i am thinking about waxing down there, but i am scared of the pain...is the pain that bad ladies?? my husband woodnt kno the difference right....????well i need some support.... go hairy or not??
2007-03-21 03:34:18 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
WOW the pain is intense!!!!! And what difference does it make neither of you are expecting anything then just each other right??? I guess it's a personal choice and it's really up to you, you could just trim with some hair clippers or shave with a razor I wouldn't do the waxing it really hurts... I'm sure your husband wouldn't mind either way, he loves you and he just wants to be with you no matter what!!! AND WOW CONGRATS ON THE VIRGINITY I WISH THERE WERE MORE GIRLS AND GUYS OUT THERE LIKE YOU FOR MY GIRLS TO LOOK UP TO THANKS FOR SETTING A GREAT EXAMPLE!!!!!!
2007-03-21 03:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by B-E-B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Trim it up, leave maybe a little strip down the middle, that's sexy, but has less potential to discomfort him as completely hairless. Personally, I like it clean shaven, but I have heard of some guys being turned off by it. Might sound silly, but do some research, there's plenty of nude models on the Internet, it doesn't even have to be porn, just nude. Look around and pick out a 'hairdo' that you would feel comfortable with.
2007-03-21 03:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by Rhyno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on being a virgin before marriage! True he won't know the difference, but I think you'll both benefit from your being more manicured. If you don't want to go completely bald, then have it at least smoothed around the lips and then have the little landing strip. I personally prefer bald (and so does my fiance) but it's every woman's choice. YES it will hurt, and since it's your first time (waxing) I would suggest getting it done at least a week before the wedding. That way you'll have time to heal and the redness will go away. Good luck!
2007-03-21 03:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. My husband and I were each other's firsts. 2. I got a complete brazilian wax once. 3. It took a long time to wax and it was painful. Let me just tell you that my husband was excited about it but when I got it, he didn't like it. He thought I looked like a teenage girl. Also, I found that not having any hair down there made me sore after sex. I would not suggest getting a complete wax, I would say either be well-trimmed and groomed or go for something in between. Good luck!
2007-03-21 05:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...if he is a virgin, than he will be happy hairy or hairless just to be doin it. But I think that most guys prefer hairless. I have never waxed. I just shave. It is alot more painless and works just as good...It just takes a little more time.
BTW...That is awesome that yall both waited. I really look up to people that do that. wish I would have waited.
2007-03-21 03:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ sweet-n-low ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get waxed "down there" every 4 weeks. I will be honest, the first time you get waxed it sucks, there is a little pain involved, but the results are so worth it. If you are going to get it done, I would suggest getting waxed a few days before your wedding to let the redness go down and swelling if there is any. It really isnt that bad and it only takes like 25 minutes, so it isnt like you are in agony for hours. After that it feels like a small sunburn, no biggie.
Congrats!
2007-03-21 03:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by slim27 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't suggest going completely hairless. Just trim it up to make it look nice. My hubby and I were both virgins we got married too. If you feel comfortable with how you look that night, that will be the biggest turn-on for him. Believe me, both of you will to be to excited to really care about anything else...it won't really matter. It does hurt quite a bit, but you will get used to it. Take my advice...just trim. You'll be fine...enjoy!
2007-03-21 06:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all congratulations on your upcoming wedding and being a virgin. This day in society that is extremely rare, Kudos to you!
Secondly why do you feel the need to go bald down there? Do you have an Amazon Forest or perhaps a small thicket of shrubbery? If you feel embarrassed about the size of your Forest then trim it, but do not necessarily go totally barren like the desert. There is a reason you have stayed virgin through now, for both of you. Do not unnecessarily mess up with what God has given you-- a beautiful body and mind.
Best wishes.
2007-03-21 03:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by Leafs Rule! 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
what are you thinking??? and what does waxing have to do with being a virgin?
go natural all the way. why wax hairless? only infants and children have no hair there - and even if he is a virgin, a grown man should be aware of this. and yes, waxing anywhere is painful. just think about how awful (and itchy) it will be when the hair starts to grow back.
2007-03-21 03:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by SmartAleck 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I guess its up to you. I am about to have my first wax done in 2 weeks myself. I guess it depends on the preferences of the guy too. My husband asked me to leave a little hair on because no hair would freak him out.
As for pain, I know it will hurt but I have given birth 4 times. If its worse than that, then I'm doomed!
Just go for it if its what you want. Personally I hate my hair so I am all too pleased to say goodbye to it.
2007-03-21 03:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Sardo Numspa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋