Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

I have a personals ad that I put on 3 weeks ago. In the past weeks over 300 guys have viewed my profile but only a few have left messages, and many of them just sent those free icebreaker messages. I have met one guy and am meeting another this week. Not too excited about the one I am about to meet as we don't seem to have much in common although he seems like a nice guy and I am only meeting him because I promised I would. He is country and I am city. He didn't even have childhood immunizations! I know because he mentioned having mumps or something a few years back.
I read over the profiles of the guys that have viewed me to see why they didnt' respond. Alot of them want a woman with a college degree or someone who is much much younger than them. Most of them are average looking so I don't think it is my looks. Should I start leaving the ones I'm interested in a message or would that be too pushy since they didn't respond to me first??

2007-03-21 04:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

my problems are 1.i am just 21 and lost my mother recently..longing 4 moms luv. 2.cheatin my father by havin a gecret love affair.my dad blieves me a lot and our relaives wil speak badly if i do luv marriag.3.i got a job in a big s/w comoany but left it 4 no reasons.4.the person whom i luv sincerly lovs me very sincerly.he is not financially strong.so i used to help him by giving money and jewels altho he ll not return it. his family hurts him a lot.5.we used 2 ve sex wenever we get the chance and he even gives me sexual pleasur in the public.5.now he is pressurin me 2 tell our affair to my dad.i don know how 2 tel my dad.6.if i don obey him he ll scold me very badly by using very bad words.7.if i chat r speak with guys he wil not lik it but he believes me 100%8.he is 29 and i am 21.we r in luv 4 nearly 6 years so it clearly says tat he wants 2 ve long lasting relationship with me.9.sinc my dad has given me full freedom in money matter i used to help him.so please help me wat i ve todo

2007-03-21 04:11:34 · 6 answers · asked by anjana 1 in Singles & Dating

My GF and I have been together a long time, and need to bring back the passion, she is a little naughty, and although she wont admit it, she is a bit of an exhbitionst, she like to make love when we are at other peoples houses, or outside.It gets her excited about the possibility to get caught, any tips on how to expand on this area. Any new ideas in thes vein?

2007-03-21 04:11:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who used to work for my husband and he is forever borrowing tools etc, his wife doesn't know he smokes so he comes round ours to have a sly ciggie. I think he's got a cheek, he's arrogant and is only nice when he wants to scrounge something. Last summer he turned up out of the blue with his kids asking if it was OK for them to use our pool - do you think he has got a cheek - we made excuses because we were going out, but we really don't want anything to do with him, he's married so he's not alone. He's the type to take offence if you say anything, so we just keep fobbing him off, he doesn't get the hint. Any ideas?

2007-03-21 04:11:25 · 15 answers · asked by georgeygirl 5 in Friends

well i am a hindu guy, 20, and still studying and i think i am in love with a 25 muslim, divorced girl. The thing is that i'm 6ft tall and she is like 4ft 5 or something. In the asian culture parents do not want muslim- hindu marriages, nor do they want their sons going out with older girls, even more if they have been divorced. But everytime i see her at work my heart beats so fast and i feel hurt when i dont see her. i think she may like me as well, since we have made alot of eye contact to each other over the last few weeks. i really dont want to feel this way but i just cant help it. i've been feeling like this for abt 4 months, i really dont know what to do ?

2007-03-21 04:11:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

extra tomatoes from her garden. They are plump and juicy. Should I go get some?

2007-03-21 04:11:09 · 31 answers · asked by Disco Stu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she's 15 (the same age as me)

2007-03-21 04:10:07 · 2 answers · asked by Alex S 1 in Singles & Dating

Say like a white wifebeater and shorts and sandals ?

2007-03-21 04:09:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband, whos 24, left me and his new born for a 17 yrd olf girl from his work. my question is is how long do you think that relationship will last? what are most 17 yr old girls after? what could they have in common..it's not like she can go to a bar or club! Hell she is still in high school!
By all means I AM NOT TAKING HIM BACK, i just want to know how soon he will be showing back up on my doorstep so i can slam the door in his face.

2007-03-21 04:09:21 · 13 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to cut corners with the wedding to make it as inexpensive as possible. I am doing alot myself to try and save money. My parents agreed to pay for it but they are not real well off money wise and he wants to go to Davids Bridal to buy the flower girl dresses. He has one daughter and I have one and they are both going to be flower girls. I don't see paying 100 dollars and above for a flower girl dress when I feel as if I can get one cheaper. He wants to do David Bridal and does not seem to want to budge. I think it is unfair to expect for my parents to put out any more money than they have too. He said he would buy his daughters dress and I buy my daughters dress. Any suggestion on what I can do to get him to change his mind and look elsewhere??? Do you think I am being unresonable??? Please be honest...

2007-03-21 04:09:11 · 26 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Weddings

I must be honest, I am really planning on attending the funeral, but I do plan on taking the time off from work. The funeral is out-of-state, and my car probably won't make the eight hour trip, but I really could use the time off. I really need one of these slips to take back to work with me. No need to judge, I know it's bad, but I still need a break from work, so please help if you can.

2007-03-21 04:08:41 · 9 answers · asked by sleepingbeauty123 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

... because your spouse has a negative attitude about sex (they think sex is a chore or yucky or you don't know what their problem is), or they have a low low sex drive (they might not have one at all). Do you find that nobody understands how crushing this is to your concept of loving sex? You know the special sex with the person you love? Are you even embarrassed that this is happening to you? Perhaps, you are sick of people telling you it is your fault, you're doing something wrong that is causing the problem?

2007-03-21 04:07:45 · 38 answers · asked by JRSK007 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. Recently I have begun to get quite annoyed with a few things. We both have full time jobs and split the costs of everything right down the middle. Somehow it has come to be that I take care of almost everything in our 'household'; paying all of our bills(he pays me back for 1/2 at the end of the month) on time, cleaning the house, cooking, grocery shopping, doing our taxes, cleaning our cars, etc. My guy is a fabulous man and always thanks me for what I do, but sometimes I feel like that is not enough. I feel stupid saying this, but I wish he would be more thoughtful and surprise me with little things. I am always buying him little surprise gifts and cards to show him that I love him. He has never given me flowers or cards or anything. I am a little emotional right now and I know that I am just being a girly girl here, but what do you think?

2007-03-21 04:07:41 · 22 answers · asked by h_nanny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i think im addicted to "bad-guys" i always pick the ones that like to fight and be crazy jelous then im mad that they fight with me and are jelous. im with someone right now and i think i love him... well i mean i do. but we fight all the time. i woulc see myself marrying him... but we FIGHT LIKE CRAZY. and it makes me cry... (ladys.... u know the guys that make you cry...) bad news... so what do i do.. im looking for tips on how to improve the relationship. MEN DONT GET ME WRONG I FIGHT BACK ITS NOT JUST HIM... but how do i stop the argueing and jsut say... sorry and be loveing... we both get soo wraped up its rediculous - any ideas??

2007-03-21 04:07:14 · 13 answers · asked by LIL JAY 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 30 years old and still get scolded, lectured, etc. I would like to have an adult mother/daughter relationship with her but she won't let go of this need to talk to/at me as if I'm a child. She tells me what I need to do with my money, my career, etc. I'm a succesful professional and live in a nice home that I own. A few months ago she explained to me what a yeast infection was. When I let her know that I was already aware of them and had been for some time she patronizingly said "well i guess you're all grown up now". I fight the urge to scream at her because I don't want to act like an angry teenager (I'm sure she would love that.) We spend time together a few times a week, and each time we are together she complains that we never do anything together. I just don't know what to do anymore. (I know I'm not the only one with this problem; and there is probably no solution, but I wouldn't mind some words of advice).

2007-03-21 04:06:52 · 24 answers · asked by wondering 3 in Family

Are honesty and loialty no longer apreciated?

2007-03-21 04:06:32 · 2 answers · asked by razza 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am looking for a nice restaurant (not to expensive) in Kihei. Do anyone have any suggestions on where to go? Also if you have any other adive on where to go or where not to go that would be great. thanks so much!!!

2007-03-21 04:06:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. Recently I have begun to get quite annoyed with a few things. We both have full time jobs and split the costs of everything right down the middle. Somehow it has come to be that I take care of almost everything in our 'household'; paying all of our bills(he pays me back for 1/2 at the end of the month) on time, cleaning the house, cooking, grocery shopping, doing our taxes, cleaning our cars, etc. My guy is a fabulous man and always thanks me for what I do, but sometimes I feel like that is not enough. I feel stupid saying this, but I wish he would be more thoughtful and surprise me with little things. I am always buying him little surprise gifts and cards to show him that I love him. He has never given me flowers or cards or anything. I am a little emotional right now and I know that I am just being a girly girl here, but what do you think?

2007-03-21 04:06:16 · 14 answers · asked by h_nanny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 04:05:37 · 15 answers · asked by rockubabe 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you find that the vast majority of people you speak to don't actually listen to what you're saying? They pick up bits of what you've said, but don't appear to have taken much of it in. I have noticed this recently because I'm lucky enough to have a boyfriend who does listen and talking to him makes an interesting comparison to talking to a lot of other people. Do you fine people out there think this is true? And if so, why is it so?

2007-03-21 04:05:05 · 20 answers · asked by Princess Paradox 6 in Friends

2007-03-21 04:04:59 · 13 answers · asked by shavon p 1 in Friends

I am a 34 year old woman, independant, career oriented, divorced for 5 years with an 11 year old. I enjoy my life....but have always been a hopless romantic. Long story short....we talked, I met him and knew he was the "one" and I have been there done that, so I am not unrealistic.....Funny thing, he feels the same. Its a dream come true. Truley something I was invisioning especially since watching the "SECRET" the new craze!!! I started to change my way of thinking and met the man of my dreams!!!!!!! I am terrified and I am scared of pushing him away because I just can't believe it!!!! Its not lust, or anything like that. We have yet to be intimate like that. Has this ever happened to anyone, I know in the movies but OMG this is amazing.I wish this on people who want it. And go and watch the "secret" it could not hurt....lol

2007-03-21 04:04:48 · 7 answers · asked by sexandthecityaint got nothin!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

improve confidence and esteem im raising 2 kids alone they keep me on overdrive and happy but when theres a quite moment i feel really crap once i was a very strong female and confident but after lettin their dad pick me up and put me down when it suited him i feel like ill never meet anyone all my friend s r with someone ive been single now for 3 years but the men ive come across r only out for 1 thing im 26 and my confidence is very low for once ive no idea wot steps 2 take first to aleast be happy in my own shoes i was suffering depression awhile a go but its hard 2 stay postive and dont want 2 go back down that round its not fair on my kids or myself they deserve more

2007-03-21 04:04:28 · 20 answers · asked by brokeno1 1 in Singles & Dating

work for her. She is a nun but is tired of doing it. This is a lot to ask, don't you think?

2007-03-21 04:04:13 · 16 answers · asked by Disco Stu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

woman 4-5 years older than me always attract me.. ! i dunno why

2007-03-21 04:03:38 · 3 answers · asked by Mr.PGB 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my boyfriend Matt for about four years [since my sophmore year in HS]. I thought we were truly meant to be. He was sweet, kind, caring...and my mom loved him! We had so much in common, too. We liked Al Pacino movies, spicey mexican food, greasy pizza, and Dane Cook. However, Matt was a heavy partier and I wasn't. Maybe three fridays out of the month, he and his friends would throw a crazy House party with lots of beer, girls, and insanity. Matt was one to get totally drunk, but he always kept it together and never even so much as looked at another girl. But, two weeks ago at this one particular party, Matt certainly noticed another girl while completely intoxicated. Matt ended up hooking up with this girl and spent the night at his friend's house. The next day, he came home and told me what happened. He swore up and down that he had no control over his actions and that it was a mistake.

My pride tells me to get rid of him. But, I've been with him for years! Keep him?

2007-03-21 04:03:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My american boyfriend wants to know if this really works & How much it takes....

Hes made a petition for me (i am dominican) cuz pretty sooon we gonna get married ( we are engaged actually) ... hmm any answers???

2007-03-21 04:02:33 · 7 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when i get a bf they all turn out to be playerz. i also get all the guyz butt ugly

2007-03-21 04:02:29 · 9 answers · asked by shaina w 1 in Singles & Dating

I did get a promise ring 2 years ago.

2007-03-21 04:02:28 · 12 answers · asked by deinakese 1 in Singles & Dating

"I love U" but they are with someone else,are they just trying
to play you,now after all the mess,I don,t love the man and
want to my live my life because i am at the point of going forward(My child father said "I love you and told me he love
our child. what does this mean? because care maybe not
love it,s been like 6 months since separation.

2007-03-21 04:01:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce