Am I a bootycall?

Question

What do you think about this?

Met a computer repair technician who came to fix my PC.. Was really hot so we flirted for a bit. Real chemistry I thought. So he fixes me up and he leaves then comes back a few minutes later and asks if I would like to meet him for a drink sometime. I say sure call me.

A week goes by, nothing.

Then I get a text at 1 am saying, and I quote ‘hi, how are you this evening’. I didn’t respond.

He calls 3 pm that day and I was a bit cool when he confirmed that he indeed sent the text cause he was ‘bored’ and waiting for a programme to start on tv. He proceeds to ask me out, and I say a cool ‘I’ll get back to you’. But I am bored and lonely so 1 day later I called him back and said sure.

His grand date plan is to go to the movies to at 9pm. So at first I was like cool, and then I was like what about drinks first and he said sure.

Do you think that it is weird that he would plan the first date to be at the movies, in the dark, at 9pm? Without even considering meeting for diiner or drinks before? Why do I feel like I am a bootycall?

I am 29. presumably (hopefully) he is in his 30’s

Answer 1

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You're both grown, doesn't mean that it is a bootycall.
Because regardless if you answered the phone or not at 1am, doesn't mean you have to invite him over OR him asking. Maybe he was bored and wanted to chit-chat with you to see how things progress.
Nah, I don't think it's a problem with going to the movies after 9pm - maybe he's a romantic type of guy - won't know until you know more about him.
BUT - keep your guards up because (note here) MEN will test the boundaries to see how far they can get.
Don't be offended, stick to your morals/values, and if he's truly interested - he'll respect that.
If he acts upset or tries to give you a guilt trip, then end it - because he has to invest time to KNOW you. Tell him you're not into the misdirection games.

Good luck, babygirl

Answer 2

I think that the text message at 1 am is a bit strange since you don't really know the guy. It would be different if you knew each other and he knew that you would be awake. I don't see anything wrong with going to the movies on a first date. If you feel like you are a booty call, then you probably are, you have a better sense of exactly how things have happened. You have the control of not letting yourself be a booty call. That may be his intentions, but you most certainly do not have to go there!

Answer 3

I don't think you should even go out with this guy, it sounds like he is playing games already and doesn't sound very mature. If someone wants to "date" you then the plans would be to go out to dinner and then to a movie, how are you going to get to know each other? you can't talk in the movie theatre and may be the reason why he didn't mention drinks or dinner before could be because he's just a cheapo... you can find a better guy that wants to wine and dine you!... don't start on the wrong foot.... PLUS you already feel like something is up.... probably because it is.... your gut is telling you something!!!

Answer 4

Movies are a standard first date some guys would rather go to the movies so they don't have to talk much . I think if it was a booty call he would of asked you to meet at his house or maybe for drinks only to get you drunk or a bit tipsy. That is my opinion. Personally I would rather go do something fun on a first date.

Answer 5

Sorry to say this... but it sounds like he's probably just cheap.

You'll get guys like that from time to time. His interest seems limited... but then again, he's a computer repair tech... he might just be shy and awkward... and inexperienced.

Or cheap. Although that text at 1 AM is a little suspicious.

Answer 6

you have the wrong concept of booty call... booty call i would considered it if he invited you for drinks.. and then back to his or your place... a movie? sounds like just wanting to hang out.. maybe get to see how you are.. then maybe discuss after.. what happens after the movie can lead to ur question... depending what his next move is.. but really as of now NO bootycall intentions...

Answer 7

Women never listen to their inner voice. Listen to yourself. I have no idea if youre a booty call or not but it doesnt sound too good. the fact that he sent you a text so late says he doesnt respect you. I would pass this one up. Listen to yourself!

Answer 8

i am gon to be honet probably he does c u as a bootycall,,,, but i dnt think so seeing as tho u probably wnt be givin him any,,,,,,

what u got to realise is that most inexperienced guys dnt know where exactly to carry a girl on a first date,,, so they carry them somewhere that they feel comfortable n the girl cant really c them ,,,,,
so u decide ok hun...

n besides bein a bootycall aint that bad....

Answer 9

he just sound like smart guy... he is trying to make sure that he is going some where before he spend money on you...

if he is cute gur use him... is good to have a booty call for those lonely nights,,, while you still search for the right one

Answer 10

You feel like it because you probably are! Listen to your gut instinct!