I think I dropped the bomb on this girl..
So I have seen this girl walking around quite often and shes amazing, though I never have talked to her. So the other day I decided to build up enough guts to walk up to her with a dozen roses and say... HEY I LOVE YOU... She wont talk to me anymore and now she avoids me at all costs. WHAT DID I DO WRONG? I mean come on.. I gave her flowers... and shes seen me walking around. I kind of figured it would have worked because It does in the movies. I mean Im 25... and I would have to say Im a good looking guy... (www.myspace.com/tizlife) WHAT THE HELL??
2007-03-22 17:12:50 · 7 answers · asked by -Dr. D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the first of many thing that you did wrong is telling her you loved without ever having talked to her before. That is just creepy. Maybe she thought you were a stalker.
Secondly you had never talked to her and gave her flowers. WTF. There's something wrong with you.
And if you're really 25 you should know better than to do creepy things like all of the above.
I'm gonna call you creepy guy #1.
2007-03-22 17:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That might have been too much... and when I say "might," I mean it WAS too much. She probably got freaked out and thought you were a stalker or something. Maybe you should tone it down and quietly talk to her (in a very public place), and explain that you didn't mean to freak her out. If she's still not interested, you have to respect that and leave her alone.
2007-03-23 00:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by daisy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k, girls might say they like the big dramatic showings of love but in all reality, a lot of girls cant stand it. id think it would be awfully alarming esp if we had never talked before. besides, you said i love you, and that was based soley on just looking at her. you have never spent an extended period of time in her company talking to her. i think you have love and lust confused here sir.
2007-03-23 00:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol u cant just walk up to her and tell her u love her like that it probally freaked her out. u should have dated her for a while let her get to know u and u get to know her a little better instead of doing wat u did. to tell the truth u blew it maybe u should find a new girl.
well good luck
2007-03-23 00:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude too much too fast. It is all about getting her wormed up. You have to drop hints make her feel special.
2007-03-23 00:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she prolly thinks you a lil weird....maybe you should have just went up to her and started a conversation istead of just jumping in and saying i love you for the first time of you even saying anything to her....next time try to slow down on your conversations
2007-03-23 00:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by cheerleader for life 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
way 2 b subtle! umm, dude, u totally freaked her out. mayb try, like knowing her name 1st. cuz otherwise u seem like a total freak, lol
2007-03-23 00:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you came on too strong..,...what you should have done is give her a single rose and told her you thought she was beautiful .....good luck next time buddy
2007-03-23 00:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋