Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

What do you think about this?

Met a computer repair technician who came to fix my PC.. Was really hot so we flirted for a bit. Real chemistry I thought. So he fixes me up and he leaves then comes back a few minutes later and asks if I would like to meet him for a drink sometime. I say sure call me.

A week goes by, nothing.

Then I get a text at 1 am saying, and I quote ‘hi, how are you this evening’. I didn’t respond.

He calls 3 pm that day and I was a bit cool when he confirmed that he indeed sent the text cause he was ‘bored’ and waiting for a programme to start on tv. He proceeds to ask me out, and I say a cool ‘I’ll get back to you’. But I am bored and lonely so 1 day later I called him back and said sure.

His grand date plan is to go to the movies to at 9pm. So at first I was like cool, and then I was like what about drinks first and he said sure.

Do you think that it is weird that he would plan the first date to be at the movies, in the dark, at 9pm? Without even considering meeting for diiner or drinks before? Why do I feel like I am a bootycall?

I am 29. presumably (hopefully) he is in his 30’s

2007-03-21 03:10:25 · 12 answers · asked by Dazed and Confused in Paradise! 1 in Singles & Dating

my neighbor and i have been sneeking around for a few months already, my boyfriend of 12 years, well we , or i should say im not in love with him anymore, ive cheated on him in the past, i seem to not be able to stop cheating,,
my neighbor says he wants to be with me and i feel really confused because its starting problems at home, im in a very akward situation can some one please send some advice?

2007-03-21 03:10:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has quite long hair and so he looks a bit like a girl. I know he's not though.
Sometimes, when we're out together, people mistake us for lesbians and its doing my head in!!
How can i get him to cut it without hurting his feelings?

2007-03-21 03:09:38 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

An online friend who's 24, a single mom (one child) and living with her parents desperately needs to get out. The fights with her parents have gotten physical. She says her mom constantly yells at her about how worthless she is. She's shown me pics of her bruises. She lives in a remote area, has no car and her parents won't loan her money to leave, saying it's her responsibility. I'd like to give her a plan to get her out of there, but everything I've suggested she's rejected or says won't happen (says she's not eligible for public assistance). Short of calling the police myself (which she doesn't want me to do because she's afraid she'll lose custody of her son), I'm totally lost. (I can't loan her money.) She tried to swallow a small amount of sleeping pills last night. Fortunately, she threw them up. Any ideas on what options she has open to her?

2007-03-21 03:09:37 · 13 answers · asked by whatchasay 2 in Family

2007-03-21 03:09:25 · 5 answers · asked by maidenrocks 3 in Friends

Hello... This is a question that I would prefer a woman to respond too that's because I believe only you know better than us man what you think...
What does it mean when a girl tells you that she adores you?
This is the situation that I am in at this moment with this girl... I meet her again after 10 years and she knows that when we were kids I had a huge crush on her... We have been talking on the phone for the last 3 years but we only meet for my birthday last month "she came only to see me :)"... She knew that I had a girl a the time but me and my ex were going that well and when she came here things got a little bit out of hand... I didn't think that I would still have strong feelings about her but I do and she knows that. I am going back to AZ that's where she lives in a month and since she left we talk only once a week. I wish we could talk more but she doesn't like talking on the phone... Last week I got her birthday card and she wrote "I adore you"
Thanks in advance

2007-03-21 03:08:53 · 7 answers · asked by ermal_2000 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this is a diffacult situation for many women. Please ladies dont make judgements concering women in this situation. Easy for you to say leave him divorce him. so keep those comments to yourself.

2007-03-21 03:08:42 · 15 answers · asked by tonyflorida2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to spent $5k-$10k, 1kt ring, and I want to get a GOOD price. Please help!!!

2007-03-21 03:07:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am desperat to find an old friend on the net,only everytime i log on to a people finder they want my to subscribe before i get any information,i just cant afford it.please help me,i have alot of history with this guy and if i dont find him soon it may be too late

2007-03-21 03:07:10 · 7 answers · asked by mancmilli 1 in Friends

if two of my crushes stopped talking to me when they found out i liked them? cuz i Really wanna date to prom in a month...plez help!!!

2007-03-21 03:07:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfrnd's friend wants to sleep wid me.. She's hot. Bt em scared?????

2007-03-21 03:07:04 · 16 answers · asked by MANDY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Not being racist but I was just wondering..
Why do asians go after white guys?

2007-03-21 03:07:03 · 5 answers · asked by Lone Knight 2 in Singles & Dating

I love a girl - I love her with my whole heart and unconditionally. I have told her my feeling last year but she said she just wanna be friends. However, my love does not diminish and instead it grows into something more. I have always offered my help and once I made a b'day card for her.

However, it seems that love is just not there. Last two days, we were texting each other and she told me she would help me with a school project that I am doing and she would probably meet me in the tuiton centre today. However, today, after waiting for four hours in the centre, she still does not appear.

I was surprised because in the previous text messages she seemed so unfriendly and she even told me the day she was planning to go to the tuition centre. She even asked me a few questions about the project.

Then I text her to tell her that I was waiting for her and her reply was a 'sorry'. Should I keep being there for her, waiting for her love? Or should I just..?

2007-03-21 03:06:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my girlfriend went on a blind date and told me her date had breath that smelled like garbage truck juice....and everytime he talked and said any word that started with "H" she kept think that she wanted to go back to his place and see if his plumbing was connect from his toilet to his sink cause his breath smelled so strong of shyt...Has anyone ever went on a date where you had to just end it before you passed out?

2007-03-21 03:06:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I caught him macking out with a nother girl But he has sent me flowers and chocs and says it wasnt his fault should I forget it and go out with him again?

2007-03-21 03:06:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 years old, single, an executive in a big company in New York City, my immediate lady supervisor is sexually harassing me by means of touching my private part everytime she get a chance, I already wanr her to stop. Should I file complain to our Human Resource?

2007-03-21 03:06:29 · 2 answers · asked by simple_guy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, first of all, I am 27 years old and I have 3 children of my own. (2 are in school) I have been helping my friend out for over a year now. Her and her husband make good money... she just got the job last year, but they have dug themselves so far into debt they cannot pay for "real" childcare. I'm talking about a new truck for $600 a month.... a leased vehicle for $750 a month for 4 years, payday loans, a title loan on another truck they still have, ATV payment, credit cards... list goes on and on. (They have 4 kids.... I watched the younger 2...others were in school) Anyways, their bills shouldn't be a concern but they are and this is why. I live on base.. I watched their girls for DIRT cheap. Well, I'm not certified and someone said something so I had to immediately stop watching them or get in trouble. They got very very mad and I haven't talked to them since. I was just wondering how people can expect things from other people like that? Its sad cuz I've done so much 4 them

2007-03-21 03:06:27 · 3 answers · asked by Megan 1 in Friends

manly enough? I have been dating this guy for 3 weeks now. I dont know how I feel about him. We have so much in common we could talk for hours, and he is really sweet, but I just dont think he is macho, manyly enough. My family doesnt understand why I am waistng my time with him. They think I could do better just because he is TO SOFT for a man. Is this wrong to think this?

2007-03-21 03:05:55 · 21 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Singles & Dating

the person of their dreams and is with them happily now? just wondered if the person of my dreams exists!

2007-03-21 03:05:35 · 10 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 03:05:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok me and my gurl have been goin out for 4 months, and im goin to her house on saturday and i dont know wat to do wit her. We have no money and no car so . Do yall have and idea of how to make somethin special for her happen. Oh and do u have and cute ideas of how to make somethin homemade

2007-03-21 03:04:28 · 14 answers · asked by Bre 1 in Singles & Dating

....I want to show EVERYONE my beautiful ring!!!! What cha think!??
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/krystal_dillard@sbcglobal.net/album?.dir=/25a5re2&.src=ph&.tok=pheG.dGBf6Wdrg8R

2007-03-21 03:03:29 · 30 answers · asked by The QUEEN of EVERYTHING! 2 in Weddings

....'speed sh*gging' as the birds who go to these things are so desperate you can go back to theirs for some action with 5 minutes of meeting them. Anyone tried it?

2007-03-21 03:03:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She was at my apartment visiting my girlfriend. My girlfriend
heard me ask the woman and really blew her stack. She siad
to never contact her again and left. What should I say to her to get her back since it has been a couple of weeks.

2007-03-21 03:02:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now he get angaged with a girl he dosn`t love .. and we are still 2gether .. although we`v tried 2 stop many times..
what should I do !! i`m still in love with him

2007-03-21 03:02:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the youngest sibling is insisting she inherits everything as she was closest to her and is refusing to allow us access to the house as she is the only 1 with a key. do the rest of us have any right to enter the house as her insurance & mortgage details need to be dealt with

2007-03-21 03:02:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if we dont know what..... how can we come up with the right answer???to the question that is...

2007-03-21 03:02:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everything about them...they way they care about you, the way they smile, they way they love and are always there for you, I could go on and on. They are God's gift to man, you cannot get any closer to God without women. :)

2007-03-21 03:00:56 · 14 answers · asked by Jp 1 in Singles & Dating

can anyone tell me

2007-03-21 02:59:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well the story is this.MSN last night I signed on to talk to a guy I like.As soon as I said hi he called me a troublemaker and a liar outa no where.I always thought he didn't like me because everytime we see each other I'm to shy to say hey and he doesn't say anything to me either and is always with his friends away from me.So last night I asked his best friend if he conciders me his friend(the guy i like and him) he just said "iunno" then said that the guy i like calls me gay and stuff all the time and doesn't like me outa no where.I asked him why he doesn't like me but he just said because I lie.I lied once but everyone got over it and moved on..it's 2 months later and all the sudden they start hating on me..his bestfriend says alot of things apparently the guy i like says about me but the guy i like never said any of this to my face.So I don't know who to believe..the guy I like...or the guy I likes best friend. The other problem is that they are popular and all there friends r 2

2007-03-21 02:59:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends