I dumped my gf and she was crying and i told her that i will be her friend but she says everyone says that and like am really scared to go to school i sit biside her in most classes what can i do she is kinda being not nice to me (i know why coz i dumped her) but i dont know what to do help plz :'(
PS. First time ive dumped some1
2007-03-22 07:51:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it was just coz i didnt feel the same way anymore
2007-03-22 07:59:18 · update #1
wow...if only my past bfs where like u...dont worry about it. u dumped her so u dont need her affirmation in everything anymore. u prob wont stay friends either bc that is just hard, especially when the other moves on to another relationship (and this will happen). so just be civil, but dont expect that from her. she will be trying to hurt u, bc u hurt her
2007-03-22 07:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm not going to lie to you, its going to be awkward at first. Especially if you sit right beside her most of the time. But if you were serious about being her friend, then just do it. Either way you clearly have to face her again at some point. Breakups dont necessarily have to be ugly, just be mature about it and dont let her scare you. She's just a girl.
2007-03-22 08:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by Shane of the dead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u scared is she that mean if so u better find away to try not 2 see her at school why did u dump her was it 4 a good reason if so then u r ok tell me the reason
2007-03-22 07:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by chaunceyB#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her some space for a while. she is just upset that you broke up with her. She probably needs time to realize that you are no longer a couple and then after a while she will ethier choose to remain friends with you or you become the dreaded EX and you will no longer be friends. all it takes it time..
2007-03-22 07:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is hard but remember that if you ddumped her it was for a reason and the fact of accepting being her friend after that its really nice, even though it may hurt a lil
2007-03-22 07:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by bigshot_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just go to school and be her friend. If she is not going to be nice to you then that is her problem and not yours. You two were not a fit otherwise you would still be together.
2007-03-22 07:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax..
make sure you won't get back together with her next time.
just act dunno, as if she's not exist. don't listen to everything she said, perhaps don't pay any attention to her altough she's crying.
hang out with your boy friends.
maybe she'll think it's not nice for her to hang out with you in that kinda crowd.
i mean, she's a girl, right?
2007-03-22 08:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by syaoran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be friends with her.. if she doesn't want that, then just ignore her and move on.
2007-03-22 07:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋