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Question

Wow. I don't even know how to go about this! I have had a crush on this man for a long time since I was 14 I am almost 21 now. He is a neighbor or was until his house burnt down. He's 31 years old. But I don't care he is just so dang cute. Some sh!t went down about 6 years ago. Some freinds of mine was harrassing him and putting my name on it (I find that stupid and idiotic and personally would never do it) He called the cops and was saying this and that. No idea. He said he was engaged to be married. But I don't know if that ever happended or not. He stopped waving. He stopped talking. I have loved this man all this time! I just wish he realized it. I'm very shy, and scared to do anything. I see him walking through town and my heart goes to beating really fast. I smile and wave and think omg I would die to be with him. He's been in trouble with the law and is working on getting his life turned around. With me being so shy what do I do. How can I get him to notice or even talk to me??

He's been talking to my mom and my Grandfather when he sees them. Yesterday I seen him Mom waves but I kept my head straight after all I was driving! He watched the car go down the road. With a sad look! I seen him again and he winked. He's killing me. He has been in trouble with the law, about 2 years ago now, and has been doing really good on staying out of jail and turning his life around. I'm really proud of him for that reason. He's getting better about waving. And saying hi. I think it's me who's scared. Actually I know I am. I don't see him that much seeing that only time he comes around is when he needs something from the house. I'm to scared to strike up a conversation. I barely talk to anyone. Cause of my shyness. 21 years old and am still very shy, I am trying to out grow this! I tried to forget about him but it didnt work so with that said.... I'm stuck and don't know what to do!

Answer 1

Start the conversation, let him get to know you. Then, make your decision, decide if being with him is what you really want. Also...you may want to consider the fact that he's had trouble with the law before, don't set yourself up. If I were you, I'd let it be a crush and keep it at that.
A.L.