I am a female and I have had previous boyfriends and I imagine my future with a man for a husband. But then why do I day dream or fantasize about females? Does this mean anything? I have "experimented" with other females but I was drinking and it was just nothing beyond that. How do I stop this way of thinking? I want to fantasize about men why cant I?
2007-03-22 17:03:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that means that you are either bi, or lesbian.
2007-03-22 17:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry...I do it...sometimes too.It doesn't mean that you are gay (You might be bi..or just curious is all...but, I think that men are not always that FUn to fantasize about..(no offense fellas...but you don't always turn me on....!!LOL! besides, it is JUST fantasy! )And, women are erotic,and they are very beautiful! They just are! We are aesthetically beautiful....we just are....that is why I believe there is a lot more art with nudes of women than men....at least that is what it seems like to me,anyhow....think about that....ya know?
We "Got " it!
Sure men are hot in some ways...but, we are just pleasing to the eyes! LOL!
I don't always fantasize with men...they are sort of fun but, also sort of blah to fantasize about..for some odd reason....it just depends on my mood as well!
I could be bi..for all I know..but, I am also human...I think that this is perfectly the norm!!! Don't worry'bout it! Just enjoy!
2007-03-22 17:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by smilingflowergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I dream but some females but when that happens, it means something wrong with someone I know usually. But if you're fantasizing about women in a sexual way that probably describes your desire of sexual fantasies.
2007-03-22 17:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by Salima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong about it. Everyone has sexual curiosities that secretly turn them on. To fantasize about men, get porn with guys in submissive positions, giving you the feeling of power over them.
2007-03-22 17:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by afreeca812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a normal thing to fantasize about girls, i do it too, in fact i am thinking of you right now.. just kidding you..actually you might be interested in female bodies and making comparisons of your self against them and looking for ways to identify your inner self.. it will be ok.. have a good life ,no matter what.
2007-03-22 17:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably just because youre thinking about it too much. You might have thought about it once and then you wanted to deny it so you purposely thought against the idea of liking women or something and then you keep making yourself think about women because youre doubting yourself and youre like do i really like women?! In the end I think youre just messing with yourself and if you forget about it it will go away.
2007-03-22 17:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not sure of what it means, but I'll tell you that it is not that uncommon. I recommend that you do not torture yourself about it and definitely don't force yourself to stop.
If you believe that it is something serious or it is eating away at your mind, you may want to talk to someone who is a pro in these matters.
2007-03-22 17:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by Prince J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to find the man of your dreams first, then these fantasies of women should stop for you.
2007-03-22 17:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by DaClint 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Cause chicks are so much hotter...and you might be a closet lesbain. Why don't you try chicks when your not drunk. You might be bi..which is not a bad thing.
2007-03-22 17:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bisexualism is something to consider, and nothing bad.
2007-03-22 17:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are bi curious find a couple and experiment, you will find you will get it out of your system
2007-03-22 17:07:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋