have someone trying to get them to do something to break their vows. But, if you are straight up with people from the giddy-up, they will usually back off and then you can usually be friends.
If you have to get vulgar then you probably led them on to an extent.
2007-03-22 15:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are in love with the chase.....they have little or no thought other than to obtain the unobtainable......If you are attractive (and I am sure you are) others just think through their penises having no consideration for anything other than their own sexual satisfaction.....
2007-03-22 15:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by zararedbird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never get vulgar. Look at the guy and innocently ask, "What don't you understand about the word No?"
2007-03-22 15:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I get it alot...Men dont understand I'm married, and with marriage comes with only one man in my life...My husband...they say things like he will never know..I dont care about how he feels...I would be the one doing wrong..sometimes being rude will think your a b*tch..I rather them think I'm a b*tch then keep trying to get in my pants..
2007-03-22 15:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are always flirting with my wife. I get mad. I am glad she loves me.
2007-03-22 15:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your spouse and let them sort it out
2007-03-22 15:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by Carolyn C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you worded your question so that it seems as if another person is after your husband--is this correct?
2007-03-22 15:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there,s guys that what to be with my wife but she has to tell them more then once she,s marred, they are creeps.
2007-03-22 15:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋