If you suspected that your best friend had a crush on your girlfriend or spouse in the past would you forgive them?
The only evidence that you had is catching your best friend checking out your gf's t&a but they have not said or done anything to or with your girlfriend to act on the suspected crush.
2007-03-22 17:15:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think if your friend has or had those feelings but did not act on them, then he is an excellent friend to you. People don't choose who they are attracted to, it just happens. I think the fact that your friend did not act on his attraction to her means he is a good guy with excellent morals and self control, who values his friendship with you more than having a fling with your girlfriend. I don't see the problem here.
2007-03-22 17:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by PDY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal.. Nothing to forgive for.
We all do it, even if they are friends.
Been married for 25 years and my hubby still checks out the ladies. And I sometimes will take a second look at a good looking guy. It is just human curiosity.
Heck for that matter if my hubby is checking out a girl and I notice, I look at the girl myself and we both comment on how pretty she is, or how big her bust is, esp if she is wearing out fits that show it all. Its hard not to look.
2007-03-23 00:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is in the past then that is where it should stay, but if you are having suspicions right now. Talk to your GF about it and make it extremly clear to your best friend that your don't appreciate them looking at your GF's T&A! :)
2007-03-23 00:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd forgive, otherwise it would fester away and bother me. Nothing wrong has happened so thinking about it and being resentful will only hurt you. Your gf is attractive, he looked, that's all. He's not blind, and he hasn't done anything wrong.
2007-03-23 00:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by donedeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would never have a crush on your girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse. i would rethink whomy true frends are
2007-03-23 00:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were u ,I would wait 4 to catch them together then I never forgive him ...u must be sure of their relationship dear!
2007-03-23 00:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lilac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forgive but never forget just remember that.
2007-03-23 00:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if nothing happend dont worry must mean you have a good catch. and so long as hes being true dont worry.
2007-03-23 00:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had a bridesmaid who thought she would be better for him than I was....didn't speak to her for almost six years, still married to him.
2007-03-23 00:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by n2mama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive... you obviously got the guy/girl so let it go and enjoy what you have
2007-03-23 00:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by id-chica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋