Well I like this gye and I'm pretty sure he likes me, but not fully. WE talk some about or love life and hang around. He does get in a lot of trouble once in awhile because he's doen somethin stupid. He has asked me if i'm dating anyone and if i've kissed a gye before 2. Then again he does chew, but i smoke once in a while........ He checks me out and even tried to show me how to hold a bat. He came around behind me and was about 2 take my hands 2 place them where they go but ashley ruined it by saying no i'll show her and budged him aside, but he does curse but only when someone makes him mad and takes about some thins I can't mention....... I'm not sure if I should ask him out and see how it goes or just forget about it. but i was realy worried when their was a caution tape around the whole property and even had a fire truck and police cars. I care for him and he cares for me, but he and his brother do really crazy(stupid things) but i want to give him a chance. What should i do?????
2007-03-22 17:12:17 · 18 answers · asked by Sassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gurl i have had that type for a fact you think you could change them but they well never do.
They'll jus say if you can't respects my way then get the hell out of my way
plus you should never have to go to them if he really cared he would have asked you could look at the game but dont play it
2007-03-22 17:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by babyfacestar15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you like this guy and are attracted to him but if you are already worried about what kind of person he is that should be a big red flag. One thing I have learned is dangerous and "fun" is only fun from a distance and once you are dating its very hard to see things clearly. And all your common sense goes flying out the window. I am sure that you can do better and remember your worth having someone that you can hang with without doubts even before you start.
2007-03-23 00:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of crazy things are we talking about here? Drugs? guns?
Hold on a minute there. Are you saying he has a violent temper? Slow down now. I know he looks all cool and attractive from afar but, trust me, you may not be such a happy bunny in a year's time.
If I were you I would try to define the relationship. Go out on a date and tell him how you feel but explain your fears. Wait and see if he is committed to changing. If not, jump ship for your own good.
2007-03-23 04:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the question is whether you should ask out a guy you like, you absolutely should. Just make sure, once you let him know you're interested, that he is the one taking initiative, and it's not you all the time.
On the other hand, if your question is whether or not you should ask out this specific guy, it's a different story. Just from your question, it's obvious you're unsure about him. You know he's a shady character and that he's probably bad for business. Asking him out is asking for trouble. If that's what you're looking for, go ahead, but don't be surprised when that's what you get.
2007-03-23 00:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's weird love, so is affairs of the heart?
If you like him and he's ask if your seeing some one, go for it, it's free and costs nothing to find out, True??
If it does not work then you've learnt a lesson in life but if it works then great.
If you sit around wondering "should I or should I not" then some one else will and you'll be "I wish I did"?
2007-03-23 00:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by superalymac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i can say is follow your heart but if your haveing doubts and if this guy is getting in trouble with the police do you really want to be with him. Think about it follow your heart not your mind as if you do that you will get mixed signals. i think you know deep down whats the best thing to do is i would walk away and leave him well alone cause if your around him it will hurt you that you cant be with him and if you do be with him then it will hurt you when he gets arrested. Its up to you listen to your mind but follow your heart.
2007-03-23 05:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by craftykidclaire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetheart, stay away from this guy, he really sounds like trouble. I'm guessing you're pretty young - someone else will come along that you like just as much. Bad boys are always appealing, but you could get into trouble too and it's really not worth it.
2007-03-23 00:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF HE DOSENT CARE ABOUT YOU, YOU DONT CARE ABOUT HIM EIATHER. AND IF YOU STILL WANNA GIVE HIM A CHNACE THEN LOOK AT HIM AND ASK YOUR SELF THAT DOSE HE REALLY NEED A CHANCE OR NOT IF YOUR HEART SAY YES THEN GIVE HIM A CHANCE BUT IF IT SAY NO DONT GIVE HIM AFTER ALL HE CAN TAKE EVERYTHING FROM YOU BUT HE CANT TAKE YOUR DIGGNITY. NOW IT DEPENDS ON YOU WHAT WOULD YOU DO.
2007-03-23 00:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for coffee or something..Then u guys can talk,if ur comfy then tel him how u feel
2007-03-23 01:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by Cassý 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EWWWWW
#1 girls dont ask guys out
thats just dumbbb
he sound lke a jerk anyways
2007-03-23 00:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by blonde_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋