Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

2007-03-22 17:17:44 · 4 answers · asked by j_rock032004 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy in September on this online dating group. He was not in the group but saw the ad and responded. We exchanged emails,..wrote daily. Then we began using instant messenger before exchanging numbers and we talk every night. We even exchanged PO Box address so I sent him a card. We talk every night for hours each night. He's in the military and we're not in the same state. He's originally from CA. I like him...he likes me and we want to meet in April/May. He'll stay at a hotel nearby...if we do..or I can stay on base if I visit. He said we don't have to if I'm not comfortable. What do you think? I know there are horror stories from online dating...I would just like opinions or advice.

2007-03-22 17:16:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you suspected that your best friend had a crush on your girlfriend or spouse in the past would you forgive them?

The only evidence that you had is catching your best friend checking out your gf's t&a but they have not said or done anything to or with your girlfriend to act on the suspected crush.

2007-03-22 17:15:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm looking for what mod means

2007-03-22 17:15:01 · 1 answers · asked by James N 1 in Singles & Dating

It's been two years,and she still refuses to speak to me. Do I give up? Why? I still love her,and anyway why let her mother break up my family (three kids).?

2007-03-22 17:13:12 · 14 answers · asked by Bahira 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ever since 7th grade (I'm now in 8th grade), this guy on my swim team keeps kidding w/ me, being sweet to me, and sometimes brushing up against me. He is one year younger than me. I only see him at swim practices and once in a while I pass him in the halls at school. Does he like me? My friends think he does. How do I know he doesn't act this way to every other girl?

Thanks so much for answering!!!

2007-03-22 17:13:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend who lives a hour away from me so we do not get to see eacher that othen. we have only been together for a very very short while, an i am new to this town. i got a job as a bartender so i meet a lot of people. well i meet this one guy and we start talking nothing happen yet all we do is talk ,laugh.an drink together but when we do get togather we can not stop touching ,huging,kissing. so in the short while i have been dating my boyfriend is it still call cheating .?

2007-03-22 17:12:51 · 24 answers · asked by heather w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I dropped the bomb on this girl..

So I have seen this girl walking around quite often and shes amazing, though I never have talked to her. So the other day I decided to build up enough guts to walk up to her with a dozen roses and say... HEY I LOVE YOU... She wont talk to me anymore and now she avoids me at all costs. WHAT DID I DO WRONG? I mean come on.. I gave her flowers... and shes seen me walking around. I kind of figured it would have worked because It does in the movies. I mean Im 25... and I would have to say Im a good looking guy... (www.myspace.com/tizlife) WHAT THE HELL??

2007-03-22 17:12:50 · 7 answers · asked by -Dr. D 2 in Singles & Dating

I've known this guy for 7 years and I am seeing who he really is , and I got turned-off by him this year because he's not honest with himself as well as people, and I wrote him an e-mail telling him that he's gotta know who he is as a person and he's gotta to be true to himself , I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who's not honest with themselves. My question is how come it took me awhile to realize what he was like as a person?

2007-03-22 17:12:23 · 4 answers · asked by poshbaby24 5 in Singles & Dating

Well I like this gye and I'm pretty sure he likes me, but not fully. WE talk some about or love life and hang around. He does get in a lot of trouble once in awhile because he's doen somethin stupid. He has asked me if i'm dating anyone and if i've kissed a gye before 2. Then again he does chew, but i smoke once in a while........ He checks me out and even tried to show me how to hold a bat. He came around behind me and was about 2 take my hands 2 place them where they go but ashley ruined it by saying no i'll show her and budged him aside, but he does curse but only when someone makes him mad and takes about some thins I can't mention....... I'm not sure if I should ask him out and see how it goes or just forget about it. but i was realy worried when their was a caution tape around the whole property and even had a fire truck and police cars. I care for him and he cares for me, but he and his brother do really crazy(stupid things) but i want to give him a chance. What should i do?????

2007-03-22 17:12:17 · 18 answers · asked by Sassy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married but I dont love him anymore.He says that nobody would put up with me if I left.I am afraid to live alone.I hate being alone.At times I imagine having my condo and my job.Doing the things I like alone and It makes me happy but what if its true that nobody can love me for me and I end up alone the rest of my life.I dont have any friends so I am asking you guys.I have no family either.Thank you very much.

2007-03-22 17:12:04 · 20 answers · asked by nuvision93952 2 in Marriage & Divorce

9/10 people seem to believe that if birds eat rice it will cause them to choke or explode.

How did this myth get started?

2007-03-22 17:11:04 · 49 answers · asked by bartmcqueary 3 in Weddings

One of my closest friends just died. He was one of the greatest friends that I've ever had and he was always like a brother to me. Now that he is gone it hurts a lot, but I'm not sure what to do or how to react. At first it just felt like this couldn't be happening and it couldn't be real, and then it hit me, but I don't know what I'm supposed to do or say to anyone around me right now. I love him so much and I miss him tons. Please help me, I'm confused about how to feel, my brain is sort of numb to it all right now.

2007-03-22 17:10:57 · 12 answers · asked by sunshineangel 3 in Friends

Wow. I don't even know how to go about this! I have had a crush on this man for a long time since I was 14 I am almost 21 now. He is a neighbor or was until his house burnt down. He's 31 years old. But I don't care he is just so dang cute. Some sh!t went down about 6 years ago. Some freinds of mine was harrassing him and putting my name on it (I find that stupid and idiotic and personally would never do it) He called the cops and was saying this and that. No idea. He said he was engaged to be married. But I don't know if that ever happended or not. He stopped waving. He stopped talking. I have loved this man all this time! I just wish he realized it. I'm very shy, and scared to do anything. I see him walking through town and my heart goes to beating really fast. I smile and wave and think omg I would die to be with him. He's been in trouble with the law and is working on getting his life turned around. With me being so shy what do I do. How can I get him to notice or even talk to me??

2007-03-22 17:09:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yea we just started talking and i think he might be the one i'm looking for so what should i do?

2007-03-22 17:09:23 · 7 answers · asked by sweetncuteladi 2 in Singles & Dating

Me personally I love me a guy with pretty eyes and hair just like mi and if he can dress good thats awesome.

2007-03-22 17:09:13 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 17:08:43 · 12 answers · asked by altered ego 3 in Singles & Dating

Be honest! It may make you realize if you are a slacker or not.

2007-03-22 17:08:08 · 32 answers · asked by The BecaNATOR 5 in Singles & Dating

what do i get him??? ok im dating a well now 26 yr old guy, tomorrow is our first date, but his birthday is well today, i wanna get him something but nothing way big. were way big into cars and racing, well hes taking me to the movies then out to eat. i have no idea what to get him...='(

2007-03-22 17:07:07 · 2 answers · asked by livedrivedrag88 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm going through a divorce and it has taken a toll on me emotionally and physically. I've even gained weight. How can I start to feel good about myself again? My husband treated me like crap and was extremely selfish....this has really ruined my spirit.

2007-03-22 17:06:56 · 4 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i need help, there is hardly anything to do here

2007-03-22 17:06:51 · 1 answers · asked by nikol ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

nothing good, nothing bad....just the great feeling i have whenever im with them

2007-03-22 17:06:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am leaving my boyfriend on horrible terms, he's and alcoholic and was cheating, I have no other choice but to go. I have two kids, one will be 3 next month, and the other just turned 1. I have a job, but I wil have trouble supporting my family. I need to know how long it takes to start getting child support after you file for it. Do I need to go to court? I will, but I just need to go now, and am worried about the near future, my kids are all that matter to me, and I just need to be sure that I can have food on the table, and clothes on our backs, I will be getting help from my family, but just want to know who's been thru it and how long it takes to see the $. My EX is not willing to give money up front to help out his children..yes, he is an alcoholic ******...that's why we are leaving, my kids and I deserve better.

2007-03-22 17:06:21 · 10 answers · asked by tornado 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My gf and a few of her coworkers are going on a work related conference for 4 days. She was supposed to room with another woman, but then one day before the trip something happened (too long a story to write here) and she can't be with the woman coworker.
Since the conference hotel was fully booked, my gf has two options:
(a) get a room at another hotel, which is 10 min walking distance,
(b) room with a male coworker,
She opted for (b) but then I voiced my objection and she changed her mind.

My gf said there's nothing between them, and she has known him and his wife for years etc.
I don't think she's gonna cheat on me, and she has not shown any dubious behavior as long as we are together, but still it puts me in an awkward situation. So, was I overreacting to object to that?

2007-03-22 17:04:49 · 8 answers · asked by line6hack 1 in Singles & Dating

I always hear about flexible girls being preferred.I'm not flexiable &when i get on top on my boyfriend i just kind of bounce(up & down).i thought he liked it.So i asked my B/friend, if he prefered a girl who has a flexiable waist & asked him to be honest.He said that,he once dated an African girl who had a flexible waist & rode him better than i do,& that she was able to move her hips in a circular motion even when he was on top of her.He said it was great sex.She went back to africa.I asked him to guide me but i ve a kind of stiff waist. SO I APPROACHED ONE African Girl & she took me to another african woman who actually teaches American women how to please a man in bed.It was unbelievable the number of women that attend her classes.I LOVE MY MAN but do you think i should take these classes.GUYS would you want your g/Friend to take classes on how to move her hips better in bed?Ladies would you go to such a class for your man? I don't know if i can move like the woman is teaching

2007-03-22 17:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To the adult women, would you ever use pantyhose?
to place over a guy's face and run your crotch up and down his face? I saw it in a porn once, and didn't know if women were into that.

Hot or not, and would you give it a try?

2007-03-22 17:04:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a female and I have had previous boyfriends and I imagine my future with a man for a husband. But then why do I day dream or fantasize about females? Does this mean anything? I have "experimented" with other females but I was drinking and it was just nothing beyond that. How do I stop this way of thinking? I want to fantasize about men why cant I?

2007-03-22 17:03:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay well, I havew asked a question about this guy that I like, and I finallyt asked, him and he sorta likes me, how do I get him to like me all the way, and how do I get him to dump his gf

2007-03-22 17:03:11 · 7 answers · asked by me me me a 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay well, I havew asked a question about this guy that I like, and I finallyt asked, him and he sorta likes me, how do I get him to like me all the way, and how do I get him to dump his gf

2007-03-22 17:02:46 · 2 answers · asked by me me me a 1 in Singles & Dating

i am so obsessed with this guy i like him soooooo much... i dunno if he knows i like him or likes me back... his signals are mixed... what can i do.... I cant stop thinking about him and i NEED to get work done!!!!!!!! I do not see him often so when i dont see him for a long time i think about him more and more..... what can i do?????????????? Please I really need to stop this!!!!!!!!1

2007-03-22 17:02:38 · 6 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating