My husband thinks I am just being lazy and I am eight months along. I can't chase my two year old when I want. I can't bend down to pick things up and when I do pick things up they just fall out of my hands. I just don't move at his speed. He yells at me and tells me I'm lazy and useless what should I do to give him a reality check?
2007-03-22 07:51:01 · 12 answers · asked by Vivianna 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could strap on weights and stuff to his belly so he knows what it KIND OF feels like to be pregnant. He won't get to experience the nausea, the back pain, the baby kicking painfully at your ribs, the hot flashes, the cold flashes, the cravings for food you don't even like, the headaches when you stand up and all the other fun stuff.
He will probably cry like a big baby when you strap an extra 50 pounds to him for a week and complain how much it sucks.
Even though he is your husband and you love him, he is being very disrespectful to you and your unborn baby. You should not be bending over picking things up. He should. Does he have a good male friend with kids who could casualy talk to him about pregnancy?
2007-03-22 08:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My baby is 8 months and only have been given his first the tooth and it hasn't even totally got here in yet. So do no longer problem approximately that, my baby has been teething on account that he became approximately 3 or 4 months old. although, my son is crawling ok, he started crawling at early 7 months. Noww he's pulling himselff up on each little thing. possibly it incredibly is by technique of the fact he's a boy and that i became energetic for the time of being pregnant. each toddler is different so do no longer problem, only verify with the physician to make beneficial she would not have a discovering concern, for the crawling area of course. i does no longer problem on the subject of the tooth area because of the fact she gets them finally.
2016-10-01 08:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by celia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My God I hope you truly do not feel you are going to get things like, oh he is under stress, or whatever excuse. If this man is doing this to you 8 months pregnant I would say to you. Tell him its either he learns to respect you or get the hell out of your life. Frankly I am not so sure hes worth keeping.
2007-03-22 08:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for one of those fake preg bellys and have him wear it for a full 24 hours, let him see what it feels like.
2007-03-22 09:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie some weights on his ankles & wrists & then tie a pillow around his waist.... let's see how quickly he moves after he adds an extra 50 pounds!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 08:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont feed into his craziness. Just dont say anything. Hopefully he will realize that what he is saying isnt doing anything for him and stop. But what a jerk.
2007-03-22 07:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by Carolyn C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with that. Had the same problem. Don't waste your breath with the mother either. No good.
2007-03-22 07:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by peace_by_moonlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him put on a fake pregnancy Belly and see how fast his stupid (_I_) can run and pick up stuff.....gosh what a dork
2007-03-22 08:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
strap to big pillows to him and add leg wights to his feet and ask him to do thing he asking you to do. I think he might get it after that.
2007-03-22 07:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't get it by now , I guess you have no choice left.... Sick his momma on him :)
2007-03-22 07:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by EGOman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋