Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

ok so heres the deal. my ex when off to university making our relationship impossible so we split up, this was months ago and i'm still not over him. I left my boyfriend before him to go out with my ex, so obviously after he left for uni i felt like i had been left with nothing and everything i had done had been pointless.
now i fancy this new guy, hes hot and he likes me also, but i worry that if i go out with him i'll cheat because everytime my ex comes back from uni one thing leads to another...
i really dont know what to do, its all very well people just saying "get over it"but i'm finding it really really difficult because obviously i still have feelings for him.

2007-03-21 03:40:47 · 15 answers · asked by Thisisme 3 in Singles & Dating

im thirteen and i figured it out

2007-03-21 03:40:40 · 5 answers · asked by barshaad l 1 in Friends

I'm trying to decide between two styles of wedding dresses. One is more practical while the other is more fashionable.

Dress #1 is a strapless, A-line satin ballgown with a fitted bodice. Dress #2 is a satin sheath dress (slightly flared toward the hem) with a halter top and a low back.

Part of me likes Dress #1 because it wouldn't require "creative" shaping undergarments and I could just wear a strapless bra. I wouldn't figet with the dress all day, which is nice. My only problem with Dress #1 is that it reminds me too much of a prom dress.

Dress #2 is appealing because it reminds me of "old Hollywood" glamour and would be more form-fitting. I'm hesitant about Dress #2 because it would require double-sided tape or some outrageous bra. Also, I'm sort of self-conscious about my midriff so I would need shapewear underneath.

For background, I'm 24, just shy of 5'8" and basically an hourglass shape (proportional hips and, um, chest.) I weigh about 150 pounds.

2007-03-21 03:39:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-21 03:39:04 · 11 answers · asked by Wheelman 2 in Singles & Dating

why women think about sex less than man
desire it less than man
have fetishes far less than man
attracted to man far less man's attraction to woman?
why woman is far less desirous for sex than man? and far less need it?
is it because of that women have far lower testesterone level?

2007-03-21 03:38:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We used to own our own business, sold it and our new venture doesn't look like it can support us for awhile. I've been getting lots of interviews and job offers, he hasn't gotten any response except a former employer who may/may not have a job for him in the near future. He is not feeling too great right now, he is frustrated and doesn't understand why he isn't hearing anything and I am getting the opportunities. How do I make it better for him, it is difficult to watch him go through this. I believe he will get something, but his skills are different and he has a degree (I don't have a degree, but an extensive background in managing people and offices). His degree isn't really directly related to what he's done. Any suggestions? It's breaking my heart (he's 37yrs. old and has struggled before) He won't just apply for anything either.

2007-03-21 03:38:13 · 10 answers · asked by daff73 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a good looking women and I am willing to do anything with my husband that he wants. Am I wrong for this?

2007-03-21 03:37:56 · 21 answers · asked by Lisha Bug 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like the puppy that poops and pees in the floor and chews up EVERYTHING in site. I am home alone with it during the day while he is at work and I have no choice but to spend my day cleaning his messes. Also he spends money before we even get it. It is so hard for me to say no because he worked hard for the money (which I do too). He wonders why I don't get out and enjoy life but how can I if I am scared to spend any money because of the bills piling up. He always says he wishes I would buy something for myself but how can I? We are also expecting a baby in a month and I am worried about it. We talk about this stuff but he just doesn't understand why I get so stressed out. He grew up in a poor home too so he should understand right? I just want to live comfortably, I don't have to have a lot of material things. I thought he was the same way when we got married but I guess I was wrong. I need a break but I can't get one. How can we compromise when I just want him to be happy.

2007-03-21 03:37:42 · 2 answers · asked by Myself1986 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do know if your lez or bie? Please help!

2007-03-21 03:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Destiny R 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I seperated only 2 weeks ago and I find myself in a situation where I have the opportunity to sleep with a very beautiful woman whom I have been attracted to for months. We have been flirting around for some time now and we are at the point where the physical attraction is VERY strong.

Althought we haven't gone all the way yet, I feel like I'm ready to experience something new and exciting.

Any opinions?

2007-03-21 03:37:21 · 29 answers · asked by Breaking hearts since 1977 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it could be possible that love kills?

2007-03-21 03:37:18 · 13 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is 19. He had a 12 pack of beer in his vehicle that someone bought for him at a gas station. After leaving the gas station, he was pulled over and given a ticket for minor in possession. I would like to know what the charges are and do I need to get a lawyer? Can he loose his license? Does this go against his license?

2007-03-21 03:36:59 · 3 answers · asked by blondy63389 1 in Family

what do guys like in a girl?

2007-03-21 03:36:56 · 3 answers · asked by sabrina s 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to remain friends with an ex, especially if you still have "trong feelings" for them?

2007-03-21 03:36:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I read this thing my GF wrote she talks about how i'm cute funny awesome ect.

But she also talks about this other guy she writes
When i think about you i think about him...and he's cute extremly cool extermly nice extremly funny...ect.

and on another page she writes...i dont wanna hurt you...im not gonna break up with you if you dont want to blah blah blah...I cant committ...why cant i committ she asks on this page...(not me...her....she cant committ)
Does she want him more than me...??

2007-03-21 03:36:41 · 3 answers · asked by chopedham 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is an aquarius since three years.We are there for each other mostly during our lows in life.We respect and care for each other a lot.Though CEO of a comapany at very young age he mock fights wid me just like childhood friend.Lately we developed soft corner which i told him clearly.We have never touched each other and wen we are together i ve seen him to be the most decent and well behaved.But lately after my confession he is texting me "What about a hug?or what if i cross limits?". I ve told him "no" and still we are best pals but can you guys tell me what does he mean by intimate text at times?I always feel that men behave with us the way we are.Till now I ve always maintained my dignity by keeping "NO" but it hurts me to say him no.What do i do.

2007-03-21 03:36:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 13, and when I'm at a friend's house, it is usually to go swimming at least (because all of my friends have pools). Most of the time we do other stuff like watch TV, get on the Internet, talking, playing games, or get a snack, etc. (inside) after we're done swimming - so I am at their house for a long period of time...longer than to just go swimming. Is it wrong to not put my clothes back on after we're done swimming? This would mean I would just be in my bikini. Should I just put my shirt on? Should I just put my shorts/pants/skirt (whatever I wear that day) on? My friend's usually don't put clothes back on, but I don't know if it should be different when you are a guest in somebody's house. This is my bikini....

http://beckersurf.com/ProductDetails.asp?product_id=31563&product_subgroup_id=258

2007-03-21 03:35:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a good looking women and I am willing to do anything with my husband that he wants. Am I wrong for this?

2007-03-21 03:35:48 · 17 answers · asked by Lisha Bug 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 03:35:07 · 3 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

& please don't give me this lame things like flowers or chocklet i mean a real gift something will make her say you are the best son any one can have ??

2007-03-21 03:35:02 · 11 answers · asked by Reasonable 3 in Family

LOL. I am not complaining. Just curious if any of you have screamers in your bedroom?

2007-03-21 03:34:54 · 5 answers · asked by Momma K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 03:34:34 · 10 answers · asked by marty 2 in Singles & Dating

i am thinking about waxing down there, but i am scared of the pain...is the pain that bad ladies?? my husband woodnt kno the difference right....????well i need some support.... go hairy or not??

2007-03-21 03:34:18 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am addicted to my mobile, i am always texting, if no one txt's or calls me for ages i feel really lonely. I get really annoyed if my boyfriend doesnt text me for ages, i always wonder what he's doing and why he's not textin me! really winds me up. think i have got a problem, i have to have my phone on me at all times. When i was looking for a new job it had to b one in which i was allowed to use my phone. Is anyone else like this? what should i do?

2007-03-21 03:33:50 · 13 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

they are going far away for the weekend and me and my brother want too have a house party but should we??? i am a little nervous. we have neghbors but they wouldn't say any thing but what if some one were too come and check on us while the is on.?

2007-03-21 03:32:58 · 38 answers · asked by dave k 1 in Friends

2007-03-21 03:32:56 · 31 answers · asked by Barry Von Leotard III 3 in Singles & Dating

So, I liked this guy.. And I heard that someone in his homeroom wrote on the blackboard: (His Name) + Risa(My name) = Loveeeeeee... And I didn't know who it was, so I asked my friend who knows him, to find out who wrote it, cause I was curious. So she told me the same thing happened to her and that she'd take care of it. The next thing I know, she went and slapped the guy's that i like brother... She said that he's an ******, blah blah blah and told me that she slapped him with all she had .. So then I appologized to his brother and told him that it wasn't my fault. He just said OK. Now what should I do about the guy that I like.. I mean I like him a lot... And I wanna Be friends with him.

So how should I handle this. Should I appologize to him too, for something I didn't even do.?

And I don't want him to think that I'm a B*tch... I just want a good life... So please help

2007-03-21 03:31:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious i am 19 why?!?!?!?!?

2007-03-21 03:31:34 · 6 answers · asked by JessieRae07 2 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the thing my boyfriend wants me to become a part of his family he wants me to meet his whole family and so does his mom i dont mind i like most of his family but me and his grandma dont seem to um rub the right way she just sitts there and watches me when ever im around and it bothers me his whole family sister's, parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, grandpartents go on a weekend camping trip for there family reunion and it lasts 3 days and his mom and him want me to go with.... but i dont know if i should go if me and his grandma dont get along casue me and him and his 'rents have to sleep in a two room tent and she has a mojor problem with us sleeping together. what should i do

2007-03-21 03:31:00 · 15 answers · asked by Chevy Babe 3 in Singles & Dating

or bad answers (opinion...that's good)...Sooo my question is "Y'all want to get together and do something possitive?" I know that you already are. But, there is something BIG here. Right?

2007-03-21 03:30:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce