now he get angaged with a girl he dosn`t love .. and we are still 2gether .. although we`v tried 2 stop many times..
what should I do !! i`m still in love with him
2007-03-21 03:02:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he loved you then he wouldn't be engaged to someone else. When it's all said and done he is going to marry the other woman. He could just be using you as the extra woman. You have to ask if you would really want a guy who would propose to a girl and then cheat on her behind her back? What would stop him from doing it to you? Maybe he was doing it with this girl when he was with you!
If you really want to be with him then you need to tell him how you feel. You can't just let him gett married to someone else without atleast doing that. You will be stuck thinking "what if." You have to tell him that you made a mistake in not agreeing to marry him and YOU need to propose to him in order to have any chance of getting him back.
2007-03-21 03:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
selam aleykum, bcuz all muslims are and it is becuz allah (s.w.t.) allowed us; and now we can in effortless terms think of why: nicely if u think of that a guy can do extra babys with 4 females u might think of wow thats mushy for the persons, and then if u think of a woman ought to marry 4 adult men u see there isnt the convenience like a guy might marry 4 females. in circumstances of conflict that's a super ingredient to refull the inhabitants. anyhow we shouldnt ask to each rule, why? salam :>
2016-10-02 12:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound wayyyy too harsh but what you are doing right now is really wrong. I mean you are helping him cheat. and you are doing it in the name of love. I myself dont really believe in love but I believe that people who believe in love usually think that love is blind(including your cultural problem) meaning that you cant be in love with someone if you still consider that as a problem. You are not being true to yourself, are you relly in love with him??? or are you just comfortable in having him???
I say, marry him, or just let him go. Dont play around with his heart(dont play around with that poor girls heart!)
2007-03-21 03:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by AsiH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should realize that we all are different and if you care about him the differences will make you stronger.
2007-03-21 03:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by selena d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋