I have a boyfriend who lives a hour away from me so we do not get to see eacher that othen. we have only been together for a very very short while, an i am new to this town. i got a job as a bartender so i meet a lot of people. well i meet this one guy and we start talking nothing happen yet all we do is talk ,laugh.an drink together but when we do get togather we can not stop touching ,huging,kissing. so in the short while i have been dating my boyfriend is it still call cheating .?
2007-03-22 17:12:51 · 24 answers · asked by heather w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, any form of physical imtamacy is considered cheating in my opinion, as well as emotional attachment. I always tell my husband do not cheat, just end it....if you are not happy with your b/f end things with him and go for someone that makes you happy.
2007-03-22 17:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Misty M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes in my opinion and many others when you are with someone you are with them only. When you are technically
in any form of intimacy with saomeone other then the one you love or are seeing exclusively that is cheating. The reason you are asking this is becuase you know the answer and are seeing if some people may say it is okay. Well I'm the one saying you are being nothing then a selfish backstabbing whore, just becuase your BF lives a little ways away gives you7 no right to treat HIM LIKE A PIECE OF CRAP. If you do not have feelings for your actually BF and want to see where this affair goes then maybe you should let your other guy go.
2007-03-26 09:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are contradicting yourself. You say nothing happens, all you do is talk, laugh, and drink. Yet then you say you can't stop touching, hugging, kissing.... You are very much cheating. If the relationship with your b/f was sincere, you wouldn't even think of being with this other guy. You need to be honest with yourself and how you feel about your boyfriend and really think about how you are hurting him. The old saying "what he don't know won't hurt him" isn't true. He will find out. You better talk to him about it before he finds out from someone else, or end it with him.
2007-03-22 17:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by tabby1002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is unless you two agreed that it was okay to see other people. You mentioned the fact that he's an hour away from you like that might have something to do with why you've been doing what you're doing. Maybe you just aren't cut out for a long distance relationship....even though that really isn't far at all.
2007-03-22 18:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by love my life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! Good God....if you're going to be physical with another person, than you have no right to call the other guy your boyfriend.
If you told your boyfriend; would he be upset? There is your answer right there. If your boyfriend told you he'd been making out with another girl and couldn't seem to keep his hands off of her; would you feel jealous and p!ssed off at him? Probably.
Break up with your boyfriend if you can't stay away from this other guy, that would be the right thing to do.
2007-03-22 17:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Cedar_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating, but I think you like the new guy better so fix it, break up with your boyfriend and go get your new man. Your too young to be wasting time with someone you dont love, your boyfriend is not it, or you would have no desire to be with anyione else.
2007-03-22 17:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! You should reconsider your long distance relationship. They seldom work.
Cheating is mainly emotional, and you do cheat with this new guy.
So be honest, decide which one you really like better and stick to your decision. The sooner the better. You will save yourself and one of the guys a lot of heartache.
You don't want to hurt them, do you?
2007-03-22 17:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...the flirting, touching, kissing is, if not cheating, then the beginning. Even if you are with someone for a day, those actions with another are cheating.
2007-03-22 17:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by lovemeplease 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you consider it cheating if he was the one doing it? If he told you he was touching and kissing on another girl, would you call him a cheater? If so, then you are one. If you don't think so, maybe you should tell him what you're doing, but if my husband were doing that I would consider it cheating.
2007-03-22 17:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by n2mama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 09:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋