It's been two years,and she still refuses to speak to me. Do I give up? Why? I still love her,and anyway why let her mother break up my family (three kids).?
2007-03-22 17:13:12 · 14 answers · asked by Bahira 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personally, I would go through hell and back to get my wife. I have a very manipulative mother in law as well and I can understand your situation. She probably plays a good victim and has had control over her daughter since day one. As long as you didn't do anything stupid, like cheat etc...I would never give up until she was back in my arms and realized who is actually looking out for her best interests.
Thats just me
2007-03-25 09:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Brian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 2 years she still refuses to speak to you. I would like to know what you did. I am sure your mother in law helped her to make her decision however I am sure you did something here buddy as a woman with 3 kids just doesn't pick up and leave and not speak to that person for no good reason.
Actions speak louder then words, if you love her then prove it and look to win her heart.
2007-03-26 10:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot work it out sensible between you two then its over guy.
Two years is a long time to wait for her. That shows love right there.
They are birds of a feather, and you will only waste your energy. For the kids just do your best to provide for them thats all you can do be there for them.
Dont think its all bad, it is pretty bad but the kids dont have to put up with the pain its creating between you two. Thats good. Kids dont need that too.
It may be hard to let go, I know same **** happen to me it took me oever two years to pack it up, but I did it and moved on and just was there for my kids and its ok now.
good luck bro...
2007-03-23 00:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by sapboi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its been 2 years since your wife talked to you then its time to let go. It may be hard, but there is no need in holding on to something thats not there. I am sure you will always love her and have a special place in your heart for her, but if she hasn't come around after 2 years, I doubt she will.
2007-03-26 11:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of Three 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me. I bet you lived right down the street from one another.Or too close. I would give up because
once the foundation has been destroyed you must have a complete wiliness from both parties to make it work out.
Your kids are better off without the constant stress of a bad marriage.Get on your knees and ask God to Show you what to do.God Bless.
2007-03-23 00:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother in law to stay the heck out of your business, 2) move far away from your inlaws ! If that doesen't work, take a large shovel and whack your mother in law !! Or just buy a gun !! But don't miss !!
2007-03-23 00:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried counselling? Ask your wife to attend for the kid's sake at least.
2007-03-23 00:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by donedeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think some mother in laws have fell off the deepend, ultimately she needs to mind her own business and your wife needs to think for herself and not listen to mommy everytime.
give her a few days and then try to talk to her, offer counseling and if she agrees , you got to bring it up that its you and her marriage not her mothers
2007-03-23 00:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tired killing your mother in law. or at least move your wife and yourself a little away from her like a state or two
2007-03-23 00:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give up if u have 3 kids than keep trying
2007-03-23 00:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by sexc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋